Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, kukho ininzi enkulu yeenkohlakalo, kwaye ezininzi zazo zixhalabele ngesini ngesini. Abantu bazi nje ukuba ukwenza kakuhle, kwaye kunjalo-kubi. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abantu bacinga ukuba ngokwenene, into enqatshelweyo ingaba yintle. Kwaye ke, izabelo zesondo zithi akukho nto iyakunqanda inkulumo entliziyweni, kuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela into ethile evumelekileyo. Kwaye ukuzonwabisa okufana nokulala ngesinye ubusuku kunakho konke ukukhulula, ngokukodwa kuba kunamathuba amaninzi.
1. Ungakhetha ngokukhethekileyo iqabane lakho.
Umlingani osisigxina ngokuqinisekileyo ulungile, kodwa kaninzi ufuna into entsha, okanye kunomntu. Ukuba sithetha ngexesha lesini lesini, akukho ke iingxaki ezinjalo. Ngoko, nayiphi na intombazana inokukhetha umntu kunye nokulala naye, ewe, ukuba uyayiphendula ngemvume. Kuyafana na madoda ahamba ngendlela efanayo namantombazana. Kuya kuba ukuba ngosuku oluthile ufuna umntu wohlobo oluthile, ngoko unokwenza ngokukhuselekileyo ekukhohliseni umlingane onjalo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukutshatyalaliswa kwexesha elilodwa kwenza kube lula ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo amaphupha akho kwaye "uzame" abathandi bazo zonke izinto ezifunwayo, ubungakanani, iimpawu zangaphandle njalonjalo.
2. Cinga nje ngovuyo lwakho.
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu zesini ngobusuku obunye ngethuba lokungazicingi ngeendlela ezininzi kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ubundlobongela phakathi kwabantu abanobuhlobo obuthile bubonakaliswe kukuba amaqabane akufanele acinge nje ngabo, kodwa "malunga nesiqingatha sesibini". Ewe, oku akunzima kunzima, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uzonwabele ngokupheleleyo inkqubo kule meko. Ixesha lesini lesini likhululekileyo inkululeko, ithuba lokuzingca. Kwaye oku kuyamangalisa, kuba akukho mfuneko yokucinga malunga nenjabulo yomlingane, xelisa ukuba ulungile, uzibambe kwaye njalo njalo. Oku kumnandi kumntu ngamnye ngabanye, ngokokuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokukhathalela kuphela izinto ezilungileyo kuye, kwaye akayi kuhlawula ingqalelo ngokukhethekileyo kwinqanaba lokuzonwabisa elifunyenwe yowesibili.
3. Musa ukuyinkimbinkimbi kwaye ube yedwa.
Ubomi bentlobano yezobudlelwane bobuqabane obuqhelekileyo bunemiqobo eninzi kunye nokuthintela. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngethuba lokuvuleka ngokugcwele, okungekho ngokubanzi, kuba kunokukhubekisa okanye ukuthusa okwesibini. Ngenxa yoko, amaqabane ahlala rhoqo afaka uhlobo lwe-mask, efihla abo bangenayo phantsi kwabo. Ukongezelela, kukho umgaqo omnye kwezobudlelwane, oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba kukho ukungaphumeleli okuthile, kufuneka ukuba ilungiswe ngokukhawuleza okanye ifihlwe ngokucophelela. Yaye ingxabano, engenakugwema, ayikuvumeli ukuba ufumane umrhumo opheleleyo wokuzonwabisa, kwaye yilokho okokulala ngesondo. Ubundlobongela ubusuku obunye - kunjalo. Ukuqhagamshelana okunjalo akudingi imfuneko yokuya kumlingane kwaye uzama ukwenza oko ukuze kungalungile kuwe, kodwa kwenye. Ubusuku bonke buya kuba yedwa kwaye abuyi kuphinda kwenzeke kwakhona, ubuncinane nomntu ofanayo. Ngenxa yoko, kunokwenzeka ukuba unakekele kuphela nge-orgasm yakho, kwaye kungekhona malunga nomfanekiso, umzekelo. Zonke iimpazamo zomzimba kunye nokungabikho kwamakhono athile zizinto ezintle nje, onokungafanele ucinga ngazo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukunandipha inkqubo, kwaye nokuba wonke umntu uyamthanda iqabane, ingxaki yakhe kuphela.
4. Yiba nokuvavanya okulungileyo.
Ukuba ufuna into engavumelekanga, ngoko-sexual time time is a choice option for experiments. Ukuze wenze kube lula ukuphumeza zonke izicwangciso, kunele ukufumana iqabane elihlangene. Ukongezelela, kwisondo esinjalo, umntu ongaqhelekanga uya kwenza njengomntu wesibini, ukuze ukhulule ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungacingi ngeemigaqo ethile yokuziphatha kunye nokunye. Ndingathanda ukuzama ukulala ngesondo - nceda, cwangcisa ukungcola kwangempela embhedeni - ngaphandle kweengxaki, ukuzama imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo ukusuka kumdlalo odlala indima - ngoko kuyamangalisa. Ngomntu ongekho mntwini awukwazi ukuba neentloni malunga neengcamango zakho kwaye uphumelele ngokuphumelelayo nangona unobuncwane okanye obungaqhelekanga. Kuzo zonke izinto zivumelekile ngokwesondo, ngoko akukho ndawo yokuba neentloni kunye neentloni kuyo.
5. Susa umbane.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ubulili kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye uphumule. Abo "abanesiqingatha sesibini", abanokududuza ngale ndlela, kule meko kulula, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kubantu abangabodwa, yonke into apha yinkimbinkimbi. Yaye indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kule meko kukukwenza ngesini esinye ngesini. Olu khetho luthandeka kungekuphela nje kuba lukuvumela ukuba ugxothe uxinzelelo, kodwa nangenxa yokuba akukuthinteli nantoni na. Ukukhupha umzwelo kunye nokuzikhupha komzimba, okubuyela kwimpilo eqhelekileyo, kwaye akukho nto ikwazi ukuba nayo. Ubundlobongela ubusuku obunye - olu luleko olupheleleyo, ungayisebenzisa kokubili ukwanelisa umnqweno wesini, kunye nokuphazamiseka kwiingxaki zemihla ngemihla. Okokuthi, yindlela enhle yokuphucula impilo yakho, engayibophelelanga nantoni na kwaye ingasetyenziswa njengoko ufuna.