Uyazi uBarbara Cher? Lo ngumlobi okhuthazayo owaziwayo - umbhali wezona zinto zithengisa kakhulu "Ukuphupha akuyona ingozi" - incwadi eguqulelwe kwiilwimi ezingama-20 kwaye ibe yindawo efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuthengisa iminyaka engama-35. Nangona isithuba sikaBrabara kunzima ukuba nomona.
Washiya kusasa kunye nabantwana ababini ezandleni zakhe, wasebenza njenge-waitress iminyaka engama-7 ukunyusa intsapho yakhe. Yonke le nto wayesebenze kanzima ukuya kwiphupha lakhe - wabhala incwadi waza wanceda abantu. Incwadi yokuqala kaBarbara yaphuma xa yayineminyaka engama-45 ubudala. Ukususela ngoko, uBarbara uye wanceda abantu abayizigidi emhlabeni jikelele bafumana umsebenzi wabo. Kwaye sinyule iinqununu ezininzi kwiincwadi zeBarbara malunga nendlela yokwenza oku.
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Ngoko, ukuqala ukukhangela ukubiza kwakho? Ekubeni kufuneka ukhululeke. "Ngamanye amaxesha sinzima kakhulu ukufumana indawo esiya kuyo, kuba kubonakala ngathi kuya kubakho ukwenza ukhetho lobomi. Kwaye ke umnqweno wethu uba luleke kakhulu kuthi ukuba asinakukwazi ukuhamba, "- ubhala uBarbara Cher encwadini ethi" Ukuphupha akuyona ingozi. "
Khawucinge ukuba kwenzekani ukuba unobomi abaninzi, njengekati? Masithi ezintlanu. Ungayilahla njani? Thatha iphetshana kunye nencwadana okwangoku kwaye ubhale umxholo othi "ubomi bo-5." Kwaye khawucinge nje: unobomi abahlanu, kwaye yonke into onokuyisebenzisa ungayisebenzisa kwizinto ezithile. Kuya kuba yintoni? Masithi unoluhlu olunjalo: umbonisi weTV, i-ecologist, udansa, utitshala kunye nodokotela wezilwanyana. Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Olu luhlu lubonisa ukuba zeziphi iziganeko ezikukhuthazayo. Oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele usebenze kuzo zonke izikhokelo. Into ephuma kuloluhlu ingaba, umzekelo, ukuzonwabisa. Masithi unokuba ngummemezeli weTV wokudluliselwa kwendalo okanye uhambo lweendaba. Ngexesha elifanelekileyo ngexesha lakho lokukhulula unako ukuhlala udansa kwaye uncede izilwanyana. Ukuqonda umnqweno wokuba "ngutitshala" kulula kwakhona: ungathetha nabantu kwaye uthethe ngamanye amazwe. Qinisekisa ukwenza lo msebenzi, kwaye uya kuqonda indlela oya kuyo.
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Kwincwadi ethi "Yintoni Okufanele Yiphume" UBarbara unikeza umsebenzi obizwa ngokuthi "umsebenzi ongaphantsi". Ngoku masicinge ngoluhlobo luni lomsebenzi oyithiyileyo. "Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abakwazi ukuthetha ukuba luhlobo luni lomsebenzi onokuba yiparadesi kubo. Kodwa bayazi kakuhle into abayifunayo. Yingakho indlela echasene nam izibheno ezinkulu, "- utsho uBarbara. Njani ukwenza oku? Ngoko ke, bhala zonke izinto eziyingozi kakhulu ukuba umsebenzi wakho wesihogo unakho. Ngokomzekelo, "Ndihleli encinane, igumbi elinyeneyo, ngaphandle kweefestile. Kwiintsuku ekugqibeleni, ndenza amaphepha ephepha angabikho mntu ofuna, angenayo impembelelo. Umphathi wam unyana womlawuli jikelele. Uhenxisi kwaye uyisidenge. Oogxa bam kuphela kwaye banokuthi, bafanele bathethe ntoni ngezifundo zabani abaye bachitha ubusuku kunye nalapho bakwenza khona umqubo womzimba ngeedesti ยป. Ngaba uyenzile? Mkhulu! Kwaye makhe siphendule le nkcazo ukuba siqonde oko ufunayo. Oku kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba ngathi: "Ndifuna ukusebenza kwindawo evulekile, kungcono nokuba ngaba iofisi yasekhaya. Ndifuna ukwenza izinto ezincedo, ukuba luncedo kwihlabathi. Kubalulekile ukuba oogxa kunye nabaphathi bafundiswe kwaye baphuhliswe abantu. "
Yintoni eyona nto iphambili apha? "Izinto ezibalulekileyo." Makhe sicinge ngento "izinto ezincedo" kuthetha ntoni kuwe. Bhala uluhlu lwezakhono ocinga ukuba zenze. Musa ukujonga iipateni kunye neendlela zokumangalisa, kuba, mhlawumbi, kulo mzekelo oogqirha kunye nabacimi bomlilo baya kufika engqondweni, kodwa, mhlawumbi, ngenxa yenu oku akunakuqonda. Ukuba ucinga ukuba izinto ezibalulekileyo kunabo abalobi abazenzayo, kuthetha ukuba yilapho kufuneka uhambe khona.
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Kwaye enye into enomdla evela encwadini nguBarbara Cher "Andifuni ukukhetha." UBarbara uhlukanisa abantu kwiindidi ezimbini: i-scanners kunye nabanye. Abacwaningi yibo abangenakuyeka kuphela into enye, kwaye bathanda ukufunda ihlabathi kuzo zonke iintlobo zayo. Kwaye abahlukahlukeneyo ngabo abo babhaptizwa into enye kunye neentloko zabo.
Ama-scanners aziwayo: Goethe, uAristotle, uMikhail Lomonosov, uBenjamin Franklin, uLeonardo da Vinci. "Bonke babengumongameli, kwaye omnye wabo akagqithanga nje kuphela kummandla omnye. Yaye ngubani owakutshilo ukuba kufuneka ukhethe enye yecandelo? Kwilizwe lethu lokudiba, i-scanners kufuneka ibe nzima kakhulu, kuba baphoqelelwe ukuba "bathathe isigqibo", - UBarbara ubhala. Ngaba uzama ukuzenza ngokwakho? Musa ukuphulaphula nabani na! Thatha amacandelo ambalwa kanye kwaye wenze indlela yakho ephupheni! Yenza zonke izinto ezikukhuthazayo kangangokuba imizuzu eyi-15 ngosuku, kwaye uya kubona ukuba uzibona ezininzi kubo! Zonke iincwadi ezintathu zeBarbara Cher - "Ukuphupha akuyona inobungozi," "Yintoni ofuna ukuyiphupha ngayo," kwaye "Ukunciphisa ukhetho" iya kunika impendulo epheleleyo malunga nesiphelo sakho.