Ndiyiphakamisa, okokuqala, sinqume ukuba ungubani? Hayi, ndiyaqonda ukuba uyazi ubulili bakho ixesha elide, kodwa andingathethi ngalokhu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uvile ukuba ngaphakathi komntu ngamnye uhlala nomntu wangaphakathi (apha - VM) kunye nomfazi ongaphakathi (apha - VZh). Ngokuqhelekileyo, baqaphela izenzo zakho, izenzo kunye nokuziphatha. Ukongeza kubo, usenayo ngokwakho, oko kukuthi, Isizathu sakho sisekelwe kwi-Will yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha izimvo zaloo zintathu zihambelana, ngamanye amaxesha ziyahlukana, kwaye ke awunanto yonke into oyikhethayo Ingqondo, oko nguwe.
Cinga ukuba i-VM kunye neVZ ihlala inxalenye yehlabathi lakho eliphakathi. Makhe sibone ukuba umntu umele ntoni, apho i-VM isebenzela i-90% yendawo yangaphakathi, kunye ne-VZ-10%. Ucinga ntoni?
Ukuba le nto ingumntu, ke le yindoda eyaziwayo. Uyazizithemba, ulaka, kunye neempawu zobunkokheli. Abantu abanjalo bazifumana kwizixhobo zamandla okanye izinto ezikhethekileyo. Ukongeza, banokuba ngabaphathi bezoshishino, abadlali, abaphandi kunye njalo. Ngobudlelwane nabasetyhini, ngokwemvelo, bahlala kwisikhundla esiphambili, oko kukuthi, bafanelekile abo bameli bebhinqa abanokuzithoba. Bayamkela indlela nokuziphatha komntu onjalo. Bonke abanye, abazimeleyo abazimeleyo kunye nabafazi abaqaphelayo, kunye nomntu onjalo kuya kuba nzima, kuba kukho amanani amaninzi oqhagamshelwano.
Yintoni eyenzekayo ukuba i-90% yabemi ihlala kumfazi? Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi onamandla, okhalilileyo, ozimeleyo onesimo somntu wesimo nokuziphatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abameli abanobuthathaka obunamandla, bazifumana kwezopolitiko, ishishini, kuba bahle ekudlaleni imidlalo yemidlalo nokubonisa umntu.
Abafazi abanjalo baneengxaki ezingapheliyo ebomini babo. Inketho eqhelekileyo - indoda ihlabayo ngaphandle, kodwa emva kweentlanganiso ezininzi ziphela. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba amadoda aqhelekileyo awanqabile ukuba athandwe ngabantu. Ngokuchanekileyo, abafazi abanjalo banomdla kumadoda ane-VZH eyaziwayo. Kufana namadoda ... kodwa bahlala befuna into efana nokukhala kwisibambiso okanye ihlombe lomntu onamandla.
Kwimeko apho loo mfazi uvuma ukulawula kwakhe, unokudala isibini esitshatileyo kunye nesinye isibhinqa esichazwe ngeVZH.
Makhe sicinge ngenye indlela embi - umntu, apho i-V4 ithatha i-90%
Ibhinqa. Yonke imangalisayo, ibhinqa, ithanda abantwana kunye nosapho, izinto zekhaya kunye njalo. Amadoda amaninzi atyathwa kubafazi abanjalo, kuba abayakheli nabani na kwaye banomlingiswa ophantsi.
Le ndoda. Kunoko buthathaka, buthambile, bubukhali. Abasetyhini, njengomthetho, abanomdla kuye, ngoko ekugqibeleni baba ngongqingili kwiimeko ezininzi.
Siye saqwalasela izinto ezinzulu kakhulu, ininzi yethu, ngokuqinisekileyo, sihlala kwiindawo eziphakathi. Ukuba lo uyindoda ene-VM ebalulekileyo, ke lo ngumntu oqhelekileyo onokuziphatha komntu. Ukuba ibhinqa linamandla kwi-VZ, ke lona ngumfazi oqhelekileyo kunye nesimo sakhe sesimlo esifanayo .
Indlela yokujongana ngesondo? Oko kukuthi, ziziphi iingxaki, ezinkulu kunye ezincinci, zivela kule nkalo?
Ibhinqa eneVM ephezulu iya kuba neengxaki zokufumana iqabane njengaloo nto, oku kuthetha iingxaki zesini.
Indoda ene-VM eqinile iya kuba neengxaki ekujonganeni nabasetyhini abazimeleyo nabaphuhlisiwe. Kwimeko apho ithandwa kuloo nto, ubunzima abuphepheki.
Ulwalamano oluhambelanayo luvame ukusekwa phakathi kwendoda ene-VM engama-60-75% ibhinqa eneVZ kwindawo enye. Ama-30-40% aseleyo aya kunika idilesi yokunxibelelana ngokukhululekile kunye nokuqonda ngokuvisisana ngesini esahlukileyo.
Kukho incwadi enjalo - i-Tantra yodwa. Umlobi walo, u-Atma, ubhala ukuba i-VM yethu kunye ne-VZ bathathe inxaxheba ebomini bethu kwaye batyelele abo bafana nabo.
Ukongezelela, ithetha ukuba i-VM yethu kunye ne-VZ siyiyo, kodwa ekuzalweni kwangaphambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuqinisekisa oku. Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso ihlala ingenakuqonda ngokungazi kakuhle ebomini bethu abantu abafana nantoni na. Kucinga ukuba lo ngumsebenzi we-VM yethu kunye ne-VZ, unokuqikelela ukuba ukhangeleka njani nokuba zibukeka njani kwaye ziphi. Ndiyicinga ukuba inomdla kakhulu, kwaye, ngelo xesha, ngokulula.
VZh.
Ukuba ungumfazi, ngoko malunga neentombi zakho, ziziphi iimpawu zobuntu kunye nedatha yangaphandle abanayo. Fumana into efanayo kwaye ungacinga ukuba nguyena nto iVZ yakho ibonakala ngayo, ukudala inkampani kunye nabafazi abasondeleyo.
Kuyolonwabo ngakumbi ukuba uzibonele kwaye uqonde ukuba yiziphi iimpawu onakho ngobuninzi, kwaye ubona ungathandeki kuwe. Ukuzama ukubalahla, kodwa akukho nto eyenzekayo. Ngokomzekelo, unamathele kakhulu kwizinto ozithandayo. Kungokwemvelo ukuba indoda ingakulungele ukuthwala umthwalo wembopheleleko yowesifazane oye washiya ngokucacileyo ukuba ngumntu ongeyena kuphela ubomi bakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo, uqonda ukuba le mfanelo iyakuthintela, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Mhlawumbi oku kuhambelana ne-VG yakho, enexabiso eliphantsi kwaye uloyiko lokuba uhlale wedwa.
Ukuba ungumntu, khumbula izixhobo zangaphandle kunye zangaphakathi zabakhethiweyo. Kungenzeka ukuba unamaxesha amaninzi owakhiwe ubudlelwane kunye nabasetyhini obubonakala ngokulinganayo. Ubude, ubunzima, njl .. okanye kunye nezici ezifanayo. Ukuba ulawula ukwahlula iinkcukacha ezifanayo kwaye wenze i-portrait esondeleyo-yiyo i-VZH yakho.
VM.
Ukuba ungumfazi, jonga emva - kunye nawaphi amadoda ohlala uwakha ubudlelwane, abantu abahlala behlangana nabo ebomini bakho. Yintoni abafana ngayo, njalo njalo. Kwaye, apha, asikhulumi ngento enokuthi, mhlawumbi, ufuna, kodwa malunga namaqabane oqobo.
Umzekelo, ngamaphupha uyazibona unomntu oqinileyo, onesibindi, onenkathalo kwaye okhuselekileyo, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Kwaye, ngokwenene, usichitha ixesha kunye neenkampani ezingenakuziphendulela, eziyolisayo kwaye awukwazi ukucinga ngomso. Kule meko, lo ngumntu wakho ongaphakathi. Kwaye nguye okhetha inkampani, ngokuchasene neminqweno yesizathu sakho.
Ukuba ungumntu, jonga abahlobo bakho nabahlobo abasondeleyo. Cinga ngezinto abafana ngazo. Bangakwazi ukufana nani, kwaye bahluke kakhulu. Kwimeko yokugqibela, kunokukho iingxaki eziza kudala i-VM yakho.
Ngokomzekelo, unengqiqo kakhulu, uhlala uphazamisekile. Kwaye abahlobo bakho banamadoda abaxhamlayo kunye neengxaki. Kungenzeka ukuba i-VM yakho yile nto, kwaye iya kukhangela ngezikhathi ezithile izenzo ezingafani nawe (ngokukhawuleza nocatshulwayo).
Ukuba izinto eziqhelekileyo azibonakali.
Musa ukwethuka okanye wenze izinto ngokukhawuleza ukwenzela ukubonakalisa into efanayo kubangani bakho kunye namantombazana. Into efanelekileyo kakhulu ayinakuyenza nantoni na. Hlala uphinde ujamelane neengxaki usebenzisa intloko.
Kutheni oku kwenzeka? Ezinye iingcamango zibanga ukuba amaninzi amaninzi angaphila ngaphakathi kuthi, kwaye ngamnye wabo uhamba nomhlobo okanye intombi. Ngako oko, akukho namnye kubo olawulayo, kwaye ukutyhila into eqhelekileyo kunzima. Okuqhelekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, masibuyele kwiingxaki ezinkulu kunye ezincinci zesini kuba abo banenhlanhla ukutyhila iimpawu eziphambili ze-VM yabo okanye i-VZH.
Ukusombulula iingxaki.
Kunqabile kakhulu, xa unelisekile ngazo zonke iimpawu onayo. Ndihlala ndifuna ukutshintsha, ukulungisa, ukususa, njalo njalo. Emva kokuba ufunde malunga nabasebenzi bakho abahlala kuwe, zikho izizathu ezingakumbi zokulawula kwangaphakathi. Ingakumbi ixhalabisa loo matyala xa i-VM yangaphakathi okanye i-VZ idala iingxaki kuwe.
Kukho iingcamango ezininzi ezibiza ukuba ungatshintsha i-VM yakho kunye ne-VZ. Ngokukodwa, oku yi-Psychosynthesis kunye ne-NLP. Kukho izihloko ezizodwa ezizinikezelwe kulo. Ukuba unomnqweno kunye nethuba lokunxibelelana neengcali kule ndawo, ngoko unokukwenza. Nangona kunjalo, ukunyanisekisa amandla abo akufanelekanga, ngabantu nje.
Ukuba akukho bantu banjalo, umsebenzi onobuchule unako kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngokwakho. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa eziphambili kule nkqubo.
1. Ukuchonga ukuxhomekeka kwabo ngokubalulekayo - sele sisebenzisana nale nto.
2. Ukubonakala. Khawucinge ngabo, umzekelo kwiskrini sangaphakathi, xa uvala amehlo akho.
3.Conclusion kunye nokukholisa. Ukunyusa inxalenye engafanelekanga, ungaphazamisi ubomi bakho.
4. Ukuqwalaselwa. Jonga uphinde uhlalutye oko kutshintshile kwaye kutshintshile.
Ngokomzekelo, thabatha kwakhona, ngokugqithiseleyo indoda ene-10% yeVZH. Kumele amcele ukuba athathe indawo engaphezulu kuyo. Emva koko, kufuneka uzive uncinane uze uvumele ukubonisa. Hayi njalo .. nangona uhlobo oluthile lwexesha elithandanayo .. umzekelo, kumdaniso okanye ngesondo. Mhlawumbi oku kuza kusombulula zonke iingxaki zakhe embhedeni ... kwaye indoda yona iya kuba yiplastiki kwaye ikhululekile ..
Ibhinqa elinzima elinama-80% iVM lingaphinda licele i-VM ukwenza indawo encinane kwaye inike i-VG indawo engaphezulu. Unokumcela ukuba abonise ubuncinci kunye nobuthakathaka. Ngokwemvelo, i-VM ingakwazi ukuphikisa ngokubhikisha - ukulahleka okukhoyo kwishishini kunye njalo. Lungiselela oku kwaye ucinge ngesimo sakho esekelwe kwinto yokuba iya kuba ngcono kuwo wonke umntu.
Kwaye ngoko ke kunomdla kakhulu - ukuba ubona ukuba okwangoku ummandla wenzalo, uthi, VZ, ngoko umxelele ngengqondo ukuba azenzele. Emva koko, vumela ulawulo lwangaphakathi kwaye uqaphele okwenzeka kumzimba wakho nokuziphatha. Ewe, umphumo awubonakali ngokukhawuleza, kufuna ukuphinda usebenzise amaxesha ama-5 ukuya kuma-10.
Nantsi into ephambili kukukholelwa kuwe. Yaye uya kuzibona - imimangaliso eyenzekayo.
Kunokuba kuphelile?
Kuyaziwa ukuba indlela iyaziwa ngokusesikweni, uyazi apho. Ingozi ebalulekileyo kukuba udideke ngakumbi. Ekuqaleni wedwa, kwaye ngoku kukho abathathu kuni. Ngubani ojongene neenguqu ezifunekayo kunye nendlela yokugcina imeko? Kulula ukudideka kwaye ube ngumntu onzima kwaye ophikisanayo. Yaye ukuba ngaba ootitshala bakho baqalisa ukwakha imingcele phakathi kwabo? Sekunokuthunga i-psychic engaqhelekanga kwaye inobungozi obukhethekileyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukuhlala kwinqanaba lempilo yengqondo yinto oyifunayo. Azikho izisombululo kwiingxaki zesini, njengoko uyaziqonda. Ngoko ke, ukuba uzimisele ukufumana amava kunye nokungabaza okuqhubekayo, kungcono ukuba ungathinti abantu bakho. Phila njengoko uhlala kwaye wenza ezinye izinto.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukwenza iqabane lakho lobudlelwane bokuphila okanye ukungafani nesini nesifiso socansi kuwe, kunzima - uyiphutha. Makhe sicinge ngendlela elula okanye, bhetele ukutsho, imeko.
Ukuxinezeleka.
Yonke into iyaziwa ukuba uxinzelelo luseburhulumenteni obuqinileyo, esiphila sisimo sethu sokuphila sisongelo ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuvuya kule meko kuyinto engathandekiyo, ayikho nxu lumene novuko lwezesondo. Thelekisa ubulili kunye nokuxininisa kunye-kunye nesondo. Umzekelo, umhlobo wakho ujabule, okanye ukhangeleke, okanye ubona i-sexy blonde enobubanzi obungama-4 m kwaye uqhubela kuwe. Kwaye awukho emoyeni okanye ukhubekile. Yichitha, yenza umdla ngakumbi, uze ubonise yonke into oyicingayo. Ubunono busebenza ngokucacileyo-ngoku ubeke ekhanda lakhe ukuba isondo liyingozi yoshishino, kuba bonke abantu abayithandi loo nto. Phinda le meko eziliqela, kwaye oko kuya kukwanela. Unako, ukuze udibanise umphumo, tshela into efana nale "ekupheleni kwesi simo singcono kwaye ungaqali" kwaye unokucinga ukuba ukulala naye kuphelile. Ngokukodwa kunye nawe.
Kuyafana nakwabaseTyhini - ixabisa indoda ihlandlo ezimbalwa ukukhupha izilumko malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesini kunye nomzimba wakhe kuya kwenza isigqibo esifanayo: kutheni kufuneka ndibe nolonwabo oluxinzelelekileyo? Kunjalo. A yi funeki. Ngelo xesha, ubudlelwane obubanzi buhlala buhle.
Indlela yokusombulula iingxaki zesini?
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uqaphele ukuba unqabile ukuba unesimo esilumkileyo, ulindele ukuzonwabisa ngocansi ngenxa yokuba umntu wakucaphukisa, wenzakalisa okanye uhlazisile kulo mhlaba, yenza ubungani bakho! Yibone ngeso lengqondo, thumela umlambo wonke wothando, uthando kunye nesisa. Inokusebenza. Ukongezelela, unokwenza uloyiko lwakho kwaye wenze uhlobo oluthile lolwaphulo. Ngokomzekelo, zixelele - "Ndiyesaba ukulala ngesondo, kuba ndiyesaba ukungaqondwa kakuhle okanye imeko ehlekisayo." Emva koko yenza inkcazo ngentsingiselo echaseneyo - "Ndivulelekile kwisondo, ndiyaziqhayisa njalo kwaye ndifumana uvuyo lwangempela kwisini". Emva koko, kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye namandla ukuphinda uphinde ubhale kwakhona ukufakela kwakho amaxesha amaninzi, ukuze ukwazi ukuwuthabatha lo myalelo uze uwuthathe isikhundla sengqondo esibi.
Ngamagama, kukho kuphela ithuba lokuzenza ngcono, ufanele wenze umzamo uze ube nomonde.
Amandla ambi.
Ngokucacileyo, isondo siphucula impilo. Kodwa, ukuze ulale ngesondo, kufuneka ube nalo ubuncinane ubuninzi. Ukwabelana ngesondo - njengemfundo yenyama, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lihlekisayo kangakanani. Kwaye akubalulekanga imfucu yakho, kodwa kunoko isimo sengqondo kunye namandla angaphakathi. Oko kukuthi, ukuba unomsindo okanye ubuthongo obubi, awuyi kuba namandla emfundo yempilo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba unomoya ophelileyo, ugcwele amandla, uze uqhubeke ... akufuneki kubekho iingxaki zesini ... ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abantu abajongene nayo. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, uhlala usoloko wakho, ngoko ungalahleki.
Okubi kakhulu imeko xa ubukhulu becala ixesha eliphambili lomsebenzi wakho, uphelile okanye ucinezelekile ... yonke ingqalelo yakho igxininise kulo, kwaye ingqalelo apho kukho amandla. Akunjalo ukuya kwisondo ... ubuncinane.
Njani ukusombulula?
Impendulo iyabonakala-ukukrazula yonke into engeyiyo, ukufumana amandla, ukulala. Kodwa, akwanele. Kungenzeka ukuba awuqhelwanga ukubeka ingqalelo kwizitho zakho zobulili - ngokwenene, cinga, yiyiphi into engafanelekanga, sele ndinezinto ezininzi ezinokuzenza.
Khumbula - amandla aya kubuthelela apho kukho ingqalelo yakho. Ngoko, kwimeko yakho, iya kusetyenziswa ekuxazululeni ingxaki elandelayo emsebenzini okanye kwimeko yendlu. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwandisa ubulili bakho - ekufundeni iincwadi ezinobomi okanye ukubukela i-movie ye-porn, ukuhlaziya (ngaphandle kokuphela). Kubafazi, enye indlela efanelekileyo yokwandisa ubulili besini iyacinga.
Amathoyizi.
EMpuma, ixesha elide elidlulileyo, baqonda ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bezesondo kwaye baququzelela inkoliso yezindlela zokulungisa iingxaki zesini - ezinkulu kunye ezincinci.
Abafazi kulokhu bangasebenzisa iithayi ezikhethekileyo ngendlela yeebhola okanye amaqanda ... iiglasi, ilitye okanye iplastiki. Kwenzeka ntoni kule meko? Umzimba wakwamanye amazwe ujabulisa umfazi kwaye ukhangele apho ubushushu kunye nokuqwalasela, oku kuthetha amandla! Kuxutywa ngokumnandi emzimbeni wakho ... ukumisa uqeqesho olungapheliyo lweengcamango! Kukho impembelelo emithathu:
- Ukwanda kwezesondo, uvula ubuso obutsha
- uyeke ukuqhuba okungadingekanga kweengcamango, ukhululeke, ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi kuphakama
- Ukwandisa amandla akho, okwandisa amathuba okuphumelela kwakho endleleni eya kwimisebenzi.
Yintoni esinayo? Ulwaphulo lwezesondo ngokoqobo.
Kubantu abanjengeetayipi, ngelanga alikho. Nangona kunjalo, isiqhamo somcabango wakho kunye neqabane elikufutshane sinokwenza izinto ezimangalisayo. Ekugqibeleni, cinga nge ... yiziphi iingxaki zesini ozenzayo ... nokuba ungabelana nazo ngokwakho usebenzisa iindlela ezingentla okanye ufuna uncedo lomlingane.
Umgudu omncinci kwaye konke uya kuphumelela.