Uyakrokreka ukuba indoda ikhohlisa kuwe, yabona iimpawu zokungcatsha kwamadoda. Ngokubodwa okanye ngokwahlukileyo, le miqondiso yokungcatsha ingabonakalisa ukuba indoda yakho, ohlala naye kunye okanye udibana naye ubuncinane ngonyaka, inomdla osisigxina kwicala.
1. Indoda yakho ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacileyo ishintshile isimo sakhe sengqondo ngokubonakala kwayo :
- ubuye wabulala kanye ixesha elide lokumfundela umphefumlo wemihla ngemihla, kwaye ngoku uya kufika apho kusasa nangokuhlwa, ngokuhlwa ngokusondela "ukusela ubhiya kwinkampani eyindoda";
- wayenomnqweno ongenakunqwenelekayo wokuhlaziya iigrashe okanye ukutshintsha indlela yakhe yokugqoka, kunye neshefu yakhe kwindawo yokuhlambela kwakukho i-cologne entsha yefowuni, esithengwa ngaphandle kokuqwalasela uluvo lwakho;
- ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, evuya yonke iikhilogram ehlile esiswini kunye nokukhululeka kwezihlunu.
2. Watshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kuwe.
"Wayedla ngokuba nomona ngawe onke ama-lamppost kwaye waphambuka xa uhlala emsebenzini / esikolweni ubuncinane imizuzu emihlanu, kwaye ngoku akhathalele ukuba uza kufika ekhaya kwaye ngubani ochitha ixesha naye. Okanye ngokuqinisekileyo, uhlale unelisekile kwaye uhlonipha ilungelo lakho lenkululeko, umntu ngokukhawuleza waba ngumona onobukrakra, ulungelelanisa uhlazo olunzulu kunye nemifanekiso yesikhwele ngaphandle kwesizathu.
- Ngaphambili, wayekuthanda yonke into kuwe, ngokuqala ngendlela yokugqoka, ukuphela kwezakhono zakho zokucoca, ngoku ukusukela kuye ukuya ekungaphelelweni komnye umntu onokuva kuphela ama-cavils - kwaye unezambatho zitshisa, kwaye uthenge i-blouse yintsipho, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, awupendeli umbala ohlukileyo. ? Okanye ngenye indlela, umntu wakho oqinileyo kwaye ocinge ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuthululela kuwe imifudlana engapheliyo yesisa kunye nokuzalisa izizathu nezilwanyana owake wambona ngokungqongqo kathathu ngonyaka - wokuzalwa kwakho, ngoMatshi 8 kunye nesibhozo sakho.
3. Waqala ukuchitha ixesha elininzi emsebenzini - iintlanganiso ezingapheliyo, iingxoxo, kunye nezandla, kwaye ukubiza kuye ngalezi zihlandlo akunakulungelekiyo - kungcono uva ngokukhawuleza "Ndixakekile", kwimeko embi - "isistim somthengi sivaliwe okanye ngaphandle kwendawo izenzo zenethiwekhi ". Umsebenzi wakhe ngokukhawuleza wahlanganiswa neendlela zokungabikho zorhwebo ukuya kwesinye isixeko. Okanye, ukuba umsebenzi wakhe uhlala udibene nohambo lwezoshishino, ngokukhawuleza waba ngowesihlandlo kabini kwaye uhlala ekhohlakele ngamatikiti - wayehlala ebuyela ngokuhlwa, kwaye ngoku ke ithikithi yeenqwelo zeenqwelo zokuhlwa, ngokusobala, yaphela kwintengiso, kwaye iya kubuya Ngomso nje, emva kokuchitha ubusuku obuthile kwelinye uhambo loshishino.
4. Wayenomntu osebenza kunye naye / umhlobo wesifuba ombiza ngalo naliphi na imini yomini okanye ubusuku, awazisa kumsebenzi / esikolweni, apho atywala ikhofi / ibhiya kusihlwa, kodwa athi "ucocekile" ubuhlobo "okanye" ubudlelwane bezoqoqosho ". Ewe, awuzange umbonise emehlweni, kwaye akayi kuzinzisa.
5. Wayeka ukuthatha kunye naye kulawo ma-Hangouts , apho uhlala khona ngokuqhelekileyo ndawonye - inkampani yabahlobo bakhe abakhulu, amaqela asebenzayo kwi-firm firm. Ukuba uzama ukuxubusha le meko ngenye yeentombazana eziqhelekileyo zabahlobo bakhe, bazama ukuguqulela incoko kwenye yesihloko.
6. Ifowuni iselula ihlala nawe . Ngaphambili, wayephumle ngesitorefowuni yakhe kwindawo ebonakalayo kwaye waphendula ngokukhawuleza nangayiphi na ifowuni, ngoku ahluke kwipayipi yakhe, i-sms engapheliyo iyawa, kwaye uthetha nomnxeba kude nawe-umzekelo, kwigumbi elilandelayo. Ngefowuni, ngoku ahlukane nakwizindlu zangasese.
7. Ngokukhawuleza wathatyathwa yikhomputha kunye noqhagamshelwano olunqamlekileyo , ngaloo mihla engabonakaliyo xa echitha ikhaya lakhe, ubona intloko yakhe kuphela. I-imeyile, ii-ICQ, amagumbi okuxoxa, iiforam - zisebenzisa uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezonxibelelwano ezintle ngokupheleleyo. Naliphi na umzamo wokujonga ngesikrini ngaphakathi kwegxalaba lixineke kakhulu. Kwaye inzame yakho yokuvula ikhompyutha ekungabikho kwayo iphela ngokungafezeki ngokupheleleyo - yonke into ikhuselwe.
8. Utshintsho kwizesondo . Ubundlobongela buyinto engabonakaliyo kwaye bukhulu kakhulu. Okanye mhlawumbi indoda yakho isitshintshe indlela yokuziphatha ebhedeni eyahlukileyo - ukusuka ku-experimenter yajika yaba yinto ephazamisayo, ukuyeka nayiphi na inyathelo lakho embhedeni, okanye ukusuka kwindabuko engummangaliso ngokukhawuleza yaba ngumxhasi weentlobo ezahlukeneyo, ekuphendulela kulezo zithuba ezingazange zisetyenziswe ngaphambili .
9. Iindleko zemali . Ngombuso wohlahlo lwabiwo-mali, uqaphele ukuba indoda yakho yaqala ukuchitha imali eninzi kunokuqhelekileyo, kwaye awuyiqondi into eyiyo. Oku kubonakala ngokukodwa kulawo maxesha anxulumene ngeziko ngezipho - unyaka omtsha, ngowesibhozo ngoMatshi.
10. Imoto yakhe . Kwimoto yakhe ihlala ikhona izinto ezililiweyo, isikhundla sesiphathamandla sangaphambili asiyiyo eyakho, kwaye ikhilomitha, eyalimala, ukugweba ngemitha, indoda yakho kwiveki eveleleyo, yayiya ngokwaneleyo ukuya kwiRiphabhliki enobuhlobo, nangona ngokwegosa uguqulele yonke le veki, wahlala eofisini ngaphandle kwekhefu.
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