Ngoko ngandlela-thile, akunjalo? Ukuzola kubaluleke kakhulu kumfazi okhulelwe. Kwimeko enomdla, lo mfazi uba ngu-hypochondriac kwaye, uzama, ngokusemandleni akho konke ukukhusela yena kunye nosana oluzayo, ulungele ukulandela yonke into "engekho", enika izibonakaliso zabantu kunye neenkolelo. Kwaye kukho ezininzi. Ngoko kunako kwaye akufanele kwenziwe ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kusekelwe kwiinkolelo zamandulo kunye nemibono yabantu.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanako ukugunda, ukuthunga, ukudibanisa , umntwana angakwazi ukuzalwa nge-moles. Ngomsila, umfazi angalimaza: unokubamba inaliti okanye azinqume ngeesisi, ezenza umothuke, okuchaphazela umntwana.
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukuhlala emnyango. Kwakukholelwa ukuba umyinge ngumgca phakathi kwelizwe langaphandle nakwamanye amazwe. Ukongezelela, ukuhlala kwidrafti yomama ozayo akuthembisi nto enhle. Lo mqondiso uncediswa ngokuvalwa kokungena kwimilo okanye umshanelo. Unako ukungena kwintlonelo ye-brownie ohlala khona. Yaye ukuba ucinga ukuba uhamba phezu komqobo, unokwakhubeka nokuwa, okuyingozi kakhulu kubomi bentsana.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanako ukutya amajikijolo amnyama - umntwana uza kuzalwa obomvu, awukwazi ukuyidla intlanzi-uya kuzalwa engenalumntu. Nantsi yonke into elula, amajikijolo kunye neentlanzi zaselwandle zinezifo eziqinileyo, ukusetyenziswa kwazo kwiimali ezingenamkhawulo kungabangela i-diathesis kumntwana. Ngaloo nto ihlazo.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akafanele aphakamise izandla zakhe ukuze intambo yomgca ingambulanga umntwana esibelethweni. Izazi ze-gynecologists zaxotha le ngqungquthela. Nangona kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukusuka phakathi kokukhulelwa akukacetyiswa ukuba uxhomeke iimpahla uze ufikelele, njengoko i-amniotic fluid iyakwazi ukuphula kunye nokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuqala kuza kuqala.
Ixesha elizayo umama ungeke unqume iinwele. Ngokutsho kweenkolelo ezidumileyo, oku kuzaliswe ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa, ukukhulelwa kwesisu okanye ukuzalwa komntwana ofileyo, ekubeni kwixesha elidala kwakukholelwa ukuba ubomi bonke bomelela kwizinwele. Izinwele azizange zibekwe, kuphela ngexesha lezesifo esiyingozi (isibetho, i-k'hola).
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukuhlala emlenzeni wakhe. Ingane iya kuba ngumlenze womlenze, iqela leenyawo. Izazi ze-Gynecologists nazo azicebisi ukuba kunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, le nto ayinanto yokwenza ne clubfoot. Kule ndawo, ukunikezelwa kwegazi kuhlahloka, oku kunokubangela ukuba i-varicose veins iqhubise.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanakujongwa ngendawo embi, eyingozi kwaye eyingozi. Umntwana uza kuzalwa engalunganga. Yaye le mqondiso ayikho into engafanelekanga ingqiqo, njengoko bekuye kwangqina ukuba umntwana, esesibelekweni sikamama, uyakwazi ukuziva zonke iimvakalelo zakhe. Ngoko ke, kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba oomama abahlala bezithokozisa ngomculo omhle (umculo weklasi ufaneleke kakhulu), imifanekiso yobugcisa kunye neendawo ezintle, kunye namava omhle. Konke oku kuya kuba nempembelelo enhle kumntu wexesha elizayo.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akakwazi ukuthetha ngokukhulelwa "ngaphambi kwexesha" kunokuthi i-jinxed. Idatha yeenkcukacha zibonisa ukuba kwiindawo zokuqala zomngcipheko wokukhulelwa kwesisu kuphezulu kunemimiselo kamva. Kwaye le nkcazelo yamandulo yasichazwa ngokuphazamiseka kwamandla omnyama. Kwaye ke, ukuba bathethe ngokukhawuleza ngabo, babesaba ukuba isisu sexesha elizayo singabonwa.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanakudla ngasese. Kwakholelwa ukuba umntwana uya kuba neentloni. Akuqhelekanga ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukukhethwa kwintlobo yowesifazane ukuguqula kokubili ngokubaluleka kokutya, kwaye ngokunyusa umthamo. Eli bhinqa lihlaziswa yilo kwaye "lifihla" nge-tidbit. Oku kufuneka kugwenywe, kuba ukutya okunomsoco "ngokukhawuleza" izondlo zibi kakhulu.
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukufotshwa. Kukholelwa ukuba isiqhamo siyayeka ukukhula.
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukuthenga izinto zintsana. Umntwana uza kuzalwa efile. Lo mqondiso uhambelana nokufa okuphezulu kweentsana ezinsukwini ezelwe. Ngoku esi sikhokelo sinokulahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwayo, kunye neemimemane zivuya kakhulu zikhetha iimpahla zeemvumba zazo. Ngokuvisisanayo, umama omncinci akanakwenzeka ukuba athathe uvuyo emva kokuhamba esibhedlele ukuze aphume kwintengiso ekukhangela izinto ngenxa yeemvuthu.
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukuthetha igama lomntwana ozayo. Kwakholelwa ukuba imikhosi engcolileyo ingabangela ingozi kumntwana.
Umama ozayo akanakuchukumisa amakati. Umntwana uya kuba neentshaba ezininzi. Iikati zithwala i-toxoplasmosis, kwaye xa edibana nesilwanyana, owesifazane okhulelwe angakwazi ukuzibamba, kwaye ngokusebenzisa i-placenta ichaphazele umntwana wakhe. I-Toxoplasmosis isifo esichaphazela inkqubo ye-nervous. Ukuze ungabonakali wena kunye nosana lwakho unobungozi, kungcono ukuphepha ukuthintana neekati. Ukuba umama ozayo unomhlobo okhuphayo, akuyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo ukujonga isilwanyana kwisigqirha sezilwanyana ukuba ubukho be-arhente.
Umama ozayo akakwazi ukuxabana nokufunga. Umntwana uya kuba kubi. Kuyaziwa ukuba owesifazane okhulelweyo kufuneka aphephe iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Ukutshitshiswa kunye nokwesaba kunobangela uxinzelelo oluphezulu lwegazi, oluchaphazela kakubi impilo yentsana yakho.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanako ukunyathela iziqhamo ezikhulayo emhlabeni ukusalela.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akakwazi ukunyuka ngefasitela, kwaye abuye ahambe ngaphezu kwelogi: ukuzalwa okunzima kunokwenzeka.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akanako ukupompa umkhwa ongenanto. Kuthetha ukuba umntwana akanalo ndawo kuyo.
Kwaye oku akusilo uluhlu lokugqibela "lwezibango zabantu". Kukho izibonakaliso ezingenangqondo. Umzekelo: ukukhulelwa okupheleleyo akunakukuchaphazela ubuso bakhe - ubuso bomntwana buza kuba nezikhumbuzo zokuzalwa. Kule meko, ubuso bethu sonke kufuneka bufakwe kwiimpawu zokuzalwa.
Ngoko ihambelana njani neempawu zendalo kunye neenkolelo, ukukholelwa kwinto enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi ukuyenza ngexesha lokukhulelwa? Wonke umntu uzimisele ngokuzimela. Emva koko, iimpawu zithatha ubulumko bobuzwe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kukho inkozo engqiqweni kubo. Kodwa, kubonakala ngathi kumfazi okhulelweyo kukufanelekile ukuba angalandeli ngokungaqondi naluphi uhlobo lweenkolelo, kodwa ukuthobela yonke imiyalelo kunye neengcebiso zogqirha wakho.