Ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo kunye nokukhuliswa komntwana uye wadlala indima ebalulekileyo ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala. Kuze kube yiminyaka emine umntwana akazichazi ngokwayo kunye nesondo. Akanomdla kwizondo ezahlukeneyo.
Kuphuhliso lwezesondo kunye nokukhuliswa komntwana, uZigmund Freud ngokwakhe ubonakalisa kwimisebenzi yakhe. Uphuhliso lwesondo lomntwana ludibanisa ukuphucula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ukuphuhliswa ngokwenyama kubandakanya iimpawu zesondo eziziiprayimari nezesekondari, kunye neengqondo - lowo umntwana uvakalelwa nguye. Ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka bahambisane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kukho iziphene. Xa umntwana evakalelwa kukuba akayiyo into yokuba abazali bakhe nabanye babelindele ukuba abe. Namhlanje, unyango luye lwafunda ukunceda apho indalo yenza iphutha.
Ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo lomntwana
Uphuhliso lwesondo aludluli ngamantombazana, kwaye aludluli abafana. Iqala kwiimeko ezithile. Kwimantombazana, ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo kwiminyaka emibini ngaphambili ngaphambili kubafana.
Emva konyaka okanye emibini emva kokubonakala kokuqala kwexesha emantombazaneni, ubusuku buqala. Ngokubanzi, ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo kuqala iminyaka eyi-9-10. Eli xesha libonakaliswe ngokuphuhliswa kweentlanzi zamathambo kunye nokukhula kweenwele ze-pubic. Amantombazana aqala ukukhula ngokukhawuleza. Kancinci uqale ukujikeleza iinqununu, ukhulise i-pelvis. Amaqanda akhula ngobukhulu.
Ngokumalunga namakhwenkwe, ukukhula ngocansi kuqala kwiminyaka elilishumi elinanye. Njengamantombazana, amakhwenkwe akhula ngokukhawuleza ngeli xesha. Izinwele ze-pubic ziqala ukuvela, i-penis iqala ukukhula. Abafana baqala ukuphulaphula amazwi abo ngeli xesha.
Imfundo yesondo yomntwana
Abazali banyanzelekile ukuba bahlanganyele kwimfundo yesondo yomntwana wabo, mhlawumbi kuya kumenza uninzi lwezinto eziphathekayo zoonwabo kunye nogonyamelo kwi-Intanethi nakwi-TV. Okokuqala, abazali abachaphazelekayo kufuneka babe nolwazi olungundoqo malunga nesikolo sezesondo sabantwana.
Xa uneminyaka engama-ezisibhozo umntwana uqala ukwenza ulwabelana ngesondo. Eli xesha lilukhuni phakathi kwamakhwenkwe. Xa uneminyaka emithathu ukuya emine ubudala, abantwana bavame ukubonakala behamba phambi kwabantu abadala. Baye baqala ukuzibandakanya ngokwabo kunye nezo zesini kwaye bafuna ukuzibonakalisa. Akunjalo na ukuba bafanele bahlaselwe kwaye babe neentloni ngazo. Ngokuchasene noko, abazali kufuneka baxhase umntwana, bathi yonke into ikhula ngokuqhelekileyo. Musa ukukhathazeka xa umntwana ebona omnye wabazali beze, umzekelo, ehamba kwindawo yokuhlambela. Oku kuya kunceda kuphela kwimfundo yakhe yesondo. Ngokwemvelo, umntwana ulawulwa ngokupheleleyo kwiimpawu zoononografi kunye nezenzo ezahlukeneyo ezinononophelo. Ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwimithandathu, unokuva umbuzo obangalisa abazali abaninzi: "Ndandifika njani ehlabathini?" Umzali ngamnye uphuma kule meko njengoko akunako. Ngokomgaqo, akuyimfuneko ukondla abantwana ngeenganekwane ngeesorkorks kunye neklabishi. Batshele yonke into njengoko kunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza baya kufumana inyaniso, ngoko makube ngcono kunomlomo wakho. Abazali mabaxelele umntwana ukuba yiyiphi impawu yamantombazana, kwaye yintoni eyenza abafana. Umzekelo, ukuba inkwenkwe ibeka ingubo okanye iqala ukusebenzisa umama wakhe. Oku akuthethi ukuba unyana wakho unentsholongwane. Mhlawumbi wayengaqondanga nokokuba abantombazana kuphela bembatha iingubo.
Xa umntwana eya kwibanga lokuqala, uqala isigaba esitsha sokutshatyalaliswa. Abantwana baqala ukuthetha kunye nesini esahlukileyo. Ukukhuliswa kootitshala kudlala indima ebalulekileyo apha. Kufuneka abe novelwano kwixesha elizayo lokutshatyalaliswa, ngokukodwa kumakhwenkwe. Amantombazana ayedla ngokuzithoba kwaye athobe ngakumbi kunamakhwenkwe.
Isigaba esilandelayo sokubaluleka kwintsholongwane. Umsebenzi oyintloko kwimfundo yezocansi ngeli xesha kukulungiswa kokuziphatha kakuhle kwamantombazana ngokuya esikhathini, abafana - ngenxa yokungcola. Kukho iimfuno zokuqala zesondo. Abaninzi abaselula banenkxalabo enkulu malunga nokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini. Imfundo yezocansi ibandakanyeka kwimfundo yesondo yabaselula.
Khumbula ukuba kumntwana wakho konke ukutshintsha kwenzeka okokuqala. Injongo yakho yokuqala kukuxhasa nokuyiqonda ngokupheleleyo.