Nazi ezinye iisampuli imibuzo ezingabuzwa abantwana abaneminyaka ezahlukeneyo kwimifanekiso (ubunzima babo bunxulumana nenani leentyatyambo). Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokudlala umntwana kuza kuba yeholide lenene!
Ndibonise apho inkukhu, iinkukhu, ilanga, ibhabhathaneli, inkwenkwe ... Inja ikhwala njani, i-pussy meows, iqhude likhala?
Ukubhekisela kwimifanekiso , buza ngubani, yintoni eyenza yona?
Nguwuphi umbala ilanga, izicathulo zenkwenkwe? Yintoni enye oyaziyo ngezo ntyatyambo?
Ukuba umntwana wakho uneminyaka nje kuphela ubudala, yena, mhlawumbi, unokubonisa kuphela, ungabiza. Amathuba abantwana asebekhulile ahluke kakhulu, kwaye oku kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwiindawo eziza kubakho ukukhula kwengqondo. Umama akufanele akhathazeke kakhulu ukuba ummelwane oneminyaka efanayo uvele uthi: wakhupha indawo yokuthetha ngokukhawuleza, kodwa mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uyazi imibala (indawo ebonakalayo) ngakumbi okanye ilungelelanise ukuhamba.
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Musa ukulibala ukuba umsebenzi ohamba phambili wabantwana ngumdlalo! Iiklasi kunye nabantwana akufanele kudlule imizuzu eyi-10. Kwaye unomdla ngakumbi uya kuchitha "isifundo", ngakumbi ukuba umntwana uya kumthanda kwaye uya kukhula ngokubuza. Ungakulibali ukuba yimeko ngqo yintsana ingaba yindawo ephuhlisayo - konke kuxhomekeke kuwe!
Masidlale!
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokudlala umntwana, unokwenza okunye ukuvala imifanekiso uze ubuze imibuzo eyahlukahlukeneyo ngokweminyaka: "Ngubani na apha? Wenzani? Yaye yintoni elandelayo? Ingakanani na? "Okomncinci, unokuvala imifanekiso emibini kwaye unikezele ukubonisa apho umntu wayekho, umzekelo:" Kuphi i-Pussy? "
Thatha ipensela elula kunye ne-eraser. Yenza nayiphi na inguqu kwimifanekiso (umzekelo, sondela into eyaziwayo yomntwana: ibhola, isitya, indebe). Kwaye kumboniso olandelayo wemifanekiso, cela into eguqukile.
Unokufunda ukubala kwizinto eziphathekayo, kwimiba enjalo elula. Bala kunye nosana zingaphi iinkukhu, iintyatyambo, zibetha kwikati ...
Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle ukusuka kumntwana, sebenzisa nayiphi na ithuba. Ukuqwalasela imifanekiso, biza umntwana ukuba yintoni ebona ngolwimi lwangaphandle: ikati, inkukhu, isitya, intyatyambo, ilanga ... Inkumbulo yabantwana itholakala kakhulu!
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Kwanomfanekiso omnye unokuthetha ngokubanzi malunga nehlabathi elikufutshane nebhokhwe. Ngokomzekelo, ngubani na iinqwelomba, apho bahlala khona, into abayifunayo ukuyidla, abo bayesabayo, uhlobo luni loboya abanalo, ukuba bayagxuma ... Musa ukulibala ukubiza imibala, izenzo - ngokufutshane, nantoni na engena engqondweni! Into ephambili kukuba ufuna ukwabelana nomntwana oko uyazi wena "? Mema umntwana ukuba abuke emfanekisweni, uze uvale uze umcele ukuba akhumbule konke akukhumbulayo. Ungamlumkisi ukuba kuya kuba nombuzo onjalo.
Bala ukuba zininzi izinto ezibizwa ngokuba ngumntwana. Imisebenzi enjalo inceda ekuphuhliseni inkumbulo engabonakaliyo kunye nokuqwalaselwa.
Phinda ucebise ukuba ubuke umfanekiso, kodwa ngoku sele usilumkise ukuba kuya kufuneka ukhumbule izinto ezininzi ngokusemandleni. Ndiphe umfanekiso ngomzuzu. Linganisa indlela umntwana enokwazi ngayo ukukhumbula umfanekiso. Ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi eziliweyo, phinda umsebenzi.
Buza umntwana ukuba eze ngebali ngomfanekiso. Ingcaciso ecacileyo, bhetele. Liliphi igama le nkwenkwe? Wenzani? Uthanda ntoni? Myeke umntwana ukuba acingisise!
Cinga ngemisebenzi yakho emfanekisweni: imibala, ukubala, ukusetyenziswa okufanelekileyo kweziphakamiso kunye neefom zokuthetha. Guqula yonke into oyibonayo ngolwimi lwangaphandle. Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nokudlala kwintsana akunokukukholisa yena kuphela, kodwa wena!
Myeke umntwana acinge ukuba uhamba ngebhola. Yiyo kanye indlela ehamba ngayo imoto ehamba ngeendlela ezivela phezulu. Ngezantsi, ngasendleleni, iimoto zithathwa ngendlela ekhangele ngayo ukuba ume eceleni kwazo. Umsebenzi womntwana ukuchonga iimoto ezifanayo emgwaqweni omkhulu kunye nasendleleni. Kwaye umsebenzi wakho ukuchaza iimpawu zoshishini: ubungakanani, imilo, iimpawu zokuyila.