Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokusindiswa nokutshatyalaliswa. Okokuqala, mhlawumbi kunzima nakakhulu. Oku kukuxolela nokubuyela. Kwaye ezininzi izibini zilandela le ndlela, naphezu kokuhlambalaza nokudumala. Iimeko ezahlukahlukeneyo zikhokelela kule ndlela. Le minyaka iphile ixesha elide (okanye kungekude, kodwa uyavuya), ngabantwana, ikhaya eliqhelekileyo, nje isiqhotyoshelweyo kunye nokuqonda ukuba ngaphandle kwalo mntu akukho nentsingiselo. Kwaye umququzeleli wokubuyiselwa kobudlelwane ngokuqhelekileyo uyiso "yecala lenkundla", owathi wenza uxolo kwaye wagxininisa ukuhlukana. Yaye ungacingi ukuba ukuba ubuhlobo obuqhekekileyo abukwazi ukubuyiswa. Kodwa ukuba ukhethe umendo onjalo, kufuneka ucinge ngenyameko, ngaba ufuna ngokwenene umntu okhashelayo? Kwaye uyahlukana naye ebuhlungu kangaka kuwe? Cinga, emva koko, abaninzi abantu bathi ukugwenxa kunye nokuhlala ngokwahlukana ngokuqhelekileyo akuyi kubhubhisa ubudlelwane, kodwa bomeleze! Emva kwakho konke, ukuqonda ukubaluleka komntu osondele kuwe, ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva nje umehluko!
Kodwa, ukuba uhleli ngokuchasene nokubuyiselwa kobudlelwane emva kokungcatshwa kwesiqingatha sesibini kwaye uzimisele ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoko kuya kufuneka uhambe ngendlela yesibini ... Lungiselela ukuxinezeleka kwexeshana. Oku kuphephekiyo. Musa ukuhlala nje ekungcatshweni komntu othandekayo. kodwa akukho nto enokuyenza ... Ekuqaleni, xa iingcinga ezibuhlungu ziphezu kwentloko yakho, zama ukuzinceda. Susa zonke izinto ezifana nobuhlobo bakho obuhlukileyo kunye nomntu owaphule naye. Zama ukwenza oko ufuna. Jonga ii-movie zakho ezizithandayo, udle izitya zakho ezizithandayo, uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo, ukuze ungabi wedwa kunye neenkumbulo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza nantoni na into oyifunayo. Ngoku ukhululekile kwaye unako ukuchitha yonke ixesha lakho elikhululekile kuwe!
Ngako oko okwesibini kwenzeka - ukuziphucula! Qala ukutshintsha-ngaphandle nangaphakathi! Kwangexesha elide ndifuna ukutshintsha iinwele zam? - Yenza! Ukutshintsha umfanekiso kuya kunceda ukutshintsha ubomi. Ngexesha elide sasifuna ukuzama umdlalo omtsha (i-tennis? Ukupenda? Amantambo aseMpuma?) - hamba! Zama ukuthatha ixesha lakho lokukhulula ukuya phezulu. Uvavanyo, ngokuqinisekileyo aluyi kuba lubi kakhulu ... Ukongeza, unethuba elikhulu lokuhla ukuya emsebenzini. Emva kwakho konke, impumelelo ekwakheni umsebenzi wakho iya kuzisa uvuyo olukhulu!
Xa abantu beva ukungcatshiswa nokuhlukana kwabo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvakalelwa kwengqondo echanekileyo ... Ukuba akunjalo kunokwenzeka, kwaye iingcamango ezibuhlungu ziqhutyelwa kuyo yonke into, bhekisa kwizinto ezinokukubuyisela kwisimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Umntu ngamnye, kuxhomekeke kwienkolelo zakhe kunye nomlingiswa wakhe, uneendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela. Omnye uya kuncedwa ngcokola enyanisekileyo nomhlobo ondihloniphayo kwaye uyayixabisa, kwaye ngubani na onokukuqinisekisa ukuba ulungile! Omnye uya kunceda ukutyelela icawa. Kumntu ofuna umzekelo ogunyazisiweyo, khetha umzekelo womntu owaziwayo onokumxabana naye, kwaye ufunde i-biography yakhe. Mhlawumbi uya kuncedwa ibali malunga nendlela umntu odumileyo kunye nomthandwayo oye wafumana ulwahlulo nokuhlukana. Ngokuqinisekileyo uvakalelwa kukuba kuya kukunceda, ungamkeli, kungenjalo kuya kuba nzima. Isisombululo esihle kukuba utshintshe imeko, ukuba kunokwenzeka, uthathe uhambo, tyelela abazali bakho, bahlobo, hambani niphume. Ukuba zonke iindlela ezi ngasentla azifanelekanga, zama ukubhekisela kwizinto abantu abahlala beza kuzo ukufuna iimpendulo kwimibandela yabo ... Kwiincwadi! Ngoku kukho iincwadi, ezidalwe ukunceda umntu asombulule ubunzima bokuphila. Ukuba emva kokuzithemba kwawa kunye nokuzithemba kwawa, funda incwadi eya kukunceda ukuyilondoloza ... Into ephambili - kholelwa ukuba umphumo oyifunayo uya kufezwa! Ukufezekisa, ukuvula amacala omtsha wobomi, kuseka iinjongo uze kubo.
Nantoni na oyenzayo, yenza oko! Akukho mntu ungcono kunokuba awuyi kunceda! Yaye khumbula ukuba awuyena mntu wokuqala osikhathazayo emva kokungcatsha nokuhlukana, ukuba abanye baye bajamelana, ngoko unokukwenza!