"I-Kama Sutra", "iBhayibhile yezesondo" kunye nezinye iincwadi ezinesihloko esifanayo zibonisa kuthi zonke iimfihlelo zokuzonwabisa kwabantu, ezingahlali kwindawo yokugqibela ebomini nabani na. Kule meko, akusoloko inendima enikezelwa kwizinto ezicetyiswa kakhulu ukuba zigwenywe.
Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba akukho mqondo ufunde "U-Kama Sutra ongenakunyulwa" kunye "neendlela ezili-101 zokumqhuba"? Ngokuphambene noko - babhala izinto ezibucayi kunye nendima yabo akufanele ilawulwe phantsi. Kodwa, ukuqonda inzululwazi enyanzelisayo kunye nenomdla, musa ukulibala malunga nezinye izinto ezinokuthi zonakalise ngokupheleleyo impembelelo. Kwaye oku akuyona nto. Ngoko, iipilisi zakho "azikwazi" ukulala:
1. Ukuhleka. Okokuqala, ixesha elide liyaziwa: awukwazi ukuhleka, ukhangela inkcazo yenkwenkwezi yintanda yakho. Nokuba uhleka ngovuyo kunye nekratshi. Okwesibini, awukwazi ukuhleka kwindawo, oko kukuthi, kwindawo elinganayo. Nangona kweso sihlandlo kwakukho imeko yobuwula emva kweentsuku zesikolo esiprayimari. Kuzo zombini iimeko, unokukhubeka, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba awuzange umhlekise (ubuchule bakhe, umfanekiso wakhe, izenzo zakhe, njl), kuya kuba nzima. Ngendlela, ukuhleka ngokufanayo ngexesha lesondo kunokukhubekisa umfazi.
2. Ukuvuma, bangaphi na ababenxulumane nabo ngokwesini. Kungcono ukuba ungaluphakamisi kwesi sihloko. Ukuba uyagxininisa, ngoko ke impendulo yokuphendulela "inye" (ukuba ibonakala inyaniso) okanye "ezimbalwa" (ukuba kukho ezili-10 okanye ngaphezulu). Indoda, njengomgaqo, ilungele ukukholelwa oko utshoyo. Xa athe waphumla, uyafuna kwaye uyaqinisekisa ukuba unomdla kuphela - ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nokubonisa inamba ngqo ayikwazi. Ngokwabo. Kwaye nabantu abatsha abahamba phambili bathanda ukuba ngabokuqala. Ukuba akakuze akugxeke ngokucacileyo, ngoko uya kukhumbula ngonaphakade, awuqinisekanga.
3. Kubi ukuthetha ngamalungu angaphambili , ngokubhekiselele kwizakhono zabo zesondo, nokuba ufuna ukugxininisa ukufezekiswa kweqabane lakho langoku. Oku kubangelwa iingcamango ezimbini ezimbi ezivela kuye: "Ukuba sizahlula, kuya kuba lula ukuthetha nam" kunye "Okanye mhlawumbi into ephosakeleyo ngayo, kuba ifikeleleke kwiindawo ezinjalo." Bobabini, kunye nelinye ilitye ekhitshini lakho. Kwaye kukudumisa kangcono oku: "Andizange ndive kakuhle kakhulu nabani na."
4. Ukukhankanya okokuqala. Amanye amadoda ahlaselwa ngumntu ongenamacala athi "Njanguye ndambona uSergei kunye nendodana yam - enjengomntwana ontle!" Unokukhubekisa nokuba uyamkhumbuza into ethile esecaleni elidityaniswe nomnye umntu.
5. Hlonipha kuyo yonke into. Ngokuqhelekileyo abasetyhini (njengaye, nangona kunjalo, amadoda) bafuna ukwazi yonke into malunga nesiqingatha sabo: kwiimvakalelo zakhe kunye nomlingane wangaphambili kwiindaba zobudlelwane babo nazo zonke iinkcukacha. Ukuthandana ngokwesondo kunye nokuxhamla ngokomzimba kubonakala kukukhuseleka okuya kukuvumela ukuphulaphula nayiphi na imfihlelo enokuthula kwaye inomdla: "Sithandana kakhulu, kwaye akukho nto inokusivimba!" Umphumo wendalo "ongenakonakalisa" ukunyaniseka ngumsindo kunye nomona Musa ukubuza nayiphi na imibuzo uze uyeke iingxoxo zakhe kwesi sihloko.
6. Zama ukwenza into yokuba unkulunkulukazi wesondo. Ngaphandle kohlobo "olupheleleyo lwesifundo" lubukeka luyinto engaqhelekanga kwaye ngoko aluyikuzonwabisa. Ngendlela, amadoda avuma ukuba kwanomfazi onamava akahlali ephakamileyo embhedeni okokuqala ngentsapho yakhe ethandekayo, kwaye ukuzama ukukopisha umdlali wezononono ngokukhawuleza uqikelele kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayidlala. Isiphetho siyacaca: musa ukwenza oko ungakhange ujwayelane kwaye ungaqhelekanga, kwaye usetyenzise i-"seasonings" engezantsi, ulungele ukuyeka, ukuba ucinga ukuba akayithandi. Njengoko kuvela, kukho amadoda angathandi isondo somlomo, i-caress ye-earlobe okanye ingono, into engavamile. Awukwazi ukuba ngumthandi omhle okanye umthandi omhle - unokuba ngumtshato omhle. Yakha ukuziphatha kwakho ngokwesondo, ugxininise kumntu wakho, kwaye ulindele okufanayo kuye.
7. Ukuzisa iityshi ezisuka kwisitolo sezesondo, ngaphandle kokuxubusha ngaphambili umcimbi kunye neqabane. Nangona kuwe kubonakala sengathi i-fucking classy, kwaye kwintengiso umthengisi, winking, waqinisekisa ukuba umhlobo wakho uya kulahlekelwa yintloko. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu uya kukufumanisa unelisekile ngezesondo zakho "ngaphandle kwezinto eziphathekayo" kwaye uzenzele ubunzima obuphantsi. Yaye uya kuhlupheka ngenxa yale nto. Kuyafana neencwadi zonqulo, kunye nevidiyo. Amadoda awanakho konke okungaqhelekanga ukuba aqhutywe ngokuzenzekelayo kwimifanekiso engenanto. Kule ngxaki, njengabanye, indlela ekhethekileyo "kwiingongoma" zakhe ezikule sihloko nayo iyadingeka. Phakamisa umbuzo kwangaphambili.
8. Ukubangela intlungu. Nangona ehamba ebusweni beempibo zakho ezide - nangona, mhlawumbi, bancoma abahlobo bakho, kungekhona indoda yakho-ungasheshe ukhawuleze ukukhangela emva kwakhe. Yintoni ekhangeleka ngokugqithiseleyo kwi-movie, ebomini - ibuhlungu nje, ke yibambe ngokuqinile. Kuboniswa ukuba i-orgasm ibangele ivakalelo. Kodwa emva kokugqibela ukuphumelela, uya kuba nzima. Umgaqo "musa ukulimaza" uxhalabanye nezinye izenzo ngexesha lesondo: amadoda ayenzakala gqitha xa ungaqapheli "ubutyebi" bakhe.
9. Ukuthula. Enye yezona "zono" ezingenakuthethelelwa, ukusuka kwimbono yesintu. Ukuba akakwazi ukukunyusela, ke ukububula - ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngoko vele uvuselele iimvakalelo zakho. Kuya kuqinisa imizwa yakho, kwaye umnike amandla amatsha. Ukukhala nokugcoba - isisombululo esiyinhloko sabafundisikazi basothando lwabo onke amaxesha nezizwe: kuba sisivunguvungu, nokuba sisisigxina sabasetyhini ebhedeni esenza umntu akholelwe ukuba uneminyaka eyi-th-th! Nangona ukungabi nalukholo lwenkolelo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukugxeka. Ngokufihlakeleyo okanye ngokucacileyo. Ngoko ungaba neentloni zothando lwakho - akukho mntu ongenandaba.
10. Kubi ukuvumba. Amadoda acinga ukuba onke aphunga lomzimba wesifazane - ukuphefumula nokuphelisa ukwazi. Ngaphezu koko, kunzima kangangokuthi umntu unokukhawuleza ukulahlekelwa ngumnqweno. Isiphelo: ixesha elide lihlala isephaphu eliqhumayo kunye nethawula. Kwakhona kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ngeqhumiso. Ukuba ebumnyameni bobusuku uya kubuza: "Wawutshisa njani?" - Musa ukukhawuleza ukuthabatha oku kukuncoma, nokuba yinto ebiza kakhulu kwaye imimoya yakho oyithandayo ayinakuyithandayo - ungayithandi ngeli xesha, ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukuziva iphunga lakho lemvelo. Ngako oko, isisombululo esona siphumelelo kukunuka njengamaconsi amanzi ukusuka kwisitya, kunye nomxube ongenakunqwenela we-aromas equkethe i-shampoo yakho, i-makeup, ukhilimu womzimba. Wayehlambulula, kwaye oku kuyinconywa yangempela.
Yaye ungesabi ukuzama nokuzama, kodwa ngaphakathi kwesakhelo esifanelekileyo. Yaye ungazilibali iibhokisi ezibhalwe phantsi ukwenzela ukuba iziphakamiso zakho kuphela zibhekiswe kuwe kwaye kungekhona nje ngamazwi.