Yintoni isitayela?
Isitayela ngumfanekiso, isekelwe kwingcamango ethile, kwaye yonke into inceda le ngcamango ibe yinyani. Ubuntu obuninzi obudumiweyo bubizwa ngokuba yimifanekiso yezakhiwo, umzekelo, uMadonna, uGrta Garbo, uDita von Teese, u-Audrey Hepburn, uMarilyn Monroe. Bonke bahlukileyo, kodwa ngamnye kubo akagqibekanga, aba bhinqa kulula ukwahlula omnye komnye, kuba isitayela sabo sihluke ngokwenene.
Unokukhetha okulungileyo, ukhokelwa yimikhwa yakho, indlela yokuphila, intando kunye neminqweno. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana ekhokelela ekusebenzeni ngokuzikhethela ikhetha isitayela samahhala kwiingubo kwaye ayithandi amafowuni kunye nokunciphisa, kuya kuba nzima ukuziva ukhululekile ukuzama umfanekiso wesantombazana esilungileyo, umfazi oyintandokazi okanye i-retro diva. Ubuqhetseba, ubunzulu, ukuxabisa ngaphezu kwazo zonke i-aesthetics, ayikwazi ukuhambelana nentonga yeenkwenkwezi, iikhati kunye neengubo ezigugile. Ngako oko, musa ukukopisha ngenye indlela izimvo zabantu, kuba isitayela ngasinye sidalwe ngokusekelwe kubuntu bomntu, obandakanya ukubonakala nje kuphela. Ukuba le ntombazana ayivakalelwa kukuba into ethile isondele kumntu othile, kuyakufanelekela ukuthatha ingcamango engcono kwaye udale indlela yakho, ekhokelwa ngumntu wakho. Ngendlela, ukunyanzelisa ukukopisha, ukukhanda kunye neyokuqala ihlala ixabiswa.
Ngoku isitayela se-bohemian kunye neyevini sithandwa, kodwa imfashini ayifaki isakhelo esicacileyo, ukuvumela umfazi ngamnye ukuba abukeke ngendlela afuna ngayo okanye njengoko akwaziyo. Impazamo ephosakeleyo yile mantombazana ayilingisa ngokuzimeleyo ubuntu obudumileyo, engaqapheli ukuba ukhetho lwesitayela sabo lukhulu kunokuba lukhutshwe kumaphephancwadi.
Indlela yokufumana isitayela sakho?
Musa ukucinga ukuba ukhetha isitayela sakho kanye, umntu uyabanjwa ngonaphakade. Abantu abadalwa ubomi nakwiindawo eziqhelekileyo bangadlala, batshintshe imifanekiso, kwaye umntu omnye unokuziva ekhululekile kwizinto ezihlukeneyo.
Ngako oko, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo ukuba unomfazi oqinileyo wezamashishini ngexesha lomhla, kwaye ngokuhlwa, umfazi obulalayo uvuselela umdlalo wothando okanye intombazana eqhelekileyo edibaneni elingumakhelwane. Into ephambili kukuba nganye yale mizobo ifanelana nawe kwaye ayikhangeleki njengobumba obubi kakhulu.
Isiseko sesitawu sinokuba ngumfanekiso weklasi olula ukutshintsha kwaye uzalisekise izixhobo zokusebenza, i-hairstyle engavamile, ukwakheka. Izitayela zeClassics zilungelekile kuba azipheli ngefashini, zinika izicombululo ezininzi ezibonakalisiweyo eziza kuphumelela. Ngoko, isitifiketi kwisitayela se "Coco Chanel", izicathulo zeklasi, iinwele ezigqibeleleyo kunye nokwenza, iimpawu ezintle ezinokuzivumela zivumeleke ukuba zibukeke zilungele naziphi na izimo.
Ukuba oko kuthiwa isitayela sokudala sithathwa njengesiseko, ngoko kuya kufuna into enqabileyo. Ekubeni olu lathiso luyingozi kakhulu - unokwenza ezininzi iimpazamo ezinzima ukuzilungisa. Enyanisweni, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwesi simboko kuyahluka ngokupheleleyo. Ubundlobongela kunye nokuthandana, isitayela se-hippie, isitayela sobuhlanga - konke oku kuvunyelwe kwaye unendawo yokuhlala, unokukhetha into oyithandayo. Kuphela ukwesaba ukuba isitayela sokudala sisondele kakhulu ekungcoleni, ngoko nayiphi na indlela engaphezulu kuyoba yiphutha elingenakukupheka.
Ukuba uyaluxabisa inkululeko yokuthetha, ngoko kukufanele ukhethe isitala ngaphandle kwesitayela. Ngokomzekelo, ungathatha abameli be-subcultures yolutsha, abakhetha izinto njengeempawu zabo, ngokungathi behla kwimifanekiso yeenkulungwane ezidlulileyo. Umzekelo omhle nguGrta Garbo kunye nokuzibandakanya kwabasetyhini kunye nabasetyhini abaqinileyo. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba i-tuxedo okanye i-crinoline i-curvy iya kuhambelana nawe kwaye inokunceda ukudala isitayela sakho, kuyafaneleka ukuba uzame.
Isitayela semidlalo kukungabikho naziphi na izithintelo kunye nentuthuzelo. Ikuvumela ukuba ulibale malunga newashi esetyenzisiweyo kwisibuko, ubomi buya kulahleka kwiindawo eziyinkimbinkimbi, ukuzenzela okuhlakaniphile, okukuvumela ukuba ulondoloze ixesha kwaye uzive ukhululekile ngexesha elifanayo.
Xa ukhethe isiseko sesitayela sakho, unokwazi ukujonga kwiimveli ezihambelana nayo kunye nelo lizwe linikeza. Iintlanzi zezihloko, iingubo ezichanekileyo - nokuba ngaba ngaphantsi kweengubo, ingxowa, inwele okanye amacici, kuya kunceda ukuba ungaboni, kodwa ungenise kumfanekiso wobungangamsha.
Njengoko ubona, ukukhetha isitayela sakho akunzima kakhulu. Akukho mntu uphumelele kwiimpembelelo, nokuba ngabaqeqeshi benza njalo ngezikhathi ezithile, ngoko musa ukwesaba iimvavanyo, kuba kuphela ukukhetha kusenza sibe nethemba lokuba ekugqibeleni siyakwazi ukuthabatha isimbolo sakho ngasinye kwaye sibonakale sigqibelele.