Kutheni oku kuyimfuneko?
Ngabantwana abangayazi imigaqo yokuziphatha, kukho iingxaki ezinkulu. Nangona iimbali zezilumkiso zisixwayisa ngale nto! Uyakhumbula ukuba iMashenka ephuma kwi "Bears Three" yayingena enkingeni kuba wayengazi indlela yokuziphatha kwindlu yomnye umntu? Ewe, kunye neNetnayka edumileyo ngenxa yokungayigcinanga imithetho yeprayimari ihlala iyingxinano. Kwaye kuthiwa ngamaqhawe "Amabhunga aMbi" e-Grigory Oster? Ngokuqinisekileyo emva kokufunda ezi ncwadi, unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akwaneleyo! Nsuku zonke kufuneka bazinze ngokusebenza. Kuhle xa kwenzeka kwinkampani yabaontanga kunye nabazali babo (kumzekelo wabantwana abadala, kulula ukuba wonke umntu afunde!). Kodwa ekhaya kunye nomama nobawo unokuzenza.
Midlalo yezobupolitika
Khumbula amazwi amnandi umntwana anceda umdlalo, kwaye awaziwa ngokude ... ukuba aguqulwa kancane.
"Amazwi"
Abathathi-nxaxheba bomdlalo baphinde bathethe nawuphi na amagama omlingo. Lowo une sigama siya kuphelelwa.
"Dunno"
Thatha idonsa, ibhere okanye intsimbi kwaye udlale phambi komntwana indawo yokudlala eyenziwa kakubi (engazi indlela yokuziphatha kugqirha, kwisitolo, etafileni). Vumela umntwana azame ukulungisa iimpazamo!
Ukususela kwimfundiso yokuziqhelanisa
Ewe, kulungile ukufunda ngokusebenzisa umdlalo. Kodwa ukuze udibanise olu lwazi luyasebenza, kukho iimeko ezithile ezifunekayo. Sinikela ukulungiselela kunye ... ukudala! Yitsho indlela yokuziphatha xa udla. Yenza kwifom ye-poetic - khumbula kangcono! Emva kwendima yezobugcisa, cwangcisa isidlo sakusihlwa ngokwemiqathango yonke (ngexesha elifanayo kwaye usebenzise itafile yomntwana uya kufunda!). Uya kumangaliswa yindlela yomntwana! Ngaphambi kokuya kwigalari yezobugcisa, ukuya kumboniso, cacisa ukuba ungeke usebenze kwiindawo zoluntu, khulume ngokukratshi, iminwe yeminwe kwimiboniso, i-yawn. Musa ukungena kwibhasi, i-minibus ene-backpack, isikhwama emahlombe akho, ukuze ungabangeli abanye abagibeli. Iingqungquthela zifundwa ngentliziyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iimpompi ziyalibala, le nto okanye loo mgaqo wokuziphatha? Yiba nomnene kwaye ... yenza okufunekayo, yithetha igama lomlingo ngokwawo! Nceda, nceda, ungayeki ukuphawula ngobuntu bomntwana. Imilinganiselo enhle yomntwana wakho iya kuba yinto eninzi xa ikhula. Yingakho ngexesha elidinga ukukhuliselwa kwakho. Emva koko, abantwana baninzi bafunda into engcono, ngaphezu kwezinye abantwana ebuntwaneni, ngoko ke ukuba ufundisa imvumba yokuziphatha njengamanje, uya kuzuza kakhulu kuyo. Fundisa umntwana ukuba akwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo, angalokothi abuyele kunye nabantu abadala, athande kwaye ahloniphe abantu abadala, uncedo aze axelele abantu ngezihlobo ezidala. Emva koko umntwana uya kukhula kwaye akuxelele ngokukhethekileyo umbulelo. Ndiyabonga ngothando nangokuqonda.