Iimpendulo zalo mbuzo zinikezwa ngabangcali bezengqondo kunye nezocansi.
Emva kwesondo, abesifazana bafuna ukuba indoda ibakhonze, ibabambe ngasemva kwaye ibambe ngokuqinile ubuncinane imizuzwana embalwa. Ngoko abafazi banelisekile imfuno yokuthinteka, okungazange kube nexesha lokutshabalalisa emva kwesondo. Bayaqonda kwakhona umnqweno wokukhuseleko, emva kokulahlekelwa amandla kunye namandla.
Okwesibini, abaninzi abafazi bafuna ukuva ukuba yonke into imnandi. Bafuna ukuva ukuncoma, ngokunyaniseka njengokuba babekho ngaphambili kwimidlalo yothando. Abasetyhini badinga la magama, ukuze bangabi nantembelo ekuthandeni kwabo.
Okwesithathu, sifuna umntu okhethiweyo ukuba alele phantsi imizuzu embalwa, ubuncinci kwiminithi ngaphambi kokushiya kunye nomnyango wecala emva kwakhe. Ngaloo ndlela, sizama ukuziqinisekisa ukuba asidibaniswanga kuphela ngesondo, kodwa nangemvakalelo enyanisekileyo.
Kwaye ngoku siza kuhlalutya imeko efanayo, kodwa ukusuka kwindawo yabantu.
Emva kwesondo, amadoda alala, adle aphinde alale. Amadoda achitha amandla amaninzi kunye neekhalori kubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunabesifazana, kuba bebenomsebenzi ngakumbi kwimidlalo yokuthanda. Ngoko akumangalisi ukuba banqotshwa ngumnqweno wokuphila, njengokutya nokulala ukubuyisela amandla asetyenzisiweyo.
Okwesibini, amadoda afuna ukuva kumfazi ukuba ziphi na izinto ezilungileyo ebhedini. Kwakhona zineenkathazo, ngakumbi ezo zihambelana nendawo esondeleyo. Bazifihla ngokucophelela, kunokuba bafazi. Indoda kufuneka yazi ukuba embhedeni yena uApollo kunye naye ulingana naye, ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuya kumnika uncedo oluhle kunye nokugqithisa kwamandla. Ngoko ke, ukuba uziphathe nomntu emva kwesondo, udinga njengeqhawe langempela.
Emva koko bathambekela ekuhlaleni eshahleni, emva koko bafumana i-massage evela kumfazi. Ngokwezentlupheko, abantu abangama-60% abaphuphayo ngawo. Ama-40% aseleyo afuna ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngezoshishino zawo, vula i-TV yabo ethandayo okanye ikhompyutha, njl.
Kubamabhinqa kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ukhumbule ukuba kufuneka uchithe ubusuku ekhaya, nokuba usuku lwakho lude. Kwanesithathu ntambama ucele ukuba akuhambise ekhaya ngomusa. Ukongezelela, ngale ndlela uza kuphepha iintlobo ezingathandekiyo, ezinjengeziqhumiso ezigqithisiweyo, ukungabikho kwebhola lezinyo kunye ne-blouse. Kwaye kusasa umlingane akajongi njengangokuhlwa.
Ukuba usuka uvuka kusasa etaweni enye, ube nesimo esihle, ujabule kwaye ujabule. Into ephambili ekuseni akufumani ukufumana ubuhlobo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukumbuza imibuzo efana nale: Ngaba siya kuphinda sibonane kwakhona? uya kundibiza? Kufuneka akubuze imibuzo enjalo, kungekhona wena. Zama ukuziphatha nomntu emva kwesondo ngokuthobeka.
Into ephambili ayikuziphatheka njengendoda kule meko kwaye musa ukuyibonga kuye, njengokuba abanye besifazane benza. Oku kunokubacaphukisa baze baziphathe kakubi kakhulu, kuba ziphela ngaphandle komgangatho oqinileyo, kwaye ngaphakathi zingabantwana ababuthathaka nabakhuselekanga abalindele ukufudumala kunye nesisa kwihafu yabo yesibini.
Ungakulibala ukumbonisa emva kwesondo ukuba uyamkhathalela. Ukunyamekela kuyisisombululo esinamandla sokunqoba intliziyo yendoda. Awunakuqhafaza iliso, njengoko sele esele ulala nombhede wakho ngekhofi eshushu. Esi sibonakaliso esihle kakhulu sengqondo sakho kuwe ...
Musa ukukhawuleza ukushiya indoda yakho emva kwesondo kwaye umshiye wedwa embhedeni, kubalulekile ukuba uzive ufudumele kunye nenkohlakalo, ewe, kukuvumba komzimba wakho kumtsalane. Ngoko zama ukuchitha nendoda emva kwesondo, ixesha elincinane.
Ukulala kunye nangemva kwayo, qiniseka kwaye ungadlali loo mi sebenzi yentlalo ehlala kuyo xa uxoxisana nabantu abangabazi. Nangu wena! Yaye amazwi oya kuthetha kuwo komnye umzuzu unamandla amakhulu. Ngoko jonga oko utshoyo nendlela. Kwaye sinethemba lokuba yonke into iya kusebenza kakuhle kunye nonyulwe.