Umfazi woLungiso

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, mhlawumbi umntu onobuqili akathethi ngokutya. Bonke abafazi bazama ukugqwesa, kodwa ukuthini ukugqibelela kuthetha ntoni kwintetho yomfazi? Iimodeli zihamba nge-catwalk kwaye zisinika iindlela ezintsha zefashoni? Okanye ezo zi-photomodels, ezigcwele iimagazini ezimnandi? Kodwa konke okokuqala, ukuba yonke iya kuba yimiqathango engama-90-60-90. Ngoko ke, luphi uqobo lwabantu, oluyingqayizivele kumbono wehlabathi? Umfazi ngamnye uyingqayizivele ngendlela yakhe, unayo iimboni zakhe, intando yakhe, ukubonakala kwakhe, okumele kufuneke ukuba kwahluke kwabanye. Yaye ukuba wonke umntu uya kubonakala ngendlela efanayo, echanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo, kuvela amanye amajoni. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, mhlawumbi umntu onobuqili akathethi ngokutya. Bonke abafazi bazama ukugqwesa, kodwa ukuthini ukugqibelela kuthetha ntoni kwintetho yomfazi? Iimodeli zihamba nge-catwalk kwaye zisinika iindlela ezintsha zefashoni? Okanye ezo zi-photomodels, ezigcwele iimagazini ezimnandi? Kodwa konke okokuqala, ukuba yonke iya kuba yimiqathango engama-90-60-90. Ngoko ke, luphi uqobo lwabantu, oluyingqayizivele kumbono wehlabathi? Umfazi ngamnye uyingqayizivele ngendlela yakhe, unayo iimboni zakhe, intando yakhe, ukubonakala kwakhe, okumele kufuneke ukuba kwahluke kwabanye. Yaye ukuba wonke umntu uya kubonakala ngendlela efanayo, echanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo, kuvela amanye amajoni.
Khawucinge nje ngomfazi okhulayo, lo ngumfazi oza kuvela kwi-Renaissance ohlala ehleka, kwaye kaninzi kunokuba kwenzeke, kuba engagxila kwiidlo, akacingi ukuba namhlanje akafanele abe nesidlo. Akacingi ngeekhalori ezidliweyo, kunye nendlela yokulahla xa eyenzayo. Yeyiphi injabulo engacingi ukucinga ngezinto ezinjalo ezibubudenge, kukho ubuhle obuninzi ngobomi onokukwazi ukucinga ngako. Iifom eziluhlaza zinika ibhinqa ukuzonwabisa ubomi kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo. Yaye yintoni ekhangeleleneyo ebonakalayo, kwaye ufuna ukuthinta izipho zakhe. Indoda enomdla iya kumngcwaba esifubeni sayo kwaye ixhomekeke ekuthandweni komzimba onamandla. Iifom zeLush - zihle kwaye zinobugcisa. Umfazi oqhekezayo akahlali enengxaki yesikhumba, ngenxa yokuba izilonda zomzimba zondla, kwaye ulusu luba lukhuni, imibimbi ebusweni ihlanjululwa ngamanqatha angaphantsi. Ukuzaliswa kwebhinqa kwenza ukuba kubonakale kunomdla kubantu, uhlakaniphile. Emva koko, elowo umntu ophantsi kweso sidima, nawuphi na umfazi odibanisa nonina, kunye nomama - ngokuqhelekileyo yintokazi ehlala ehlala kuyo, ehlala iphosa ngokutya. Yiyiphi nayiphi na ixesha eya kuba kufuphi kwaye iya kunceda ngeengcebiso, okanye iya kuqinisekisa igama elinobubele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu uzimelele, unina uhlala eyintombi ethandekayo kwaye uhlala ngumntwana de ukuphela kweentsuku zakhe. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukholelwe kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo kulula ukuyithetha, kodwa kunzima ukwenza oku. Siyekezela phambi kwesibuko kwaye sijonge kuzo zonke ikhonkco zomzimba wethu we-chic. Okokuqala, cinga ngesifuba, indlela enhle kunye ne-sexy, ngoko umthambo uyathambile kwaye ufana nomququ, kwaye ufuna ukuwuchaphazela. Yaye yinto enhle ngayo imbongolo yakho onokuyiqonda ngayo, kwaye imilenze yinto enye engafaniyo. Apha uqala ukuthanda umzimba wakho - yinto enobucayi kunye ne-sexy. Emva koko kufuneka uphinde wakhiwe umhlaba wakho ongaphakathi, ulungise kumzimba wakho omhle. Ngona wesifazane obalaseleyo kwaye omhle akayi kukwazi ukunqoba ukujonga abantu kunye nehlabathi ukuba unomdla nokudideka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, into ebalulekileyo ebhinqeni yamehlo akhe, anika umoya wakhe, uthando lwakhe kwabanye. Amehlo akhanyayo ngumfazi oqhaqhaqhaqhazelisayo, uncumo lwakhe oluninzi, uyavuya, uthanda nomzimba wakhe, ebusweni bakhe, ngaphakathi kwakhe. Xa ibhinqa lithandana naye liqala ukuthanda lonke ihlabathi, ngoko ihlabathi lonke liqala ukumthanda. Iifom zeLush ziyamangalisa, kukho into engabonakaliyo. Akwafanekanga kuboniswe kwi-TV, azifumaneki kumaphephancwadi. Kwaye umfazi othabathayo uthwala isithandwa sakhe, njengokuba umzimba wakhe ontlekhenkce uhamba kwiinyawo zakhe zonke. Kubukeka bufana kakhulu kangangokuthi phantse wonke umntu ujika emva kwalo mfazi omhle. I-Skinny, ehlala ehleli kwiidlo, ekhangayo kumaphephancwadi aqhelekileyo kunye nokutya okutya, ukukhathalela ngokukrakra eli bhinqa, ukukhukhumeza ngempilo. Ngokwezibalo, ibhinqa elinamafomthi aphezulu kunempilweni kunokuba ibhinqa elincinci. Xa ukhetha iingubo, ungakhangeli izinto ezinobungakanani obukhulu, ungafihli umbala wakho omhle kwimbono yomntu, ngaphandle koko ukuba ubeka "itente" elinjalo, akanakukubona umfazi kuwe. Ukuthabatha i-underwear enhle eyokuphakamisa isifuba, unokubeka kwi-neckline ukuze abantu bangaboni kude nawe, kunye nabasetyhini kunye nezidlo zabo bahlambalaza ngomona. Iesile ligqutywe ngeebhulukhwe ezihle, zikhutshwe kwi-hip, ngolu hlobo uza kugxininisa isidima sakho kunye nempembelelo ethile iya kuhamba ngokwawo. Musa ukugqoka i-skirt ende emgangathweni, ukuba unomfutshane, ngoko uza kubonakala njengomgqomo. Kungcono ukunxiba ingubo yedolo, uze uvule imilenze yakho enhle. Xa ukhetha iingubo kugxininisa iingqungquthela zakho, awuyi ku funeka ubeke isihloko esifutshane kwaye ubeke zonke iintlobo zakho zentando, ekufuneka uzigqoke ngongcamango kunye nokumodareyitha. Mhlawumbi ngoku abaninzi abafunda le nqaku bacinga ukuba umbhali unikezela ngokulula konke oku kubhala nokuxoxa ngesihloko esinzima kakhulu kubafazi abaninzi. Awuyi kukholwa, ndineengxaki ezifanayo, xa ndithe ndagxininisa kwi-20 kg kwaye ndakwazanga ukunyamezela. Kodwa ubomi buye balahleka ngokungafaniyo, ndiyayiqonda, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukukhula ngokwayo ngoku. Kwakhona ndakhangela zonke iintsimbi zam zibuko kwisibuko, ndaza ndithatha ndazithunga. Wayefotshwa kwiingubo ezahlukileyo, wayezibukela ukusuka kwicala, ekuqaleni ngokubukeka okubalulekileyo, waza waqala ukuzithanda. Ngoku ndiyindoda enhle kakhulu, kwaye ngaphambi koko ndiyintombazana enhle. Ndithatha ikhabethe elifanelekileyo, kwaye ngeli xesha ndizithanda ngokwenene kunye nekhandlela elivela kulolu thando. Ngako oko, bonke abantu abakujikelezileyo baqalisa ukungiphatha ngale ndlela, ukusuka kubantu akukho ndawo. Enye inxalenye yokuphelela kwam, ndandidla kakhulu, ukuba ngaphambili, abantu abaninzi bendijonga ukuba ndiyincinci, ngoku ndiyonwabile ngendoda enokuzola. Kwaye iifom zam i-curvy ziye zanda ngakumbi kunene xa ndandincinci. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ndaqalisa umsebenzi wam ozithandayo, apho ndifumana ngokwenene. Kuwo onke amabhinqa kukho into ekhethekileyo, into ephambili kukufumana ngaphakathi kwaye uphuhlise. Akunabesifazane ababi, kukho abesifazana abangakholelwa ekugqibeleni kunye nobuhle. Kholelwa kuwe kwaye yonke into iya kulungele. Khawucinge nje ngomfazi okhulayo, lo ngumfazi oza kuvela kwi-Renaissance ohlala ehleka, kwaye kaninzi kunokuba kwenzeke, kuba engagxila kwiidlo, akacingi ukuba namhlanje akafanele abe nesidlo. Akacingi ngeekhalori ezidliweyo, kunye nendlela yokulahla xa eyenzayo. Yeyiphi injabulo engacingi ukucinga ngezinto ezinjalo ezibubudenge, kukho ubuhle obuninzi ngobomi onokukwazi ukucinga ngako. Iifom eziluhlaza zinika ibhinqa ukuzonwabisa ubomi kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo. Yaye yintoni ekhangeleleneyo ebonakalayo, kwaye ufuna ukuthinta izipho zakhe. Indoda enomdla iya kumngcwaba esifubeni sayo kwaye ixhomekeke ekuthandweni komzimba onamandla. Iifom zeLush - zihle kwaye zinobugcisa. Umfazi oqhekezayo akahlali enengxaki yesikhumba, ngenxa yokuba izilonda zomzimba zondla, kwaye ulusu luba lukhuni, imibimbi ebusweni ihlanjululwa ngamanqatha angaphantsi. Ukuzaliswa kwebhinqa kwenza ukuba kubonakale kunomdla kubantu, uhlakaniphile. Emva koko, elowo umntu ophantsi kweso sidima, nawuphi na umfazi odibanisa nonina, kunye nomama - ngokuqhelekileyo yintokazi ehlala ehlala kuyo, ehlala iphosa ngokutya. Yiyiphi nayiphi na ixesha eya kuba kufuphi kwaye iya kunceda ngeengcebiso, okanye iya kuqinisekisa igama elinobubele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu uzimelele, unina uhlala eyintombi ethandekayo kwaye uhlala ngumntwana de ukuphela kweentsuku zakhe. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukholelwe kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo kulula ukuyithetha, kodwa kunzima ukwenza oku. Siyekezela phambi kwesibuko kwaye sijonge kuzo zonke ikhonkco zomzimba wethu we-chic. Okokuqala, cinga ngesifuba, indlela enhle kunye ne-sexy, ngoko umthambo uyathambile kwaye ufana nomququ, kwaye ufuna ukuwuchaphazela. Yaye yinto enhle ngayo imbongolo yakho onokuyiqonda ngayo, kwaye imilenze yinto enye engafaniyo. Apha uqala ukuthanda umzimba wakho - yinto enobucayi kunye ne-sexy. Emva koko kufuneka uphinde wakhiwe umhlaba wakho ongaphakathi, ulungise kumzimba wakho omhle. Ngona wesifazane obalaseleyo kwaye omhle akayi kukwazi ukunqoba ukujonga abantu kunye nehlabathi ukuba unomdla nokudideka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, into ebalulekileyo ebhinqeni yamehlo akhe, anika umoya wakhe, uthando lwakhe kwabanye. Amehlo akhanyayo ngumfazi oqhaqhaqhaqhazelisayo, uncumo lwakhe oluninzi, uyavuya, uthanda nomzimba wakhe, ebusweni bakhe, ngaphakathi kwakhe. Xa ibhinqa lithandana naye liqala ukuthanda lonke ihlabathi, ngoko ihlabathi lonke liqala ukumthanda. Iifom zeLush ziyamangalisa, kukho into engabonakaliyo. Akwafanekanga kuboniswe kwi-TV, azifumaneki kumaphephancwadi. Kwaye umfazi othabathayo uthwala isithandwa sakhe, njengokuba umzimba wakhe ontlekhenkce uhamba kwiinyawo zakhe zonke. Kubukeka bufana kakhulu kangangokuthi phantse wonke umntu ujika emva kwalo mfazi omhle. I-Skinny, ehlala ehleli kwiidlo, ekhangayo kumaphephancwadi aqhelekileyo kunye nokutya okutya, ukukhathalela ngokukrakra eli bhinqa, ukukhukhumeza ngempilo. Ngokwezibalo, ibhinqa elinamafomthi aphezulu kunempilweni kunokuba ibhinqa elincinci. Xa ukhetha iingubo, ungakhangeli izinto ezinobungakanani obukhulu, ungafihli umbala wakho omhle kwimbono yomntu, ngaphandle koko ukuba ubeka "itente" elinjalo, akanakukubona umfazi kuwe. Ukuthabatha i-underwear enhle eyokuphakamisa isifuba, unokubeka kwi-neckline ukuze abantu bangaboni kude nawe, kunye nabasetyhini kunye nezidlo zabo bahlambalaza ngomona. Iesile ligqutywe ngeebhulukhwe ezihle, zikhutshwe kwi-hip, ngolu hlobo uza kugxininisa isidima sakho kunye nempembelelo ethile iya kuhamba ngokwawo. Musa ukugqoka i-skirt ende emgangathweni, ukuba unomfutshane, ngoko uza kubonakala njengomgqomo. Kungcono ukunxiba ingubo yedolo, uze uvule imilenze yakho enhle. Xa ukhetha iingubo kugxininisa iingqungquthela zakho, awuyi ku funeka ubeke isihloko esifutshane kwaye ubeke zonke iintlobo zakho zentando, ekufuneka uzigqoke ngongcamango kunye nokumodareyitha. Mhlawumbi ngoku abaninzi abafunda le nqaku bacinga ukuba umbhali unikezela ngokulula konke oku kubhala nokuxoxa ngesihloko esinzima kakhulu kubafazi abaninzi. Awuyi kukholwa, ndineengxaki ezifanayo, xa ndithe ndagxininisa kwi-20 kg kwaye ndakwazanga ukunyamezela. Kodwa ubomi buye balahleka ngokungafaniyo, ndiyayiqonda, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukukhula ngokwayo ngoku. Kwakhona ndakhangela zonke iintsimbi zam zibuko kwisibuko, ndaza ndithatha ndazithunga.
Wayefotshwa kwiingubo ezahlukileyo, wayezibukela ukusuka kwicala, ekuqaleni ngokubukeka okubalulekileyo, waza waqala ukuzithanda. Ngoku ndiyindoda enhle kakhulu, kwaye ngaphambi koko ndiyintombazana enhle. Ndithatha ikhabethe elifanelekileyo, kwaye ngeli xesha ndizithanda ngokwenene kunye nekhandlela elivela kulolu thando. Ngako oko, bonke abantu abakujikelezileyo baqalisa ukungiphatha ngale ndlela, ukusuka kubantu akukho ndawo. Enye inxalenye yokuphelela kwam, ndandidla kakhulu, ukuba ngaphambili, abantu abaninzi bendijonga ukuba ndiyincinci, ngoku ndiyonwabile ngendoda enokuzola. Kwaye iifom zam i-curvy ziye zanda ngakumbi kunene xa ndandincinci. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ndaqalisa umsebenzi wam ozithandayo, apho ndifumana ngokwenene. Kuwo onke amabhinqa kukho into ekhethekileyo, into ephambili kukufumana ngaphakathi kwaye uphuhlise. Akunabesifazane ababi, kukho abesifazana abangakholelwa ekugqibeleni kunye nobuhle. Kholelwa kuwe kwaye yonke into iya kulungele.