Ngubani esithatha isithathu: indoda okanye ibhinqa?
Kukho iindlela ezimbini: ibhinqa okanye indoda. Ngokwenene, ukuba isiphakamiso sesini sivela kumntu, uyazibonakalisa enkampini yamantombazana amahle ayanelisa yonke iminqweno yakhe. Indoda, njengendoda eyinyani, ayinakukwazi ukubona indlela umfazi wayo anelise ngayo enye inkunzi, ngoko i-MFM inketho yamadoda amaninzi ayikho. Okokuthi, imigaqo ilawulwa yimvakalelo emininzi yendoda: i-egoism (umnqweno wokuba bonke abafazi bafanele banikwe ingqwalasela kuye kuphela), iimvakalelo ezifanelekileyo (ukungafuni "ukwabelana" nomfazi wakhe nomnye umntu) kunye neqhayiya ezinokuthi zenzakaliswe yinto eyenzekayo (emva koko, umfazi wakhe angathanda ukulala ngesinye ndoda). Ngokwamaninzi, isondo ngohlobo lwe-MZHM kumntu lunokumkeleka kuphela xa ngabahlobo ababini (okanye abahlobo nje) befumene umfazi onqabileyo ongaqhelekanga baze bachithe ixesha kunye naye embhedeni. Akukho ukuzibophezela, akukho namangqina, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - le ntokazi ayinandaba nendoda kwaye akayikuyibala nepropati yakhe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu othembisa ngesondo kumfazi (umfazi) amancinci, ubona kwindoda yesithathu, nokuba yinto yesithathu, intombi okanye intombi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nawuphi na umfazi uya kwamkela ngokukhawuleza eso siphakamiso, njengesicelo sokuvumela umyeni wakhe ukuba atshintshe nomhlobo wakhe emehlweni akhe. Incoko enjalo ayiyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into entle, kwaye umfazi akafuni ukucinga ngento yesondo kunye kunye. Kule meko, madoda, alas, "hamba" ngakwesobunxele, ukuze uqaphele ukucinga kwabo ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba komfazi kwaye ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba unqabe ukulala ngokwesini, kufuneka ulinganise yonke into kwaye ufikelele kwisigqibo sokufumana umlingane okanye iqabane lakho lonwabo. Makube ngumhlobo (malunga nokuba ngubani oza kukhetha kule nxaxheba, siza kuthetha kamva kamva), kwaye umzekelo, umfazi ongaqhelekanga.
Ukuba ngaba abathathu bafumana iqabane kumfazi (okanye amaphupha aloo ndlela yokuzilibazisa), ngoko nantsi yonke into ebonakalayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubona ejikelezwe ngamadoda amabini, mhlawumbi engaziwa ngokupheleleyo. Nangona, njengoko idatha yeengcaphephe ezingabonakaliyo zibonisa, abafazi abaninzi banamahloni ngokuthetha ngesondo kunye namadoda amabini kunye nokwenza kunye namadoda amabini. Baye bacetyise ukuba ngovuyo bayavuma isisombululo sokulala ngesimo seZHMZ kuneMZHM. Kuba umfazi, ngakumbi ukuba unelisekile ngokupheleleyo ngokubonakala kwakhe kunye nomfanekiso, isondo esifanelekileyo asifunanga kuphela ukuzonwabisa, kodwa nokuzimela. Singafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ngowona wesifazane ongenelisekanga yena ngokwakhe unokuzilahla ngokuzithandela isondo se-MZHM. Okanye umntu ocinga ukuba isondo esinjalo sihlambulukanga kwaye asikho emveli, nangona le nketho yabasetyhini balala ngesondo ayengayi kufika ezintloko zabo.
Okwesithathu?
Ngubani ngokukhethekileyo ukuba akhethe indima yesithathu? Ukuthetha ngefomathi yeZHMZH, sinokuthi amadoda ahlala ecetywa ukuba athathe nabo ukulala omnye wabahlobo bomfazi wakhe okanye owaziwayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda athetha ngowesifazane othile kwimeko apho bona bengathanda ukulala naye ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwintsebenziswano. Kungcono ukuqala ukukhangela kunye nabahlobo abade naye, nimbonana kanye kunye ebomini bakho kwaye awaziwa ukuba uya kubona okanye ungayilandelanga ixesha lokuchitha ixesha. Kwakhona unokukhangela isithathu okanye sesithathu kwi-Intanethi. Nangona abasetyhini kunye namantombazana befuna ezininzi izinto zokuzonwabisa zesondo, abathathu bafumana ubunzima. Amantombazana amancinci asabela ngokukhawuleza kwiimpapasho ezithunyelwe kwi-intanethi kwaye uya kudibanisa. Indoda ilula ukuyifumana, kodwa kunyanzeleke kakhulu ukulala ngesimo seMJM. Le khetho inomnye ongenakukwazi ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kumlingane ongaqhelekanga okanye iqabane, kufuneka uqaphele kunye noonxibelelwano, kufuneka usebenzise ikhondom kunye nezinye iindlela zokukhusela. Ngaphandle koko, unokwenza ubuncinane uviwo lwezonyango ukuze uqiniseke ngokucoceka kunye nempilo.
Kwabaninzi, ama-threesome ayenzihlandlo yesikhathi esisodwa, abanye bakwenza kaninzi. Ukuze ube mnandi, kungcono ukuba kusekelwe kukuthembela ngokupheleleyo phakathi kwamaqabane kunye novelwano jikelele.