I-Orthodoxy kunye nemfundo yabantwana

Unqulo luhlala luhlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini yoluntu. Ucacisa iinkalo ezininzi zobomi, kodwa zikude nokuqonda kwezesayensi zanamuhla yonke into. I-Orthodoxy namhlanje yenye yezona zinqulo ezidumileyo kwaye zichaphazela kakhulu ukukhuliswa kwabantwana. Olu luhlobo oluyinkimbinkimbi olubandakanya iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezintle nezimbi, kwaye ingqwalasela yayo ingcono ukungakhethi kwiingcebiso, kodwa ngokuthelekisa.

I-Orthodoxy isekelwe kwiBhayibhile kunye neMithetho Eyishumi, kodwa ayinakuhlala isetyenziswa ngokukhululekile kwixesha langoku. Ngokomzekelo, ngokuzama ukunqanda umntwana ukuba alalane ngesondo, abazali bafaka ingozi yokuhlangabezana nokungaqondani. Ngezihlandlo zanamhlanje, ukuvalwa kweentlobo kufuneka kuhluke, ukuze i-Orthodoxy ingasetyenziswanga rhoqo.

Enyanisweni, iOrthodoxy kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana kuyaxhomekeka kakhulu kubazali abanokholo. Nangona kunjalo, izithuba zazo kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, enye yemiyalelo ithi: musa ukubulala, kufuneka ucinge ukuba ungayifuni. Ekukhuliseni komntwana, le nto iya kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Kwakhona umzekelo, kufuneka ukhumbule imiyalelo: vula itekisi lesibini. Akukufanelekanga okwangoku, kodwa ukuba kwakuthiwa, thintela ukungquzulana, umphumo uza kuba mnandi kakhulu kwaye uncedo. Ukutolika okunjalo kweziseko zeOrdodoxy akukona ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa oku kuwukusetyenziswa kwemithetho yamandulo ukuya kwimeko yangoku.

Ngaba imfundo yama-Orthodox yabantwana ayifuni ukuba ifuneke? Kutheni, ezinye izahluko ezisisiseko zeBhayibhile zifanele zaziwe kubo bonke abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imibono yenkolo. Sekunjalo, uxelela inxalenye yembali yabantu bonke. Iyintoni imfihlelo yokhetho olukhethekileyo lwalowo malungu? Kulula kakhulu, kufuneka uqhekeke ukubonakala kwabantu, kodwa apha ukuyeka ukuphula imithetho, kufuneka. Kwamanye amaxesha isinyathelo sibonakala siyamangalisa, kodwa, iziphumo zikhethekileyo. Ngokukhawuleza abantwana baqala ukubheka ihlabathi ukusuka kwindawo eyahlukileyo. Ukuqwalasela zonke iziganeko ezivela kwicala elilungileyo, kwaye uthatha imizekelo yokuziphatha kwabantu kwiindawo zembali zeBhayibhile. Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni xa zonke iimfundiso zenkolo zisetyenziswa ngokupheleleyo?

I-Orthodoxy kwimfundo yabantwana iphendulela uvavanyo lwangempela. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, akunakusetyenziswa kwimpilo yanamhlanje, ngoko umntwana kufuneka ahlulwe phakathi kweminqweno yakhe kunye nemithetho esekelwe ngabazali ngokungqinelana neenkolelo zonqulo. Kuvela ukuphuhliswa kweendlela ezimbini, okungekho nto ingathiwa yi-positive. Omnye akanakutsho ukuba enye yamacandelo enkqubo enjalo ayimfuneko, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka idibaniswe ngokufanelekileyo. Ukugatya iziseko zamandulo okanye imithetho yehlabathi langoku, abazali bafaka ingozi ekukhuliseni umntu ngomntwana, kwaye oku kuya kuba yintlupheko kungekuphela kwentsapho, kodwa kuzwelonke ngokubanzi.

Ngoku akukho ncinane nayiphi na imizekelo ye-Orthodox yokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, elowo uguqula ummi wexesha elizayo ukuba abe yidolli ehlambulukileyo. Akakwazi ukugqithisa iziseko, nangona zingekho mthethweni. Ungazami ukufundisa umntwana, ubeke ingqalelo kuphela kwimibono kunye namaphupha abo. Iintsuku ezidlulileyo zidlulile, kwaye ihlabathi lanamhlanje lifikile kulo. Ushiya uphawu olunzulu kwimfundo kwaye alukwazi ukulibala ngaye. Ngokufanelekileyo, abazali bafumana umgca ofanelekileyo phakathi kwe-Orthodox kunye nemigaqo nemimiselo yanamhlanje. Akulungele ukwenza, kodwa umphumo uya kuba mkhulu kangangokuthi abantu baya kuqonda, ixesha alizange lichithe, kuba umntwana uya kuthobela kwaye uya kuhlala eyingxenye yehlabathi elikhoyo.