Ukuze ufunde ukujamelana noxinzelelo, umntwana kufuneka akhulise amandla okuqonda xa iimvakalelo ezungezekileyo, uxinzelelo, uxanduva, luqala ukubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kuye. Tshela umntwana wakho ngamacandelo alulwe apha ngezantsi ukuze aqonde indlela yokujongana noxinzelelo.
1. Funda ukubamba umzuzu xa uqala ukukhathazeka
Qaphela xa ilizwi lakho elingaphakathi lithi: "Ndixhala ngenxa yokuba ..." Ingaba uvavanyo oluzayo lwezematika, umdlalo obalulekileyo (kwibhola, masithi). Nika ingqalelo kwizenzo eziphazamisayo ngokukodwa, umzekelo: ukuhamba ngeenyawo ngaphantsi, ukukhupha iinkophezelo kunye nokuzama ukuqonda izizathu zokuxhalabisa kwakho.
2. Cela uncedo
Awunakuyenza yonke into wena. Cela umntu ukuba ancede. Kungcono ukuba ngumntu osondeleyo, umzekelo, abazali. Nangona uthetha nje oko uvakalelwa ngoku ngoku, kuya kunceda ukuphelisa ukhathazeka kweentlanzi. Kodwa, kwakhona, kungcono ukuba umntu osondelene kakhulu: Umama okanye uTata.
3. Yenza icebo lesenzo sokunqoba ubunzima
Hlukanisa ingxaki enkulu kwiingcinci, ezilula ukuziphatha. Ukuba uzama ukujamelana nomsebenzi omkhulu kwangoko, umngcipheko woxinzelelo uxhoma.
4. Khangela iiklasi ezikunceda ukhululeke
Omnye unceda ukuphulaphula umculo, umntu uhamba, uthetha nomhlobo - ezi ndlela zempilweni zokujongana neentlanzi, ezinceda ukuphazamisa, uze uqale ukucombulula iingxaki ngemikhosi emitsha.
5. Cinga ngendlela ochaza ngayo ukuhluleka
Ngaba uzigxeka? Ukubeka isohlwayo kunye nokuthatha uxanduva kukuziintlobo ezimbini. Iindwendwe zizitshitshisa, kodwa izithemba azenzi. Ungalokothi uthi "Andikwazi ukugqithisa ukuvavanya, kuba ndiyindenge." Kuchanekile ngakumbi ukuba "andinakuyidlulisa ukuvavanya, kuba andizange ndinikele ingqalelo ngokwaneleyo kwezinye izinto." Kwimeko yokugqibela, unethuba lokutshintsha into ezayo kwiimeko ezifanayo, uya kukwazi ukuqwalasela amava akho. Ukuzithoba kukuyindlela yokuzibhubhisa: kukukwenza uzive ungenamandla, nangona kunjalo, awukho.
6. Gcina ulawulo xa ubhekene nobunzima
Unelungelo lokutya nokulala! Xa udinga ukwenza okuninzi, qalisa ukujongana neemfuno ezisisiseko, ngaphandle kokunye umsebenzi ongenakuvelisa: ulale kwaye udle. Ukuba oko kungenziwanga, imikhosi yomzimba womntu iya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza.
7. Gxotha imizwa enamandla
Kwiphepha ledayari ungabonisa ingqumbo, ukudideka okanye udabu. Xa ubhala ngamava akho, udlulisela iimvakalelo zakho kwiphepha. Kunceda ukuba uqaphele ukuba iingxaki zisemva.
8. Beka iinjongo zakho
Ngaba ndingaba ngumlawuli weqela lebhola lebhola lelizwe? Ngaba ndinokudlula yonke imviwo le semester "eyona nto"? Funda ukusekela iinjongo ezifikelelekayo uze uye ekufezeni.
9. Phambili
Kukho ixesha apho kubonakala ukuba kufuneka wenze zonke izinto ehlabathini. Kubalulekile ukukhupha konke okungeyomfuneko kwaye wenze isicwangciso, ngokwezinto eziphambili kwimisebenzi.
Umzekelo:
- ukugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo;
- lungise uvavanyo;
- uhambe uhambo.
Funda ukugqiba oko kubaluleke kwaye ugxininise kulo.
10. Bounce
Ukufudumala kuya kukunika amandla kwaye kukuncede uzive ukhululekile kwaye unamandla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kufuneka wenze ntoni ngaphezulu, thabatha ixesha elingaphandle, ugijime, ugibele ibhayisikili, ugibele, udlale ithente ... ngokubanzi, nayiphi na into eyenziwa yinto oyithandayo!