Kwaye ngokuqala, zigqibo kuwe, ngaba uyayithanda ngempela? Ukuba uloyiko lokuba wedwa, ufuna nje umntu ukuba abe khona, ngoko akudingeki ukuba ubuyisele umntu ongathandekiyo. Ngenye imini ebomini bakho umntu uya kubonakala, obani oza kuba neentsikelelo zentsikelelo kunye neyona nto.
Ukuba unqwenela ukuba ufuna ukubuyisela umhlobo wakho, kwaye uya kubuyekeza umdlali wakho ngale ndlela, ngoko kule nkalo enzima sikunikezela ngeendlela ezi-7.
Iindlela zokubuyela kwintsapho yendoda elahlekileyo
1. Ungabonisi ukuba ngokuhamba komyeni wakho umphefumlo usuphelile, usadingeka ukhange ubukeka buhle, bukhangele kwaye buhle. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uguqulwe iinwele zakho, wenze i-soft-make-up, ugqoke iimpahla ezintle. Kwaye kubhekise ebusweni kufuneka kube ngumomotheka othakazelisayo. Umntu wakho makabone kwaye aqonde ukuba bunjani ubuncwane ebusweni bakho. Makhe akhombise isinyathelo sakhe aze abuyele kuwe, kwaye wena ngezandla ezivulekileyo uya kumkela kwaye ubonise i-magnanimity.
2. Qhagamshelana ne-arhente yabucala, apho umrhumo-mali, ufumane umlingano wokukhwabanisa. Iindawo zokutyela ezilungileyo, izipho ezibizayo, ukuncoma kunye neentyatyambo, mhlawumbi kuzo zonke ezi zinto, inkosikazi yendoda yakho iya kuziva idizzy, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yimifanekiso ye-arhente yabucala. Emva koko umyeni wakho uya kubona ukuba ngubani otshintshiselana naye. Iifayili zingathunyelwa nge-imeyile, okanye zithunyelwe emsebenzini kwi disk yomntu. Yaye ukuba i-arhente yabucala iya kukwazi ukuthatha ixesha elifutshane kwiintlanganiso zesithandwa kunye nesithandane sakho, uze ubhale kwakhona le rekhodi kwi-disc okanye kwikaseti. Into ephambili ibonakalise ubungqina, kwaye kuya kuxhomekeka kuwe ukuba ungayifaka njani, yonke into yinto engqondweni yakho.
3. Emva koko, hlaziya intlanganiso engahleliyo. Xa umntu efunda uhlaselo, ngoko, njengomthetho, uya kuthulula intlungu yakhe kwinqanaba elithile. Emva koko uya kuzifumana emva komgca ongezantsi, kwi-skirt esifutshane, ngoko ungakhathazeki kwaye untle. Umdaniso omncinci, umculo ongenayo kunye neglasi yewayini, ukunqoba kuya kuba ngowakho.
4. Ukuba usebenza kunye nomyeni wakho, yibona usuku ngalunye, ubuze umntu ongeyena umyeni wakho ukuba akuncede. Ukubonakala kunye naye kunye, ukuthetha ngamazwi amathenda omnye komnye, ukuhleka, ukukhawula. Oku kuya kulimaza indoda yakho. Uya kuba nomona, kuba iimvakalelo zakhe ngenxa yakho azizange zikhuphe, kwaye akukho mntu uya kukhangela ngokucokisekileyo indlela umfazi wakhe adibana ngayo nomnye. Simele simxelele ukuba kukho amadoda amaninzi afana naye, kodwa yile ndlela wena wedwa. Nguwe kuphela.
5. Qhagamshelana nephephandaba lendawo, apho kukho iindidi ezinje: "Ndikhangele indoda!". Kwisi sikhangiso, faka idatha yomfazi weqabane lakho. Nceda ufake inombolo yakhe yefowuni. Isibhengezo sesibhengezo sifanele sibe: "Ndifuna ukujwayelana nendoda ecebileyo kwiintlanganiso ezithandanayo. Emva koko, umlingani odibeneyo nomntu otshatileyo, kwaye akayi kukwazi ukunqaba ezinye izibonelelo ezifanelekileyo. Iifowuni ziza kuqala, iingxoxo ezicwangcisiweyo ziya kuqhutyelwa eziya kumcasula indoda yakho. Kwaye iya kuhlala isincinci.
6. Hlela ingxabano ekhohlisayo. Cela ubuhlobo bakho ngokubanzi, ngubani na kule meko yecala lakho kwaye umcele ukuba akuncede. Njengokuba yena kunye nomchasi wakho unengxabano, nokuba ingathatha indoda esatshatileyo kwintsapho, kwaye umvuzo oyintloko kwingxabano yayiya kuba ibhotile ye-whisky. Kwaye xa behlangene, mnike lesi sipho, kodwa ungakulibala ukubonisa ukuba uyiphumelele ingxabano kuba ubona ndawonye. Le ndoda iya kuba nemibuzo emininzi, kodwa impendulo iya kuba enye. Akayi kuhlala nomntu ophikisana naye.
7. Qhagamshelana neengxelo zeendawo kwaye ushicilele ukuvuma kwakho. Qala ileta yakho kunye nenyaniso yokuba "Abathandekayo abahleli bokubhala, ndingumfundi wakho rhoqo kwaye ndicela uncedo lwakho. Umyeni wam wathathwa ngumlingani, wayefuna ukuba nendoda ekhuselekile kufuphi naye kwaye athathe imoto. Kwaye ndibandezeleka, kuba ndimthanda kakhulu. " Umlingane wakho angakhubeka ngephutha kwisityhilelo sakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ufumanisa ukuba kutheni ethatyathwe kwintsapho yakhe, kwaye kwakhona ukubona kwakhona ukuba uqhubeka uthanda kangakanani. Uthando lomntu lukhawuleza. Kwaye ke abafazi bayakubamba entloko: yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ugcine othandekayo?
Imiyalelo e-12 eya kunceda umfazi ukuba agcine indoda yakhe ethandekayo:
1. Akukho mfuneko yokubuza imibuzo engadingekile. ("Kutheni uzisa imali encinci?) (" Kutheni ungangithandi ndawo na? ")
2. Awukwazi ukuziqhayisa ngokunqoba.
3. Musa ukuvelisa umona onamandla.
4. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko awukwazi ukubheka okubi.
5. Omnye akufanele ayeke ukuphinda athi "ingelosi" aze abonise uthando lwakhe.
6. Awukwazi ukumbangela uvuyo lwengqondo, ngokwesondo nangengqondo.
7. Omnye akufanele akhohlwe umgaqo-nkqubo wokubambisana ("Namhlanje siza kumama, kwaye uza kujonga ibhola kwiTV kunye nobaba").
8. Awunakukunyaniseka ukuthetha malunga nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo zakhe.
9. Awukwazi ukuyihlola, kungcono ukubuza umhlobo wakho malunga nalo, awaziyo.
10. Akunakwenzeka ukuhlaziywa ngengqondo ngelixa likhula kwaye liqhubela phambili.
11. Omnye akafanele avumele iindwendwe zakhe, ukucaphuka kakubi okanye ukuhleba ukuma phakathi kwakhe nawe.
12. Awukwazi ukuqhubeka xa kukho impikiswano phakathi kwakho. Ukulinganisela kakuhle, qi ni sekise ukuba ulungile, kwaye ke wenze kuphela ngaphandle kwemvakalelo engadingekile kwaye ngobuchule.
Ngoku siyazi ukuba kuya kunceda ukubuyela nokugcina indoda ethandekayo. Vumela la macebiso ancede ubuyele umthandayo kwaye uphile ubomi obonwabileyo kunye.