Kwikhefu ukunyamekela umntwana ngokuqhelekileyo ushiya umama wengane, kuba ukunyamekela kwayo kuyenziwa nguye. Kodwa phantsi kweemeko ezithile zeentsapho, imeko ivela xa unina womntwana engenawo ithuba lokuhamba ngekhefu lokubeleka. Kule meko, ibhunga leentsapho ligqiba ukuba ngubani oya kumnakekela umntwana, umzekelo, ugogo. Emva koko kukho imibuzo, nokuba ngaba ugogo kufuneka axoshwe emsebenzini, yiyiphi imimiselo onokuyenza kwikhefu ukunyamekela umzukulu wakhe okanye umzukulwana wakhe?
Ngoko, ngokubhekiselele kwinqaku le-13 le-Federal Law "Kwiingenelo ZikaRhulumente Zabahlali Abantwana Abantwana", oomama, oogada, ezinye izalamane ezinyamekela umntwana zibonelelwa ngomshuwalense wezenhlalakahle karhulumente. Iindidi ezidwelisweyo zinelungelo elilinganayo lokufumana isibonelelo senyanga, kunye nomama, ngexesha lokunyamekela komntwana emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka engama-half. Nceda uqaphele ukuba isibonelelo senyanga nenyanga, umama, umgcini, esinye isihlobo siyahlawuliswa kwindawo yomsebenzi. Ngokomthetho okhoyo, akukho mfahluko ocacileyo phakathi komntu ngokwenene onakekela umntwana kunye nonina. Ilungelo lokuhlala ekhefu lokunyamekela umntwana, ngaphandle koomama, unokuba ngumntwana wengane, kunye nesinye isihlobo. Oku kungenzeka ukuba kuvezwe kwiKhowudi yeMisebenzi.
Ngokomthetho (inqaku 256 le-TCRF), elichaza inkqubo yokunika ikhefu lomzali ikhefu kumsebenzi, ngokupheleleyo okanye inxalenye engasetyenziselwa nguyise, ugogo, umkhulu, umgcini kunye nezinye izihlobo zomntwana osenyanzelisayo umntwana. Kule meko, xa unikezela ikhefu elinjalo komnye umntu, umqeshi akufanele abe nombuzo okanye ukungathandabuzeki malunga nokuba kungani umntwana engenakunyamekelwa ngumama, nokuba uya kuqhubeka nokufundisisa, athathe inkonzo yempi okanye asebenze phantsi kwesivumelwano. Unako ukulahla eli xesha elide.
Ikhefu elinikezelwe ukunakekelwa kwengane ehlala kude kube yiminyaka emithathu yintsana iqala ngomhla olandelayo emva kokuphela kwekhefu lokubeleka kunye nekhefu lokubeletha. Ukuba emva kokuzalwa umama akakwazi ukuthatha ikhefu ukunyamekela umntwana, umyalelo unika ithuba lokuwusebenzisa komnye umntu, owenzekayo nanini na emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Le meko icingelwa kwiimeko apho umntwana enyanzeliswa nguyise okanye esinye isihlobo. Sebenzisa le holide inokwenzeka kuphela kumgaqo wesicelo. Ilungelo lokushiya ukunakekelwa kwengane lifunyanwa ngugogo kuphela emva kokunyangwa kwakhe kunye nesicelo esibhaliweyo kumqeshi wakhe. Ukongeza kweso sicelo, uluhlu lwamaphepha afanelekileyo luquka:
- isitifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana, esifuna ukunakekelwa kunyaka kunye nesiqingatha;
- isatifikethi esivela kwiofisi yomqeshi okanye ngabazali babazali abaqinisekisa ukuba abahambi kwikhefu yokunyamekela umntwana kwaye abafumani isibonelelo senyanga;
- amaxwebhu malunga nobuhlobo nomntwana ofuna unonophelo.
Kule meko, ugogo angasebenza, nangona kunjalo ekhosini. Umthetho uphinde unikezele ilungelo lokusebenza, kodwa ngezinye izithintelo: phantsi kweemeko zokungasebenzi okanye ekhaya. Kule meko, ugogo ugcina ilungelo lokufumana inzuzo (ngenyanga) ngesiseko se-inshurensi yentlalo karhulumente. Olu hlobo lweeholide lunokuphazanyiswa, kwaye ugogo unelungelo lokuphazamisa nayiphi na ixesha elifanelekileyo kuye kwaye asebenze kwindawo yakhe yangaphambili. Kwimeko apho umqeshi wenqaba ukunika unogogo isithuba esifanayo ngaphambi kokuba ashiye ikhefu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba afake isicelo enkundleni, eya kumbuyisela emsebenzini.
Kufuneka kwakhona kuqaphele ukuba iholide ejoliswe ekunyamekelweni komntwana ibandakanywe ubude benkonzo. Umqeshi ubale eli xesha kwixesha elide nelingenakucima Ukongeza, ukushiya ukunyamekela umntwana kufakwe ubude benkonzo kwizodwa, ngaphandle kweempesheni zokuhlala phantsi.