Isibonakaliso sokuqala sisoloko sanda ukwanda kweengcambu ezincinci (malunga neminyaka eli-11 ubudala). Unyaka okanye ngaphezulu kamva, isiqalo sokuqala sesithanga. Ubushushu buphela ngokusungulwa komjikelezo oqhelekileyo, wokuza esikhathini. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, intombazana inokuphazamiseka ngenguqu ekubonakala kwayo. Ukongezelela, intombazana inokuba neengcinga malunga nobuhlobo kunye namadoda angenakufikeleleka (umzekelo, abaculi abadumileyo), imifanekiso yabo ayibonakali njengokwesabisa njengaleyo eyaziwa ngesini esahlukileyo. Ixesha lokuzala kwabafazi kwiinkalo ziyiminyaka engama-28-36.
Impembelelo yoluntu ngombono
Amantombazana, ngokungafani namakhwenkwe, axhomeke ngakumbi kwizithethe zenkcubeko ezifuna ukugcina ubumsulwa. Ngokukodwa, abazali baxhalabele ngakumbi ngokuqala kokusebenza ngokwesondo kwintombi kunonyana. Isizathu soloyiko sibonakala - kwintombazana yokuqala, ukuqala kokusebenza ngokwesondo kunokuthi kube yintsana yokukhulelwa. Ngokutsho kweenkolelo ezithandwayo, inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kwingxaki yokukhulelwa kwentsha iyenziwa ngamaphephandaba, okukhuthaza umsebenzi wesondo, kwakunye nefuthe laontanga.
Umhla wo kuqala
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iqela lokumema umhla livela kumfana oselula. Iintlanganiso zisoloko zenzeka ukwenzela ukuba abahlobo okanye afunda nabo bafunde ngako. Ngethuba le ntla nganiso ngamanye amaxesha isibini sithatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo yezesondo (ukubamba, ukucoca). Abazali bavame ukubonisa ukunqabisa okukhulu xa ukutyelela kusekhaya. Ngokusoloko bayesaba ukusuleleka kwiintsholongwane ezahlukeneyo zesondo, ngoko baziva bexhala, beyazi ukuba abatsha abantu basebenzisa ikhondom.
Amava ezesondo
Namhlanje, kubafazi abaninzi, ixesha lokuziphatha ngokwesini lihamba phambili kunye nolwalamano olusisigxina. Ukhetho olubanzi lwezixhobo zokukhulelwa zanamhlanje lukhokelela ekubeni ubulili abuhlanganiswa kuphela nokuveliswa kwenzalo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, amaninzi amabhinqa ayaqonda ukuba uthando kunye nesondo kwisiseko sobudlelwane obusemthethweni kubangela ukuvakalelwa okhethekileyo. Uninzi lwabantu abangabodwa ngexesha lethu lilingamaqela angama-25 ubudala. Abaninzi abasetyhini beli lizwe bayazi kakuhle inkqubela "yeeyure zezinto eziphilayo", kwaye bayesaba ukuba bangaba nexesha lokufumana iqabane ebomini baze babe nosana.
Ukuzalwa kwabantwana
Ukwandisa, iintsapho ezincinci ziyeka ukuzalwa kwabantwana ukuya kwiminyaka engama-30 ukuya ku-35 ubudala ngenxa yokuba le nto ibhinqa liqhuba umsebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, xa isibini sithatha isigqibo sokukhulelwa umntwana, uhlala ejongene neengxaki ezithile. Ngokweengcali, ukuya kwi-20% yezibini zineengxaki zokukhulelwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiintsapho ezijongene neengxaki zokungabikho kwengqondo, amaqabane aphantsi kweentliziyo zawo axelelana ngalolu hlobo. Bakuphepha ukudibanisa nabahlobo nabantwana, okanye bafumana ubunzima bezesondo ezixinzelelekileyo ezihambisana nesidingo sokutshintsha ubomi bobulili phantsi kweentsuku ezivuthiweyo.
Ukukhulelwa kunokukhokelela ekutshintsheni kwimeko yobomi besini. Ngeli xesha, abanye babo balahlekelwa umdla kwizesondo. Kwezinye iimeko, umnqweno wesini ugcinwa kuphela kwixesha elithile lokukhulelwa.
Maternity
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, abanye abafazi badinga ixesha lokuphulukana nokulimala kokubeleka. Ngexesha lokuncelisa, kudla ngokunciphisa ukutshatyalaliswa kwesisu, okwenza ubulili bubuhlungu. Ngeli xesha, ezinye izibini zikhetha ukutshintshela kwezinye iintlobo zesenzo somsebenzi wesondo kuze kube yilapho ubulili obuqhelekileyo buba mnandi kubo bobabini abalingani. Ukongezelela, umdla wabasetyhini kwimisebenzi yesondo ingaxhomekeka kwizinto ezinjengokukhathala okanye ukugxila kwinxaxheba entsha kumama wakhe. Kwiintsapho apho kubantwana abancinci, kwaye umfazi usebenza kwaye wenza imisebenzi emininzi yasemakhaya, akanako ixesha lokunyamekela yena kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo kunye nomlingane wakhe. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, xa abantwana bekhula, abaninzi abatshatileyo babuyela ebomini obunempilo yobuninzi. Ubomi obugcwele ngokwesondo ngokuqhelekileyo buba ngumqinisekiso wokuhlala ixesha elide lobuhlobo bomtshato. Kuvuyisa amaqabane, kunceda ukwandisa ukuzithemba, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo nokunciphisa uxhalaba.
Ubomi obumbeneyo
Ngokutsho kweengxelo, kwiminyaka engama-1-2 emva komtshato okanye ukuqala kobomi obudibeneyo, isibini esiphezulu kwiqela elidala eliphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-30 lilalana ngesondo 2-3 ngeveki. Xa ubudala, ubunzima besenzo sezocansi buyehla. Nangona kunjalo, nangona inani elincinci lezonxibelelwano zesondo phakathi kwabatshatileyo, umgangatho wobuhlobo bobulili buphucula. Ubuninzi bobulili kubasetyhini buza kamva kunamadoda. Ufumana ubuninzi beeplasgasms eneminyaka engama-35-45 iminyaka. Oku kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba ibhinqa idinga ixesha "lokufunda" ukufumana i-orgasm, kunye nokufika kwindlela yokuzinza kobomi bakhe bobulili kunye nolwalamano lwakhe. Ukukhangwa kwezesondo kwintombi ayixhunyiwe kuphela ngomsebenzi wokuzala. Ngaphezu koko, indlela yokuziphatha yesondo yomntu ayifuni kuphela ukuveliswa kwenzalo, kodwa inomdla wokulala ngesondo. Ngokomzekelo, umsebenzi kuphela we-clitoris yintsapho yokuzonwabisa. Ngaphandle kobudlelwane obude kunye neqabane, umfazi unganamathuba amaninzi okuqalisa ukuqhagamshelana ngokwesondo kunomntu. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngoko, njengommiselo, ngesimo se-clocked veil: umzekelo, ukugqoka "iindawo eziphathekayo" zangaphantsi ebusuku, unike iqabane ukuba liqonde ukuba ingqalelo yakhe ingayi kunqatshwa kancane ibe yinto encinane. Iimpawu zokusondela kwimiba yokuphela kwesisu, ikakhulukazi i-vaginitis (ibonakaliswe ngumile we-mucosa wesisu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - ukuphuma kwegazi elincinci) kunye nokucocwa kweendonga zesini kungabangela ukungathandeki ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-hormone yonyango yokuguqula (HRT) inceda ukususa loo miboniso. Izibini ezininzi ezisebekhulile zihlala zijongana nobuhlobo obusondeleyo. Abasetyhini abangavumi ukuphila kwabo ngokwesondo kwiminyaka engama-60-70 nangemva koko, phawula ukuba ubulili kule minyaka abuyiseli uvuyo olungaphantsi kunezinye. Nangona kunjalo, ngeli xesha kukho iingxaki ezithile ezinxulumene nokunciphisa amakhono emzimbeni kumadoda - umzekelo, ukungabi namandla kwimizimba, okuchaphazela ukulungiswa.