Ubundlobongela kunye nobulili

Ngengqiqo yindoda - ngubani okhululekileyo, ongabandakanyekanga - abafazi banqunywe ngumfazi okanye inkosikazi ngokukongezwa kwe-epithet ephazamisayo "ephakade".

Ubumnandi bamba inkumbulo uhlobo olucacileyo, kwaye kumntu ngamnye kwindlela yobomi babini abagqithisileyo babesetyhini bahlanganisane ngokuqinisekileyo: banokubizwa ngeendlela zonke: umfazi ongunaphakade kunye nomfazi ongunaphakade, umfazi obulalayo kunye nomva othembekileyo, "umama" kunye "nohenyukazi," njengoko kuchazwe ngabo U-Otto Weininger, owathi ekuqaleni kwekhulu-ntshicilelo wencwadi ethi "Ubundlobongela kunye nomntu", okwakusasaza ingxabano eshushu.
Akuyimfuneko ukuba ngamnye umfazi ungowomhlobo okanye umfazi ongunaphakade, okanye umfazi ongunaphakade.

Kutheni encinane kangaka? Nangona umfazi odibanisa ngempumelelo zombini, nokuba encinci, kodwa uhamba ngokusondeleyo kwenye yezi zibonda. Ungathethi abameli abaqhakazileyo.

UKUQHUBEKA NJENGOBUHLULEYO

Ngandlela-thile ihlobo lokufudumala ehlobo e-dacha intatheli-ntsha ehlangeneyo yabutha inkampani ehloniphekileyo yolutsha. Amantombazana amakhwenkwe ayingqungquthela ayegqoke i jeans elula kunye neT-shirts, kodwa ukhangelelwano olujongwa ngokukhawuleza luza kugqiba ukuba iindleko zezinto zide emva kweengubo ezininzi "zokugqoka" kwiimarike zokugqoka. Abantu abaselula, bezama ukungahambi emva kwamantombazana ekuphuculweni kwemilinganiselo, batywala ngokukhawuleza kwaye banomncintiswano kwi-erudition. Umoya we-chic wepikiniki wawuphazamiseka ngokubonakala okungalindelekanga kwesihlobo somnini we-dacha. Wayeneminyaka engama-10 ubudala kunamantombazana ayenayo, ekubonweni kwabo amlingana naye kwixesha elifanayo njengoClara Zetkin. Wayegqoke iintambo ze-fishnet, izithende eziphakamileyo, inkwenkwezi engamhloneli uThixo kunye nemilomo eluhlaza. Ngelixa iintombazana zibukeka zingabonakali ngokubonakalisa ukungadibanisi okungafaniyo kokungcola okunjalo, ubuso babo badibanisa nabo babecala. Kwi-blink yelihlo, ukuphazamisa iingxoxo ezicokisekileyo malunga neBerg neentombi zakhe, zikhanya ngamehlo aqhakazile malunga nomfazi osandul 'ukufika, efuna ukuthetha ama-anecdotes angenangqondo aze azifudumise ngeglasi emva kweglasi. Ngentsasa, kwafumanisa ukuba le ntombi yayinyamalale. Kuye kunye naye, omnye wabantu abancinci, abangazange bafumaneke emini okanye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, belahlekile. Xa abazali bexhalabile, sele befuna ukuya kumapolisa, le ntombazana yavela kunye nezijikelezo ezigqithiseleyo phantsi kwamehlo akhe kunye ne-stock cash stock. Kwavela ukuba, kunye nomntu okhankanywe ngasentla, wathatha uhambo olungenakuvakalisa ukuya eSt. Petersburg ngokumisa kuzo zonke iindawo zokutya. Xa, ngokuzikhusela kwakhe, le ntombazana yathi yadibana nomfazi okwenene kwaye, mhlawumbi, yamtshata, kwakuyixesha lokuba abazali baqokelele ndawonye yonke imilingo yeemali zelizwe langaphandle kwaye bathathe ngokukhawuleza umntwana otshabalalayo ngaphandle.
Le ngenye yezinto ezibalaseleyo zexesha lomntu ongunaphakade. Nangona elinye lamadoda athile onothando afuna ukutshata naye, kukho iimeko ezimthintela ukuba akwenze. Enyanisweni, akuyimfuneko ukuba abathandana obungunaphakade bangatshatanga. Kungokuthi xa bezama ukuqala ubomi bentsapho, bayayakha ngokwendlela yemithetho "yeentlanga zokusinda". Ukuba uphulaphule ibali lelo bhinqa elibizwa ngokuthi "Ibali loBomi bam liyi ...", ngoko umoya uthabathela kwinani lentliziyo yabantu. Umphulaphuli ongenalwazi unokurhoxisa ukuba konke oku kuvela. Kude kuyo: konke kuyinyaniso. Kuphela ukuthetha malunga nomkhonto oye wangena enkonzweni ngenxa yakhe, akukho nto ifika engqondweni yakhe ukuba le knight ngumthwalo ovela kwisitolo esiseduze, kwaye yonke "inkunkuma" ebhokisini ebiweyo ye-vodka. "Kwimithi yakhe" akukho ndawo yokukhethwa kwendalo. Naliphi na ingqalelo kwindoda ethathwa ingqalelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani ongaphambi kwayo: umntu oshushu osempumalanga okanye umntu osisigxina ososayensi. Mhlawumbi i-captivating men mening that these women do not treat them critically. Naliphi na indoda kuye into yokudlala ngothando kuloo mhlaba olula ukuba uyindoda.

INOMINATION: UMSEBENZI

Ngokungafani nkosikazi ongunaphakade, edibene nomfazi wakhe, ovela kuye "isimo sengqondo" esilandelayo, indoda leyo ngokukhawuleza yenza isigqibo sokuba iya kuba ngumfazi wayo. Nangona kunjalo, umtshato ubambezelekile. Into iyamyeka, kodwa ilinde ngesineke. Kwakhona kucacile kuye ukuba le ndoda yagqiba ekubeni yindoda yakhe, kwaye ukususela kumzuzu ekuyifumene nayo, bonke abanye abantu bayeka ukuba khona. Umfazi ongunaphakade akasaniki isizathu sokungathandabuzeki kokungaqiniseki kwakhe. Akakhathaleli oko kukhethwe nguye xa ekulindele. Uvakalelo olusisiseko lwabafazi abangunaphakade luvakalelwa kukuba, ngokucacileyo isingoma yoma ingoma, "isisusa kusasa" - umvo wokusebenza. Kuye kwaphuhliswa kubo ukuba zonke ezinye iimvakalelo ziseburhulumenteni. Kubandakanya isondo. Bacinga indlela yokuzikhethela ngendlela ekhethekileyo: mhlawumbi njengengqiqo yomsebenzi, okanye njengomvuzo kumntu wokuziphatha okuhle. Nangona kunjalo, xa esatshatileyo kwaye engayinaki le nkalo yobomi bentsapho, bavame ukuphupha into enhle.