Kungekude kudlule eJapan kwaqaphela ukuba abantwana ababehleli kwikhompyutheni baza bafunda ukubhala besebenzisa ikhibhodi bayeka ukuthetha. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibone isizathu sokuthi ukuchwetheza kwibhodibhodi akusebenzi kuzo zonke iingongoma zesandla esinxulumene nengingqi yengqondo ejongene nokuphuhliswa kwentetho. Futhi ngaphandle kokuvuselela abahlali. Kwaye kwavela ukuba incwadi kunye neepeni lokubhala kunye nokudweba nge pensile ayikho imfundo endala kwaye ingapheliyo kwaye ingadingekanga. Makhe sikhulume ngokubaluleka kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kubantwana kwaye sicinge iindlela zokusebenzisa ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi.
Ubaluleka obukhulu bezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi.
Ngaphantsi kwenkcazo "yezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi", malunga nabaninzi abantu abhalayo kwaye oogqirha abaninzi babantwana bathi, ukunyakaza kwezihlunu ezincinci zezandla zifihliwe. Wonke umntu uthi kufuneka aphuhliswe. Kwaye ngokufanelekileyo. Ngenxa yokuba ubomi obuninzi bomntwana buya kufuna ukusetyenziswa ngokuchanekileyo, ukuhambelana kwezandla kunye neminwe. Emva koko, uya kululeka ukugqoka, ukudweba nokubhala, kunye nokuqhuba ezininzi iindlela zokuhlala ekhaya.
Kodwa izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi zinikezwa kakhulu ukubaluleka nangenxa yokuba idibeneyo nentetho. Ephakamileyo umqhubi womntu omncinci, intetho yakhe iphuculwe ngakumbi. Ngokwahlukileyo, kubantwana abanokulibaziseka ekuphuhliseni intetho, ukulungelelaniswa okungafanelekileyo kweminwe emihle kubonwa.
Inyaniso kukuba ekuphepheni komntu amaziko anembopheleleko yokunyuswa kwentetho kunye neminwe ecaleni. Kwaye ukukhutshwa kommandla omnye kuthintela kakhulu uphuhliso lwendawo engumakhelwane. Ngoko ke, ukufundisa intetho yentsana, akuyi kuba neleyo ukugxila kuphela ekubhaliweyo. Ngokufanayo, kufuneka uhlakulele ukutshintsha kweminwe yakho. Kuye kwabonakaliswa ukuba izinto ezilula ezifana nokuthi "uLadushki", "iSoroka-Beloboka", "Inkunzi yePilate" ayigcobe abantwana kuphela, kodwa i-gymnastics ewusizo kakhulu. Nantoni na oyenzayo, ookhokho bethu babenengqiqo kakhulu, ukuba, nangaphandle kolwazi olukhoyo lwenzululwazi, baqaphele ukuxhomekeka kokuphuhliswa kwentetho kunye nezakhono zamandla.
Ukususela kumntwana ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu.
Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zeemoto ukuqala malunga nokuzalwa. Ingaba uyayondla umntwana, umbeke ukuba alele, okanye angene kwixesha lokuvusa kwakhe, uthinte ngomnwe iminwe yakhe, ubenyule ngobumnene, wenze intshukumo nganye isetyhula. Olu hlobo lokusilalisa luqeqesho lobutyebi bezithuthi ezifanelekileyo.
Iminwe esandul 'isana ixhomekeke kwingqungquthela. Ngokweminyaka, yena, uya kuthi, uya kubavula, kodwa ngamandla akho kuye kulo ncedo oluncinci. Gubungela isundu sakhe ngobuso kunye neenwele, makachukumise impumlo kunye nemilomo. Faka efomeni yakhe izinto ezahlukeneyo ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo - ii-hedgehogs zeerubhagi, iibhola zeebhokhwe, njl njl.
Ngeenyanga eziyi-3-4, ukulungiswa komntwana kukhula kakhulu kangangokuthi unokukwazi ukuzenza izinto ngokwakhe. Uyazibamba izandla zakhe zonke izinto ezithatha kuphela kwintsimi yakhe yombono - i-hook okanye ifowuni.
Kule nqanaba kuyakunceda ukufundisa umntwana ukuba acinezele iifowuni kumaqhosha okanye kwiitshixo. Into ephambili kule nto i-piano encinci: umntwana uya kuba nomdla wokucofa iqhosha kwaye ekuphenduleni ukunyakaza kwakhe kufumane isandi. Ekuqaleni, kunokuba kuphazamise kwiihluthulelo.
Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kunyaka.
Ngeenyanga ezili-6 ukuqinisa imisipha yezandla, fundisa umntwana ukuba adibanise iinwele zakhe ezingenazo izitha. Mthabathe nje ukuphatha umntwana, yiphakamise kwaye uyihambise ngokukhawuleza ngentloko emva nangaphambili, njengokungathi inkwenkwe iyazibetha kakuhle. Oku kuncedo kuloo nto xa uqhuba lo msebenzi, iimbumba zebhande lesigxina, iintendelezo, iminwe ibandakanyeka. Kulo nyaka kululeke kakhulu ukululela ulusu iminyaka emi-3-4 phakathi kweentendelezo zomntwana kwisisetyhula.
Kwiinyanga ezi-7-8, umphandi omncinci ufunda ukuphuka, ukuqhaqhaza amathoyizi, ukwenza ingxolo ngezinto kunye nokubetha izandla. Mnike umntwana ezandleni zamathoyizi amakhulu, kwaye ke amancinci, ukuze abathinte. Kuphela ngokuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, imidlalo ethandwa kakhulu ye "Soroka-Beloboka", "Ku-ku", "I-Goat-horned" ihlala isezandleni.
Ngeenyanga ezili-10, umntwana uqala ukujika yonke into eyenzekayo, nokuba ibhokisi yeetayili okanye isikhwama se-croup, kwaye uthele umxholo phantsi. Uninzi lwenduduzo, ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala umntwana ekugqibeleni uqala ukusebenzisa izinto ngenjongo yakhe ngqo: ukusuka kwipuni yokutya, kwaye ngokufowunela ifowuni uze ucoxe. Unokumthengela ifowuni yokudlala ukuze afunde ukucofa kumaqhosha ahlukeneyo. Qala ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agcine i-spoon kunye nekomityi. Hlangana naye nge pensile uze ufunde indlela yokudweba.
Kule minyaka, kungekhona nje kuphela into eyenziweyo eyenziwa yinto enomdla, kodwa nayo yonke imama yomama, iimfolokhwe kunye nezikhwama zokucoca. Ngoko ke, lungisa izimbiza ezikhethekileyo ezivulekileyo kwaye zivale ngokwahlukileyo, iipaki okanye izikhwama ezihamba kunye namaqhosha ahlukeneyo. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo, ukuba yonke into ayengekho into yokusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke, ukuba kunye nawe kwiivenkile, iipolyclinics, izithuthi zikawonkewonke. Musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana uhlala ezama ukuzama "kumazinyo."
Ukususela kunyaka omnye ukuya kubini.
Ukuphuhlisa iminwe yengane, imizuzu emi-5 ukuya ku-10 isetyenzisiwe, kodwa kufuneka ibe rhoqo. Izifundo ezibalulekileyo ezifana nokugqoka, ukupakisha iiplastiki, imidlalo kunye nomklami, i-mosaic, ukukhahlela iphepha kwiindawo, ukudweba ngeepensele kunye nopende lwamanwe.
Kule minyaka, abantwana bazama ukuba luncedo kumama. Ngoko ke, ukuze unomdla intombazana yakho, mcele ukuba akuncede ukuba uhlele ubhontshisi obudibeneyo owawuxubusha ngaphambili. Inkohliso efanayo inokuyenza kunye neepeas, i-nut.
Unokunika umntwana isipuni ukuze athulule iswekile okanye imango kwisitya esinye kwesinye. Ukuba kunzima kuye, makhe asebenze iimbotyi okanye iiperesi kwisitya esinye ukuya kwesinye.
Emva kweminyaka enye nesigxina unokubeka phambi komntwana wakho imisebenzi enzima kakhulu: ukukhawuleza amaqhosha, ukudibanisa nokuxhoma amaqhina, ukuhambisa amanzi kwisitya kunye nentamo emncinci ibe yintonga enentamo ende. Kuya kuba luncedo ukubamba amathoyizi avela kwisitya nge-croup okanye isanti.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngaphezu kwebhokhwe enokuyenza, amathuba anakho ukuba aphuhlise. Kwaye, ke, musa ukulibala malunga nazo zonke iimvumi ezithandayo.
Ukubaxelela, fundisa umntwana ukuba aguqe iminwe:
Lomunwe - waya ehlathini,
Lomunwe - ufumene i-mushroom,
Lomunwe - uthathe indawo,
Lo mnqweno uya kulala,
Le nto yayidla kakhulu,
Yingakho wayenamanqatha.
Yiyiphi iminwe inqatha, wena, ndicinga ukuba, iyaqonda. Iingcali zee-genre nazo zibhekwa njengengoma eyingqungquthela malunga nosapho:
Lo mnyoko ngumkhulu,
Lo mnyoko ugogo,
Lo mnweba ngubaba,
Lomunwe ngumama,
Lomunwe - Kolenka (Olenka, Irochka, Sashenka, njl.)
Kwaye le nto yinto enzima kakhulu. Esikhundleni sokuba uguqa iminwe ngokuthe ngqo, qhagamshela isithupha kwisinye seminwe:
Inkwenkwe yamantombazana, uhlalaphi? "
"Ndahamba nalo mzalwana waya ehlathini."
Ngaloo msipho womzalwana ophekwe,
Ngaloo mpahla umzalwana wadla.
Ngalo mzalwana woma ingoma ayicula!
Ezimbini ukuya kwimithathu.
Ngokudla ukudlala nomntwana kwibhola - le simulator yexabiso kakhulu. Ibhola inokubetha amathoyizi, ejolise kwibhaksi, ehamba ngokuthe ngqo, ephosa phezulu, ebuyela emuva, edlala ibhola.
Ku luncedo ukukhupha izinto eziphathekayo, umzekelo, ngesanti. Kodwa ukuba ifestile ibusika okanye imvula, ngoko uhambo lokuya kwi-sandbox lungatshintshwa ngumdlalo kunye nosanhlamvu, i-pasta, ubuhlalu. Ziyakuthululelwa, zitshintshwe ngesandla okanye zitshitshwe, zityhutyhwe ngamabhodlela kwiibhotile kunye neembiza, ezibekwe kwiiseli zeqanda. Kucacile ukuba ukuphaphapha apha kuza kuqala. Khumbula ukuba babhala kwiimidlalo ezisuka kwimimangalo emnandi! Kuyafana. Ukuba ubona ukuthambekela ekutheni izinto ezincinci emlonyeni wakho okanye empumlweni, zibale ukudlala. Eyona nto mayiyeke umntwana wakho phantsi kolawulo lwakho. Ngokwakhe, uya kufunda izinto ezikhuselekileyo.
Kalyaki Malyaki kwaye kungekhona kuphela.
Ukudweba kweli nqanaba kuncitshiswe kwi nyaniso yokuba, ngaphezu kweKalyak Malyak, umntwana ufunde ukudweba izinto ezilula ezilahlekileyo zomfanekiso owatyebileyo. Ngokomzekelo, amadoda amabini amancinci okanye iinyana ezincinane zihamba ngeebhaluni, kwaye umntwana kufuneka adibaniswe- "uboshwe" ngemicu. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba iintambo sele zifakwe kumbala obalala, ukuze umntwana angayiqonda into nendlela yokudweba ngayo.
Ungammema ukuba aqedele imvula, egalela ifu, ilanga lelanga, iinwele zabantu, iziqhamo zeentyatyambo, "zifana" nebhayisiki kunye nepeyinti emnyama kwiqhwa elimhlophe (iphepha eliphepheni). Dweba amaza olwandle kwaye ucele umntwana ukuba aphinde awadwebe.
Kuhlala kunomdla ukudlala kwaye ufune iphepha. Ukwenza oku, dweba okanye unamathisele izitaki, umzekelo, ingcuka kunye ne-bunny. Ubuncwane buyesaba kakhulu ingcuka kunye nebhokhwe kufuneka ifihle kuyo - upende phezu kwangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ingenakuthola ingcuka. Ungakwazi ukufihla into: umntwana ovela kwiintethe, ibhinqa esuka kumzingeli, njl.
Iminwe yabafana.
Qaphela ukuba nakubomi bemihla ngemihla ungakwazi ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungaboni kakuhle ukubona izinto ezinomdla kwaye zisebenzisekayo ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Ngokomzekelo, uchithe ubuhlanga okanye okusanhlamvu. Musa ukuza kuhlambulula, biza uncedo kwi-tomboy yakho, bavumele ukuba baqeqeshe ukuba baqokelele. Ngokufanayo, ngezinye izihlandlo, mcele ukuba aqoke iqela elivela kumgangatho, vula ibhokisi leposi ngenqakraza, ulungele imicu ibe yintambo, izicathulo zepolisi ezineponji, usule uthuli, vula iphepha leencwadi. Ukunyamezela ukunyuka kwezinto ezintle - oko kuthetha intsingiselo yakho.
Emva kweminyaka engama-2.5 endaweni yeengcamango zomntwana, qalisa ukuqhuba umzimba. Mbonise indlela yokudweba izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo ngeminwe emi-5: isalathisi kunye neminwe ephakathi "ihamba" ecaleni kwetafile - ngumntu, kwaye ukuba ubonisa umunwe nomnwe omncinane kwikham, ufumana ibhokhwe. Apha, imfesane yakho ingavela ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo zemidlalo. "Abantu abancinci" banokugijima umncintiswano, ukudansa, bahamba ngeeseli. Khumbula indlela wena ebuntwaneni bakho odlalwa ngayo ngesithunzi esodongeni, ubonisa iminwe yakho inja, i-hare, i-swan. Inkwenkwe iya kuba yinto enomdla ukufunda indlela yokwenza iziglasi ezivela kwisithupha kunye nesantengiselwano kwezandla zombini.