Ungamangalisi ukuba ucinga ukuba uthengisa, ukuba ngokukhawuleza wena ngokwakho waqala ukuphula imithetho ebekwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba izalamane zikwazi ukuba yini eyakuchukumisa ukuba ubuyele ekhaya, kungekhona njengesiqhelo - kwi-6, kodwa ngeeyure ezingama-9-10. Kwaye kutheni wena, owaxabisa iCawe kakhulu kwaye wamema izindwendwe endlwini yakho, ngoku awukwazi ukwenza oku kwaye ushiye kwenye indawo ngaphandle kwindlu ngeveki? Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ucinge ukuba ebomini bakho bodwa into eyenzekayo, kwaye le nto yinto - ngokucacileyo akusiyo umzuzu omuhle wobomi bentsapho. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba kufuneka ufunde ngokukhawuleza ikhaya lakho, ukuba ungumfazi wokwenene, kwaye unokuba neenkcukacha zakho, iingxaki zakho, isisombululo sokuba ungathatha ixesha elininzi.
Ekubomini bakho, kufuneka unikezele yonke into, kwanobugwenxa, kwaye kufuneka ulungiselele oku, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona oku akuzange kwenzeke ebomini bakho, kwaye uhlale uthembekile kumlingane wakho okhutheleyo. Ewe, ukuba konke kwenzeka, phulaphulaphula iziphakamiso esikunike zona, kwaye ukufihla ukunyanzela kwakho akuyi kuba nzima.
Ukhohlakele kumabhunga.
Kwaye into yokuqala esiyathanda ukuyithetha kukuba kufuneka ube nolwazi oluninzi. Yaye umyeni wakhe akaze abone umntu wakho, endlwini yakho, emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, umhlobo wakho obalaseleyo ubonisa, ohlala engxaki kunye nokuhluleka kwintando yothando, kwaye ngubani ohlala efuna uncedo lwakho - umyeni wakhe kufuneka azi ukuba kutheni ubalekela ekhaya ngo-8, kwaye ubuya ku-12 ngemini. Ummelwane womama, ukuhlalisa kwiiseshoni ezili-10, umqeqeshi wokuzilolonga umzimba, i-yoga, - kwintsapho yakho, aba bantu bakhona kunye neendawo, kwaye uyazibona ngezikhathi ezithile, ngoko kulula ukufihla indawo yangempela.
Enye indlela yokudla ixesha eliya kubakho nawuphi na uqeqesho okanye imisebenzi enomdla kakhulu kwaye unomdla kuwe, kwaye uncedo lokufihla ukunyaniseka. Ewe, umyeni wam unobungozi, kakuhle, ufuna ukucinga ngomsebenzi wakho, malunga nokuzimela, kwaye awuyithandi umsebenzi ixesha elide sele lihle kakhulu kwaye liyanzima, kwaye ufanelekile. Yingakho usanda kubhalisa kule studio ukuba ufunde indlela yokutsalana, kwaye uhlawule ingqalelo ekuya kwiziko lokuqeqesha ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, kunjalo, kufuneka ubuyele ukuze iqabane lakho lingacingi ukuba lidibana nawe, kuba kuye akukhathazeki kakhulu ngeli xesha.
Umhlobo uyinto enhle, ngokukhethekileyo umhlobo ongekhohlakeleyo, engonwabileyo kwaye, ngubani onomntwana onomntwana onomdla oyifunayo, kwaye ngubani olula kakhulu ukufihla inkohlakalo. Akuyimfuneko ukukhetha ubuhle bokwenene kwintombazana-mhlobo, masibe yimpundu eqhelekileyo engenandaba nomyeni wakho nonke kwaye ayiyi kuvusa izikhalazo zakhe. Emva koko unokugijima ngokuphepha kumntu wakho ohluphekileyo ubuncinci phakathi kobusuku, ukumduduza kuphela ngenxa yokuba elinye iqhawe elithandayo lamphosa. Kakade, phakathi kobusuku - uthetha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akudingeki ukuba ugobe intonga, ngakumbi ekujonganeni nomthandi wakho. Nciphisa iintlanganiso ngokuhlwa okanye emini, kuba umyeni wakho kuphela unelungelo lokubiza ubusuku obufanayo nawe.
Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza