Ngaba kukho intlekele kwi-masturbation kubasetyhini
Ama-sexopathologists ayazi kakuhle ukuba abantu banako ukufumana i-orgasm kuphela ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Abantu abaninzi bayavuma ukuba oku kwenzeke kubo ebuntwaneni, umzekelo, ngexesha lokufunda imfundo ngexesha lokunyuka kwintambo okanye ukuzivocavoca ngemivalo engalinganiyo. Oko kukuthi, kumntu, uqobo lwalo lubekwe, ukuba le ntliziyo inokuvela kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomnqweno. Xa engacingi nantoni na enje. Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kutheni sifanele sicinge ngehlazo lokuhlambalaza-iinjongo ezijoliswe ekufezekiseni le nto ye-orgasm ngaphandle kokulala ngesondo? Iingcali zonyango ziqinisekisa ukuba, ukwenza ukwaneliseka (ukuba kukho umnqweno onjalo), abaphikisana nobume bemvelo.
Inani elikhulu labasetyhini baye banqanda ukuvinjelwa kwe-masturbation nakubantwana beselula. Kwaye, xa bekhulile, abafazi abanjalo bavuselela into efanayo kwiintombi zabo, kwaye njalo kwi-ad infinitum. Kwaye malunga namakhwenkwe, imbono yale ngxaki ihluke kakhulu. Xa umama ebona iimpawu zokuqala zokumiswa kunye nomdla wakhe okwandayo kule ntombazana, yena, njengomthetho, uthintelwa kuphela ngumsebenzi womntwana wakhe. Kodwa ukuba unina ufumana intombazana encinci efunda izitho zakhe zesini, uya kuba noloyiko.
Ngokwezondo zesondo, ngeendlela ezininzi ukuphendulwa kwabantu abadala kubangelwa ukuhlukana kwendawo yokuhlala kunye namantombazana kunye namantombazana. Kwiqela lokuqala locansi lingaphandle, kufuneka likhethwe rhoqo xa ithumela "imfuno encinci". Ngako oko, ukuba abantu bafikelele kwindawo yabo yokuxhamla kubhekwa njengendalo kwaye ngenxa yoko ayikho imisebenzi eyingozi. Kodwa kwabasetyhini, ngenxa yesakhiwo sabo se-anatomiki, iinxalenye zesini, ngakwesinye icala, zifihliwe ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Kwaye kwenye - bahlala behlaselwa kuzo zonke iintlobo zezifo. Yingakho ama-moms aqinisekile ukuba ukusuka kwipropati yembono yengozi kwi-masturbation icacile: intombazana iya kubachaphazela, kungekudala amathuba okuba afune ukufumana ukuvutha kwesisu. Ukususela kumbono wongcoceko, ukulimala kwi-masturbation kunokwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, ngubani onengqondo efanelekileyo "eya kwenzayo" ngezandla ezingcolileyo kunye nezinto ezinothuli ebhedini?
Ngaba kukho nayiphi na inzuzo yokugcoba ngamabhinqa?
Iingcali zijamelene nezinye iingxaki. Xa bamenywa ukuba banikele iintetho phakathi kwabaselula kunye nabantu abatsha, umntu ovela ekuphathweni kwesikolo uya kubacela ukuba bangathethi ngesondo ngomlomo kunye nokuphinga. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezi zenzo ziphikisana nombono wokuziphatha. Abazali be-sexologists bayavumelana nale nto ngokukhathala okukhulu. Ngenxa yokuqhawula umbuzo akuyona indlela engcono yokuyicombulula. Emva kwakho konke, ngale ndlela unokomeleza isimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo kwizenzo ezinjalo ekuqapheliseni isizukulwana esincinane. Nangona uphando oluqhutywe ngugqirha lubonisa ukuba intombazana eneminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwimi-16 ibenamava okuhlaziya umzimba, iza kuba neengxaki ezimbalwa kwisigxina sezesondo ebomini badala, kunokuba "zithobe", ezaziphepha ezinjalo izenzo. Njengoko uyakubona, kusekho inzuzo kwi-masturbation.
Ukongezelela, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko yangaphambili yokusabalalisa iintsholongwane, ngezinye izikhathi ezibulalayo, ezinjenge-HIV okanye i-hepatitis C, ezi zintsonkcozo zoxhatshazo ngokwesondo zibonakala zikhuselekileyo kunokuba zithandana ngokwesondo. Kodwa ke enye inzondo iqala ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza. Iimfundiso zokuziphatha ziyavumelana ne-squeak yokuba ayikho enye indlela yokuphuma kumntu oyedwa. Kodwa kutheni umntu osapho kufuneka akhonze ukuba kukho iqabane elithembekileyo nelithembekileyo kulo? Ngokombono wabo, ekutshatweni komzimba ukuziphatha okubi kukuziphatha kakubi, kuba ngaphandle kwimeko enjalo kunokwenzeka. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo?
Ukugcoba kwintsapho kwintsapho
Ama-sexopathologists anemizekelo emininzi yendlela abafazi abahlala ngayo ngokuvuya kunye nabayeni babo kodwa bazinikela ekuziphatheni ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, omnye umculi osemncinci owaziwayo, esebenza ngemini kwi-studio, ngaloo ndlela wabangela ukuqhuma okungakumbi. Ngendlela, iimvakalelo ezenziwa yilo mfazi ngenxa yezo zinto, zahluke kuye, kuye, kwalawo afunyanwa naye embhedeni nomyeni wakhe othandekayo.
Ngendlela, lo ngumzekelo oqhelekileyo. Kubonisa ukuba abafazi abatshatileyo baxhamla kwi-masturbation, kungekhona nantoni ngenxa yokuba banelungelo lokunganeliseki ngesondo. Akunjalo. Kubo, i-orgasm, ebangelwa ngesandla, asikho yonke imibala abayifumana ngayo ngokulalana ngokwesondo. Izigulane ekuwamkeleleni i-therapists zenze ukuvuma okungalindelekanga kwimixholo efanayo. Ngokomzekelo, elinye ibhinqa lahlaselwa yintlungu kwaye sele lifumene ngengozi ukuba ilele ngokulala kuphela emva kokwaneliseka. Enye enye ibhinqa eliphumelelayo nelikhuphayo, yindlela eye wayicima ngayo uxinzelelo emva komhla oxakekileyo. Iyesithathu - ngokuchaseneyo, ilungiselele iseshoni yokugcoba ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo esibalulekileyo: ngoku, kuye kwamnika amandla angaphezulu.
Bonke babedinga ngakumbi ukudala umxholo okhethekileyo, ukuguquka ukusuka kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye. Kodwa oku kuya kwenzeka kuphela xa ukwaneliseka kungabonakali kwintokazi into enyanyekayo, kwaye nangona yinto yobundlobongela. Kodwa ngelanga, iindumiso ezidumileyo azikuncedi.
Uphononongo lweengcali lubonisa ukuba abafazi ababandakanyeka ekuzivuseleleni ngaphambi komtshato, umzekelo, kanye kanye ngeveki, kwaye emtshatweni bakulungele ukwenza oku ngexesha elifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali kufuneka zijongane kunye nabasetyhini abaye bazinikela ekuziphatheni kubutsha babo kwaye ngubani, xa esatshatileyo, akasayi kuqhubeka nokuzama ukuqhubeka novavanyo olunjalo. Bacinga ukuba oku kungabonakaliyo - kuba ngoku banomlingani osisigxina. Kodwa abesini ngokwesini abavumi nje ukukhenkceza umtshato. Baze bafundise izigulane zabo indlela yokuzivuselela ngokufanelekileyo ukuze bafezekise umphumo omkhulu. Ngokombono wabo, oku kunceda abafazi ukuba bazive besini kakuhle, baqonde ubunqweno bobubele babo. Kwaye oku kuyinyathelo lokuqala ukuya kubomi obugcwele kunye nomlingane wakho othandekayo nothando. Okokuthi, ngaphezu kokukhutshwa komzimba (okanye "ukuhlawula"), iingenelo zengqondo zendlela yokuhlaziya i-masturbation ibonakala, iyeza liqinisekisa le minyaka emininzi yokuqwalasela.
Izibini ezitshatileyo, apho kungekhona ukuzinelisekile emtshatweni, kufuneka ukhumbule oku: akukho nto inomdla umntu njengowomfazi ozenzayo. Kodwa kuphela kwimeko enye. Oku kufanele kube yinxalenye yomdlalo wakho wesondo owabelwana ngawo, umcedisi oqinisa ukuvakalelwa. Ukuba wenza oku wedwa, uzame ukungena kumyeni wakho. Emva koko, unokucaphukisa okanye athukuthele: "Unayo ngokwaneleyo, mna? Ngaba ndiyingozi kakhulu? "Ngenxa yoko, ubudlelwane bomtshato obomeleleyo buya kuba yingozi. Lo ngumzekelo omnye wenzakaliso yokukhwabanisa, kodwa kungekhona kwimizimba yomzimba, intrafamily. Iingcali ziyazi ukuba imizekelo emininzi.
Ukugcoba ngamadoda
Kubantu, izinto zihlukile: emva komtshato, inani "iiseshoni" zokwaneliseka ngokukhawuleza linciphisa into. Kodwa kuphela xa benesenzo esaneleyo sesondo kunye nomfazi wakhe. Ukuba bacinga ukuba oonobumba bezocansi bavela ngaphantsi kwexesha kunokuba umzimba wabo ufuna, banokuqhelanisa nokuphinga. Nangona i-sexologists inzima ukukhupha inkolelo yokuba i-gland egciniweyo engqondweni yabantu kukuba i-prostate gland ingabandezeleka ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa rhoqo. Ngoku kutshanje, oogqirha baqhubeka becinga ukuba inani le-ejaculations kumntu liyazalwa ngokuzalwa. Ngokukhawuleza ukuzalisekisa "uqobo" lwabo, ... Ngokufutshane, kungcono ukugcina - ukugcina ukuguga.
Enyanisweni, imfuneko yokuba "isondo se-solo" yamadoda ahlala emtshatweni opheleleyo ngokupheleleyo. Yona yodwa imeko apho ukwaneliseka okwenziwe ngumlingane xa ehlushwa ngaphambi kokunyuka kwexesha. Eli cebiso lichazwe yinto yokuba ummeli wesondo oqinileyo ongenasiphathosiyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ngexesha lesenzo sesondo, "ukukhutshwa" kukhawuleza kunokuba iqabane elithandayo. Oko kukuthi kunokuba luncedo ukuhlambalaza ngekamva kwikhatyhini yesini kunye nomfazi.
Ukuphakamisa esi sihloko esibucayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, asinakukwazi ukuthetha ngamatyala okubizwa ngokuba yi-masturbation engapheliyo. Le yintsholongwane, kwaye i-sexopathologists ayinakucinga xa uthetha ngabantu abaqhelekileyo, abanempilo. Isidingo esingenakunqunyulwa sokuphumula sisithi rhoqo xa umntu evalelwa ukulungiswa, kwaye umfazi-ukuvuswa kwesondo, kufuneka uphathwe ngongcali. Njengawuphi na ukuphambuka emsebenzini womzimba wethu. Le meko ibangele ukuphazamiseka kwabantu kwaye ngoko kufuneka ilungiswe - ngaphambili, ingcono.
Kwingozi kunye nenzuzo yonyango lokugcoba umzimba elibhalwe ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa zonke ziya kuncitshiswa kwiingcebiso ezimbalwa. Ukuba awuyidingi ukwaneliseka, ukuba unelisekile ngokuziphatha okunomdla kunye nekhono lomlingane wakho, yikhuphe ngaphandle kwentloko yakho. Kodwa ukuba unamava amnandi ngokuphinga, kwaye wanezela iimvakalelo ezintsha, ngokucacileyo kwintsapho yakho kunye nomyeni wakho, ungaziboni njengesenzo sobugebengu kwaye ungayishiyi. Awunenzi nto ephosakeleyo. Ufumana ithuba elinye lokuzivumelanisa ngokuchanekileyo kunye nenyaniso. Kananjalo uphakamise ubulili bakho kwinqanaba elihlukile, elingaziwa ngaphambili.