Ngaba uyeke ukwaneliswa ngobomi bakho bobulili? Kwaye mhlawumbi abazange bajabule? Ngaba uzigxeka? Kwaye kubonakala ngathi akukho nto inokuyenza? Oku akunjalo! Ndikholelwe, yonke into isezandleni zakho! Emva koko, iingxaki zezesondo eziphambili nezindlela zokuzisombulula ziye zaziwa ngokude kwaye zachazwa. Jonga nje ingxaki ehlukileyo, ukucwangcisa izizathu eziyinyani, kwaye isisombululo siya kuza. Ewe, okanye ngoncedo lwalesi nqaku ...
Ingxaki 1. "Mina nomyeni wam siyeka ukulala ngesondo rhoqo, kuba andifuni ngaphezulu. Yintoni ephosakeleyo kum? Yintoni endiyenzayo? "
Enyanisweni, into oyicinga ngayo inhlekelele iyinto eqhelekileyo. Le ngxaki eqhelekileyo, kungekhona nje kuphela phakathi "iminyaka yobudala". Izizathu eziqhelekileyo zilandelayo:
- Ukukhathala
- Ukuxinezeleka
- Iingxaki zezempilo
- Iingxaki zomntu
- Ukungabi nokholo
Ufuna isondo esingakumbi xa uvakalelwa, uyathandwa kwaye uyathandwa. Nangona uncedo olulula ekusebenzeni ekhaya kunye nokunyamekela abantwana lakho iqabane lingenza ummangaliso. Uvakalelwa ngokukhawuleza! Tshela iqabane lakho ukuba ufuna ukumbona umdla wakhe. Makhe akuxelele ukuba uthetha ntoni kuye.
Zama i-masturbation, vula i-fantasy (yedwa okanye kunye neqabane) kwaye usho ngokuqinisekileyo oko ufuna ukulala.
Ukuba imeko yakho ibangelwa yimpilo yengqondo okanye yempilo - qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho wendawo okanye ugqirha ukufumana isizathu. Akuyimfuneko ukuthetha ingxaki yangempela, nje ukuhamba ngokuhlolwa jikelele. Yenza utshintsho endleleni yakho yobomi: ngena kwizemidlalo, fumana i-hobby, ubhalisele ezinye izifundo.
Ingxaki 2. " Iqabane lam lijongene ne-ejaculation yexesha elide. Sizame ukunciphisa inkqubo, kodwa ayizange incede. Yintoni esinokuyenza? "
Ukunyuka kwexesha lokuqala kusithintela amadoda amaninzi kwimeko ethile ebomini babo. Oku kubangelwa ukuxhalaba kwangaphakathi. Kwaye, kukho "ingqungquthela engqongqo": ngokukodwa umntu ukhathazeka, kwenzeka ukuba kuya kwenzeka kwakhona.
Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokukunceda:
1. Ukuba awunaso ixesha lokufumana i-orgasm, njengento yokugqibela yesini - unokuhlala ujabulela ukusondela. Oku kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo kumlingane.
2. Jabulela omnye ngaphambi kokungena. Zama i-masturbation okanye isondo ngomlomo.
3. Zama ikhondom ekhethekileyo equlethe izinto ezilibazisekayo.
4. Ukuphumla okanye ukucamngca kungasebenza.
5. Ngexesha lokulala, usondela kwi-orgasm, zama ukuyeka, uze uqale kwakhona.
Ukuba iingxaki zakhe ngokudlulela akudluli, mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukuguqula isondo.
Ingxaki 3. "Ndaqala ukuva ubunzima obukhulu ngexesha nangemva kwesondo. Ndilihlazo ukuthetha ngale nto. Yintoni endiyenzayo? "
Intlungu ayifanele ingayinakunyuswa, ngoko qiniseka ukuba uthethe nodokotela wakho ukuba ukhangele ukuba ulungile. Ukuba ucinga ukuba iintlungu zakho zibangelwa ukoma ngokugqithiseleyo okanye ukungabi noluvuyo, unokuzama ukusebenzisa i-lubrication yokufakelwa. Ukongeza, intlungu yakho ibangelwa ngu:
1. Iingxaki zempilo, njengokwesibonelo, i-cystitis. Kule meko, unyango oluyimfuneko luyadingeka. Musa ukuliqinisa!
2. Izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo. Thatha iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko (oku kungenziwa ngokungaziwa). Ukungabi nonyango kwiimeko ezininzi kunokuba nemiphumo emibi kakhulu kubo bonke amalungu entsapho.
3. Iimeko zengqondo, ezifana ne-vulvodynia okanye i-vaginismus, nazo zingabangela intlungu kunye nosizi. Bayafuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
Ingxaki 4. "Indoda yam isoloko ifuna isondo. Nsuku zonke. Kwaye ndisoloko ndingadingi. Kodwa andifuni ukumcaphukisa. Ndimele ndizenze. Ndiyamthanda. Yintoni endiyenzayo? ยป.
Ingqungquthela yokuba isibini sothando nothando "isondo sisoloko sihambelana." Ngandlela-thile, umntu omnye ufuna ukulala ngokwesondo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba isondo kunye nobudala. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala ukuba kulo mqathango umgangatho ubaluleke ngaphezu kobuninzi. Umyeni wakho unokufuna ukulala ngesondo ngezizathu ezininzi:
1. Unesondo esiphezulu.
2. Uqinisekile ukuba yilokho okwenene amadoda okufanele akwenze.
3. Ufuna ukuthandana ngakumbi.
4. Uvakalelwa ngenye indlela yokuxhalaba, ukungazinzi kwezobudlelwane bakho.
Mkholise ukuba uyamthanda. Ukuze akwazi ukubonisa uthando lwakhe kuwe kuphela ngesondo. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ukudibana kunye nokuzinikela akunqunywanga ngumbalo wezenzo zesondo ngosuku. Yithi ungumntu wangempela-inkxaso yakho, ukhuselo kunye namandla. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba usitsho ukuba awuyithandi loo bhedlele-ubomi obunqabileyo. Fumana i-compromise. Isisombululo esinokuthi sinokubambisana ngokukhawuleza okanye ukufumana ulwalamano olusondeleyo ngendlela yokudibanisa kunye ne-caresses. Ukuba umyeni uyakuthanda, uya kusabela ngokufanelekileyo.
Ingxaki 5. "Iqabane lam liba namandla. Ndiyathetha, akanalo ukulungiswa. Uhlala esitsho ukuthi akuyonto yam, kodwa ndiyakhathazeka. Kwenzekani? Yintoni endiyenzayo? "
Amadoda amaninzi afumana iingxaki zokulungisa ngexesha elithile ebomini babo - xa beziva bexinezelekile, baneengxaki emsebenzini okanye bakhathele. Ngamanye amaxesha ingxaki yakhe inokudibanisa ukwesaba ngesini sakhe. Kule meko, ubuchule bokuphumula, ukucamngca nokugxila kulonwabo ngaphambi kokungena kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo kulo. Ukuxinezeleka kunokudala ukulungiswa.
Ukuba i-erection ayibonakali nangethuba le-masturbation okanye ekuseni-kholisa iqabane lakho ukuba ubone ugqirha. Iingxaki ziba nesifo senhliziyo okanye isifo sikashukela. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ugqirha ugunyazisa iziyobisi eziphelisa iingxaki ngokulungiswa. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, unokuqhagamshelana ne-sexologist. Kodwa kufuneka lwenziwe kunye.
Ingxaki 6. "Ndicinga ukuba ndinosulelo oludluliselwa ngesondo. Ndingayifumana njani ngakumbi ngokuchanekileyo? Yintoni endiyenzayo? "
Inyaniso kukuba izifo ezininzi ezithathelwanayo zolu hlobo azikho iimpawu kuqala, ngoko awukwazi ukutsho nje ukuba ugule okanye awukho. Kodwa oku akunqabile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimpawu zifana nale ndlela: ukukhulelwa kwamanzi, kunye nephunga elimnandi nombala. Unentlungu xa uchama okanye ulala ngesondo. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kufuneka ubone ugqirha. Ezi zifo zingenakulungeleka. Bafuna ikhosi epheleleyo, mhlawumbi nakwisibhedlele. Kodwa ukuba uxilongwe ngokuchanekileyo, nceda uqhagamshelane neklinikhi. Ukuba ukwesaba ukuvakalisa uluntu, thabatha uhlalutyo ngokungachazwanga. Kwixesha elizayo, iikhondom zingakukhusela kwiintsholongwane kwaye zincede ukhululeke, ujabulele ngesondo kwaye uphathe impilo yakho.