Yintoni oyenzayo.
Okokuqala, ungazami ukuqala ubomi obutsha, ukulibala nokuphelisa uthando lwakho lwangaphambili. Akunakwenzeka ngokwenyama, uthando alukho indawo kwijee - kwiintsuku ezimbini awuyi kuphuma. Lungiselela ukuba kuya kuba luhambo olude lobungangeliveki enye. Kodwa khumbula ukuba umntu unokukwazi ukujamelana naluphi na ubunzima, kwanokuhlukana kwintanda yakhe.
Okokuqala, isifo esiyintloko emva kokuhlukana yiengcamango eziqhubekayo ngazo. Ekhaya nasemsebenzini, kwiholide kwaye xa ulungiselela amaxwebhu abalulekileyo. Ngethuba lokuqala ungashiyi ingcamango yomntu owayengumthandayo ongalithenganga nje kuphela, kodwa nangemvakalelo yakho, ithemba kunye nokulindela. Awukwazi ukulawula ukuthanda kwabo ngamandla. Baya kuvela kuzo zonke izinto ezincinci kunye nemibutho emangalisayo. Ngoko ke, konke okukumkhumbuzayo, kufuneka ukuba uyilahle, okanye unikezele kubahlobo bakho (umama, ugogo, unina.). Ukuba yinto ongenakuyenza ngaphandle, awukwazi, ubuncinane ukuyifaka kwikhementi. Makukhumbule ngaye makancinane kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Emva koko, zithintele, nantoni na loo nto. Akunandaba ukuba uza kwenza ntoni, cinga nje isifundo ekuthandayo. Kungcono into eyenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo yithatha ixesha kunye nemigudu, kodwa ayiyiyo ingqiqo. Ukucoca indlu, udibanise iincwadi kwi-closet kwaye uzibeke ngokulandelelana, uthathe umsebenzi onyanzelekileyo uxanduva, iingxelo zendlu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nantoni na, nje uhlale ungenalutho njengoko kunokwenzeka. Ewe, ukwenza oku kunzima, kodwa unokuqiniseka ukuba kule ngxaki awuyi kucinga ngento yangaphambili, kwaye usinde ngokuzinzile ukuhlukana kwintanda yakho.
Cela uncedo kubahlobo (abahlobo abasondeleyo). Akukho nto ingcono kumntu ongciniweyo kunengxoxo eyimfihlakalo nomntu osondeleyo, uthele umphefumlo wakho, wakhala, vumela le platinum iphume. Iinyembezi zikhokelela entlungu, kwaye zizisa. Ungayisebenzisi kakubi. Emva kwakho konke, ngeentlungu zakho, kufuneka uqale ukuzilawula kwaye uzikhala ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye akukho mfuneko kakhulu.
Ekugqibeleni kufuneka uguqule into ebomini. Qala encinci, uye kuthenga. Ukuthengwa kuyindlela enhle yokuba ungaphumi emva kokuhlukana nomthandayo. Hlela imvume kwigumbi, uthenge imifanekiso uze ubakhokele kwiifoto zakho kunye naye! Ukuba kunzima kuwe, ngoko unokuzilungiselela encinci (okanye enkulu, ukuba kunokwenzeka) ukuhamba. Uhambo olulula ukuya kwiveki, ukuya kwesinye isixeko esinokwakha ubuhle, siya kuhlaziya iinjongo, uhlambulule intloko kwaye unike intlawulo yeemvakalelo zengqondo.
Kwakhona, ukwenzela ukuba ungahambi, u-adrenaline uza kukunceda. Naluphina umdlalo ogqithiseleyo, gxuma kwiparachute, ipayipi yomhlaba okanye into enjalo. Kwaye cinga nje ngomsebenzi wokuzonwabisa, ungene kwimidlalo.
Yintoni ongayenzi.
Masithi ngokukhawuleza ukuba akufuneki ukuba uqalise ngokukhawuleza kwiimvakalo zothando uze uzame ukugxotha intlungu ngokuzonwabisa okungathintekanga. Oku kumnandi akunakwenzeka ukuba uyinyanisekile, kwaye xa uzama ukujonga ngaphandle, ujonge ngakumbi ukuba uya kuhlamba. Yaye ungagqoki isiskiti kuwe, qiniseka ngokudandatheka kwakho, iimvakalelo ezifakwe ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwakho, zilimaze ngakumbi kunezo zikhutshwa ngentando.
Kukho nawuphi na, khumbula oko kwakutshiwo ngasentla. Naluphi na ukuhlukana, ukwahlukana, ukwahlukana kunokufumana. Emva koko, nangona lixesha elibi, kodwa ugqirha. Into ephambili kukumelana neenyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala, kwaye intlungu iya kuba lula.