Ukuphuhliswa ngokwenyama kweemvuthu kuxhomekeke ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo kunye neengqondo, nangona kunjalo. Ngokomzekelo, bhetele i-karapuza iya kulawula ukuhamba kuzo zonke ezine, ngokukhawuleza kwaye kungcono ukufunda ukufunda.
Makhe sibone ukuba yiziphi izakhono umntwana kufuneka aziphathe ngayo unyaka.
Inyanga yokuqala . Ngokumalunga neveki yesibini ebomini bakhe umntwana sele sele eqonda ubuso bomama. Xa uvela kwintsimi yombono weemvuthu - uyavuselela, indlela yakhe yokuphucula iyathuthuka. Ngeveki kamva umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa uyakwazi ukwahlula iindawo ezihlukeneyo zobuso bomama. Endaweni ethile ekupheleni kowokuqala-ukuqala kwenyanga yesibini, umntwana uzothuzisa okokuqala.
Inyanga yesibini . Kule minyaka, umntwana akasalali usuku nosuku. Unomdla ngakumbi kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo. Ukubukela imfono yomculo enqanyuliweyo phezu kwesikhala sakhe, izitimela ezincinci kwaye zifezekise umbono wakhe. Kukho umnqaku okhulayo kwizinto ezincinci.
Inyanga yesithathu . Kwiinyanga ezintathu, i-carapace ijika ikhanda layo ngokubhekiselele kwimvelaphi yesandi kwaye isele isinike ezinye izandi. Umntwana uphendula ngokumomotheka ukuba amomotheka kwaye uphendule ngokukhawuleza kumazwi akho kunye neengongoma.
Inyanga yesine . Xa uneminyaka engama-4 umntwana usuke ehamba phambili. Usuvele ephethe intloko yakhe kakuhle kwaye ehamba ngokukhawuleza ukubethelwa kwesisu kumqolo. Ujika ukusuka kumqolo ukuya kwisisu sakhe uya kuqonda kamva kamva-kwiinyanga ezi-5-6.
Inyanga yesihlanu . Ngeenyanga ezintlanu, umntwana uza kuqala ukufumana unyawo emlonyeni. I-karapuz ngeli xesha lizifundela ngokuzimeleyo: uvakalelwa ngamadolo, iinyawo kunye nezinye iindawo zomzimba wakhe ngezandla zakhe. Kwakhona uyazi indlela yokuzimela ngokuzimela aze athathe imidlalo.
Inyanga yesithandathu . Kwiinyanga ezintandathu umqolo wesana ukhulile kangangokuba ukuba umntwana usalinywa, uya kuhlala kuloo ndawo emininzi imizuzu. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuhlala phantsi kwindawo yokulala emhlane emva kweenyanga ezi-9-12.
Ngenyanga yeshumi . Ngethuba lexesha i-karapuz iba yintlalontle kakhulu, uyaqhubeka ebangela abanye ukuba badlale naye. Umntwana uya kunandipha umdlalo we "ku-ku." Ngombulelo kuye, ufunda ukuqonda ukuba nangona umama elala kwintsimi yombono ixesha elide, uhlala ebuyela.
Inyanga yesibhozo . Intsana eneminyaka eyisibhozo eneminyaka eyi-8 iyaqhubeka ihlolisisa ihlabathi. Ufunda ukukhenkcela: okokuqala kwisisu sakhe, ngendlela yeplastiki, kwaye emva koko kuzo zonke ezine. Ukususela kwisikhundla kuzo zonke ezine ukuze ahlale phantsi. Unako ixesha elide ukubiza izilwanyana ezahlukeneyo, kodwa okwangoku awukwazi.
Inyanga yesithoba . Kule minyaka, i-crumb ifunda ukukhumbula ukuba yintoni le nto. Uyazi ukuba bayadla nge-spoon, basele kwikomityi, batyhidile iinwele zabo ngebhasi. Umsebenzi ozithandayo kakhulu we karapuza ngeli xesha liza kuhlawula iibheyi okanye nayiphi na enye into phantsi kwaye ifuna ukuba iphakanyiswe kuye. Musa ukucaphukisa xa umntwana enza. Emva koko, ngale ndlela uzama, ufunda into entsha kuye.
Inyanga yeshumi . Kwiinyanga ezilishumi ubudala umntwana usenokuba sele ethatha into encinci ngepeni kwaye ayifake emlonyeni wakhe. Ngoko ke, qaphela ukuba akukho nkcazelo encinane kwintsimi yokujonga imvumba. Ngoku i-karapuz ithatha izinto kungekhona ngentendelezo, njengangaphambili, kodwa isebenzisa kuphela isalathisi kunye nezithupha. Oku kubonisa ukuphuhliswa okufanelekileyo komntwana. Kungenzeka ukuba ngeli thuba kuya kufuneka ucinge ngazo zonke izikhawulelo kubadwebi bekhabhinethi, ekubeni umntwana uya kuzama ukuwavula aze athulule yonke into engaphakathi phantsi, ngelixa ehlala ezama ukunambitha.
Inyanga yeshumi elinanye . Kwiinyanga ezilishumi elinanye, umlinganiselo wokulinganisela umntwana usuqeqeshwe ngokufanelekileyo. Ngenxa yolu qhekeza uvakalelwa ngakumbi nangakumbi, uhlala kwindawo echanekileyo. Unako ukuma uqobo lwakhe kwaye uhambe ngedatha.
Ngenyanga yeshumi elinesibini . Ngeenyanga ezilishumi elinesibini umfana unokukwazi ukuthetha ngokulula amagama okulula. Uthi "utata", "mama", "unike" kunye njalo. Kule minyaka kubaluleke kakhulu ukunxibelelana nomntwana kunokwenzeka kwaye ufunde iincwadi kuye.