Ukulwa nokutshintsha rhoqo kwendoda

Indlela yokujongana nokukrexeza komyeni wakhe? Kwimeko apho ukungathembeki rhoqo kuhlasela ubomi bakho, musa ukukhawuleza ukwenza izigqibo ezikhawulezayo. Emva koko, ukuba ufuna ukugcina ulonwabo lwakho, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukulwa nokukhwabanisa, kutheni kungafanelekile ukuba ufanele !!!

Ukuba unomhawu, ngoko umyalelo awukuvuyisi kakhulu kumlingane wakho, kwaye kukunika ezininzi izithintelo endleleni yokwakha ubudlelwane. Ngoko, ukuba unqwenele ukulwa, ngoko siya kukunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa esizikholelwayo ziyakukunceda ukuphelisa ukutshatyalaliswa komyeni wakho. Kucaciswe ngokufanelekileyo ukuba kulula ukunika iingcebiso kunokukwenza into ethile, kodwa isiluleko sethu sokuqala asilo esitsha: "Musa ukuyeka! ukulwa nokukrexeza komyeni wakhe! "Musa ukuphelelwa yithemba, ukukhala, uhlale uhlambalaza umyeni malunga nokungcatsha kwakhe, ngokungaqhelekanga oku kuguqula imeko ukuba ibe ngcono. Kunoko, uya kubenza ubenze.

Musa ukulungiselela izicwangciso zomona, musa ukudala ukufudumala emoyeni endlwini, ngenxa yoko, ukuzisa umyeni uya kucinga ukuba ubomi bakhe bentsapho bubekezeleleke, kunye nexesha elichithwe kunye nenkosikazi yakhe iparadesi imizuzu. Yaye ucinga ukuba kuya kubakho ukutsala? Kwintsapho? Okanye na? .... Ngethuba, kwaye nonke baya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba bahlule kunye nawe, mhlawumbi ungakhange ube nolwazi nokuzisola, uthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akunakunzima ukuhlala nawe. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukulandelelana kweziganeko kuya kutshintshana, wathi, kuya kucacisa oku kulandelayo: oku wamzisa waza watshintsha. Ungalibali into ebalulekileyo - malunga nabantwana bakho. Ubuqhetseba bendoda yinkathazo oya kuyenza ngayo ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, sele ukhulu kunene, kwaye kubantwana ababonela izibuko zasekhaya, oku kungabangela ingxaki yengqondo. Khumbula ukuba amadoda aphephe kakhulu, kwaye azibonakaliswa ngongcamango, ngenxa yokuba abonakalisa umdla kubo kuphela iqabane elinesigxina, kodwa nakwabanye abasetyhini.

\ Kwizinto ezisemgangathweni zomntu ngamnye, umnqweno wokuwunqoba omnye umfazi okwenzekayo, ukuba uzibonakalise ukuba unako ukukwazi into ethile, ukuba akunzima ukumlinga umfazi kwindoda yangempela.

Qala kule nto xa uhlola umlingane wakho. Musa ukucinga ukuba indoda eboshwe ngumtshato ikhuselwe kwabanye abesifazana kwaye akayi kukuphulaphula nabani na. Yaye ukuba uthe wacinga njalo, kufuneka usebenzise intsimbi ephethe ngesandla, oza kwenza konke ngokuthanda kwakho, kungekhona umntu. Umntu ngamnye unomnqweno wokugcina uhlobo lwenkululeko, ukwenza njengoko ufuna. Kwaye kule nkalo, amadoda anesandla somthi wesigxina phambi kwabasetyhini. Awuthandi xa ufuna ukwenza into ngendlela yakhe? Kwaye ufuna ukuba ngokwakhe. Kulixesha elide lokumfundisa kwakhona. Kwaye inomdla kwabanye abafazi akukho nto engavamile. Kwaye mhlawumbi uzonwabela abanye abantu. Qonda ukuba amadoda amaninzi aqhatha abafazi bawo, ngelishwa, kungekudala kungekudala.

Amadoda amaninzi avuma ukuba abazange bacebe ukutshintsha, kwenzeka nje. Zonke ezi ngasentla zichazwe asikho isizathu sokuguqula amadoda, ezi ziphumo zezifundo zokukrexeza. Mhlawumbi, xa ufunde le nto, unako ukuphatha kakubi ukutshutshiswa komlingane. Cinga ngenyameko uze ungabakhathaleli loo madoda. Ngendlela, abafazi banako ukukhohlisa. Lobuthathaka bendoda kufuneka kuthathwe "kude nentliziyo". Cinga ukuba ukuba ungazi into eyenzekayo, ubuya kuhlala uphila kakhulu. Oku kuba yintlekele, ukuba iqabane lingafuni ukulilungisa ngokuthula. Cinga ngesizathu sokuba umyeni wakho utshintshe. Indlela elula ukuyibiza ngokuthi "inja" namanye amagama angamangalisi, kodwa oku akuyi kuzisa uxolo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukugwenxa kukungabikho kokuvisisana nolwalamano. Gcina phantsi kwaye ucinge ngobomi bakho bentsapho kunye nobudlelwane bakho, kuba ezandleni zakho konke kulungiswe ukuze ungalahlekelwa esinye isiqingatha.