Kukho izibini ezithi, ngexesha lophuhliso lwazo ngokwesini, ziza kufikelela kwingcamango yokuba kuya kuba mnandi ukuvuselela ubudlelwane, bahlalutye ngento entsha, umzekelo, ukulala ngesondo kunye namanye amalingani. Kweminye, le nto ayihambi ngaphaya kweengcamango, kodwa kwabanye, ukuziphatha kwangempela kweminqweno yabo eyimfihlelo kuyimfuneko. Akusiyo malunga nezesondo zesini. Abantu abanomdla wololu hlobo bahlala kuthiwa abagugu.
Ekuguquleleni ukusuka kwisiNgesi ukuguquka (ukuguqula) - ukuguqula, ukuguqula. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli lixesha lomculo eliza kuthi lisuka kwi-jazz kwaye lithetha utshintsho olukhawulezayo ukusuka kwesinye isihloko ukuya kwesinye. Ngoko ke ukuchazwa kwamhlanje, inkcazo yokuguquka, njengexesha elifutshane, ukutshintshiselana ngokuvisisana kwamanye amaqabane ezesondo. Abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo, ukuguquka, indlela yokuziphatha engafaniyo. Baxhamla, baxininise ukuba olu luhlobo oluqhelekileyo, olu luhlobo oluthile lobomi, ukunyakaza, uhlobo lwefilosofi. Inyaniso yokuba olu hlobo lolwalamano lukhona kwaye unabalandeli abaninzi nabalandeli. Abaguqayo, phantsi kohlobo lobudlelwane, zama ukuzisa isiseko sembali. Ngokwenguqu yabo, indoda, ingakumbi amadoda, isithembu, ngoko ke le ndlela yobomi bezesondo, ubudlelwane kunye nokuzonwabisa sele bekhona ukususela ngexesha elidlulileyo. Kodwa oku kuthathwa njengelungelo labantu abantu bakhululekileyo, bekhululiwe, bengenabo izakhiwo kunye nokubandlulula.
Iingcamango ezisisiseko zokuguquka kukuba naliphi na umntu udinga iindidi zobomi zesondo. Kwiyiphi na ibini, nokuba yintoni apho kwakukho uthando olungathandabuzekiyo, kungekudala okanye kamva umzuzwana kunye nokugqithiswa komsebenzi kubonakala komnye nomnye. Abanye baqala ukuba ngabahlobo, beshiya ukutshata nje njengememori enhle, okanye ngezinye iinkqubo benze umsebenzi womtshato omnye komnye - kwaye kuphela. Abanye, ngenxa yeyona nxalenye-yiya ku-adventure kwicala. Umtshato ekupheleni kokuwa. Kwaye iinguqu zenzeke kwibala lezemidlalo, ezinikezela ngokwayo ingqungquthela yokulwa nokunganeliseki ngokwesini ngobudlelwane beentsapho. La maqabane abambisana nabo, abane zesondo. Abaguqayo bathi ngolu hlobo, awukwazi ukugcina kuphela umtshato, ungabandakanyi ukukhwabanisa, kodwa ufunde ukufezekisa ubuninzi bobunqunu. Kulapha, ekuguquleni, ukuba indawo ephakamileyo yekhanuko kunye nolonwabo iyaziwa.
Ekubonweni kokuqala, ubudlelwane be-swingers bubuqili, kodwa oku akukwenyani ngokupheleleyo. Apha, njengakuphi na ukunyakaza, kukho imigaqo ebalulekileyo kunye nemigangatho, iziseko zabo nezithethe. Nangona awukwazi ukunciphisa imigaqo yobudlelwane be-swing kunye nekhowudi enye (nangona i-swingers ngokwabo ixela ukuba ikhona imigaqo yemigaqo ikhoyo), kodwa into enokuthi ingeniswe. Ewe, imigaqo eyisiseko yobudlelwane be-swing-le nto ayikho imfundiso epheleleyo, kukho ukuhluka kwesi sihloko, apho imida kunye nemingcele ibonakala ilahlekelwa ukubaluleka namandla.
Ngoko, imigaqo eqhelekileyo yobudlelwane be-swing ingaqwalaselwa kwezi zilandelayo:
- Ilungelo ngalinye le-swinger liya kuthi cha. Iyakwazi
kuthetha nantoni na, ngaphakathi kwesikhokelo somxholo wegama elinikeziwe. Leli lilungelo elingenammiselo kwanoma yiyiphi i-swinger.
- Awukwazi ukuzama ukutshabalalisa umtshato, ukubandakanyeka kobudlelwane bomnye kunye nosapho. Akukho xinzelelo. Ukutshintshisana kwezibini kufuneka kwenzeke phakathi kweebini. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yii-singles kunokukhokelela ekuveleni kwencwadana entsha, ephikisana nalo mgaqo kwaye ayihambelani nembono yokuguquka.
- Ukuguquka kunokuba kuvulekele - ukutshintshana kwenzeka phambi komnye, kwaye kuvaliwe. Xa uhlobo lokuguqula luvaliwe, izibini ziqala ukudibanisa kunye, kwaye emva kokuthintana nabo ngokwesondo baya kususwa kumagumbi ahlukeneyo. I-version evuliwe ayifanelekiyo wonke umntu, inokusetyenziswa ngabantu abazithembayo ngokwabo kunye nobuchule babo besondo. Ngaphandle koko, kunokubangela ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki. Ukuze uphephe ukungquzulana, ezininzi iintshati zisebenza ngokuzenzekela ngokuvala, njengengqungquthela yokutshintshana ngokwesondo.
- Kulo hlobo lolwalamano oluthile lufanele lube lukulungelelana kunye kwaye aluvumeli ngaphantsi koxinzelelo.
Abaninzi abantu bayazi ukuba i-swing ayiyinto yokutshintshiselwa kwemibhangqa. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ulalane nomnye nomnye, emva kwesinye isibini.
Ukuqulunqwa, ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba ubudlelwane be-swingers bukhululekile, ababonakalwanga kuphela kwinkululeko yokutshintshiselana kwamashishini, kodwa nakwintetho yokuzikhethela, inkululeko yabo, apho kungekho ndawo yobundlobongela kuyo nayiphi na isikhundla.