Kakade ke, bonke abazali benza imizamo yokunciphisa ukubukwa kwabantwana ngeTV. Kwaye benza okuhlukile. Abanye bacima i-TV emva kwexesha kwaye badibana nabantwana nazo zonke iintlobo zokuphuhlisa imisebenzi, ukuhamba okanye ukudlala. Abanye, ngaphantsi kweempembelelo kunye nokuhlambalaza komntwana othandekayo, ngokukhawuleza baxhomekeke ekukholiseni kwaye sele benokubheka konke ukuhlwa kwamacandelo kunye neethathu.
Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kuzo zombini iimeko, abazali bayazi ngokukhetha kwabo. Nobubi,. Akukho mntu uya kubagxeka oku. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba siphila ngexesha loxinzelelo kunye nobunzima. Kule meko, i-TV yinto kuphela engasivumeli ukuba sihoxise ngaphakathi kwethu, ukuba singene kwingcinezelo ejulile. Kodwa abantwana ngale ndlela bawususe uxinzelelo oluqokelelwe ngexesha lemihla alufanelekanga.
Yintoni na? Ingaba oku kuyimpembelelo yeTV kumabantwana? Ngaba i-psyche ichaphazela abantwana? Kufuneka uqonde le meko ukuphela. Emva kokubukela iTV, abantwana abahlaliseli. Basebenza ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, banokukhathazeka ngakumbi, banentloni kunye nobudlova. Ukongezelela, ngenxa yeengxaki zamehlo kubantwana, emva kwexesha elithile, umbono uqala ukubandezeleka. Abanye baze bafumane iiglasi. Yingakho ukusetyenziswa kweTV njengoncedisayo kwimicimbi yasekhaya kunokugxeka. Le ndlela ayikude.
Ngokwezibalo zenzululwazi zase-UK, abantwana banamhlanje kwiminyaka emithandathu yobomi babo - bachitha unyaka wonke kwiikrini zeTV.
Ngoko uyilungiselela njani indlela yokubukela i-TV kubantwana, ukuze ingabi yinto yokuzibulala? Ukuchazela ukuba impembelelo yethelevishini ivelisa ububi kuphela, akunakwenzeka. Ngoko ke, ukugcinwa kwemithetho ethile elula kunokunciphisa imiphumo ehambelana nokuhlala okungalawulwayo kwabantwana kwesikrini.
- Musa ukuvumela abantwana ukuba babe kwiTV kwaye babukele kumgama ongaphantsi kweemitha ezimbini.
- Gweba ukubetha ngqo kweemitha emehlweni - i-angle ye-45 degrees ivumelekile.
- Vumela abantwana babe ngaphantsi kwezinga leskrini sethelevishini, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kwicala.
- Kubalulekile ukulungisa kwakhona iTV ukuze kungabikho isikhokelo sokunakwa, kwaye kwakungenakwenzeka ukuyibukela ukusuka naphi na kwigumbi. Kukulungele ukuwubukela ukusuka kwikona enye.
- Ukuba kunokwenzeka, yeka ukusebenzisa ulawulo olukude. Oku kuza kubangela ukuba ixesha elibi lokuba onke amalungu entsapho achithe ukubukela iTV iya kuncipha.
- Lahla loo mkhwa njengokuba ushintshana rhoqo.
- Ukusebenzisa i-TV njenge "imvelaphi" ayimkelekanga!
- Hlaziya kwakhona ifenitshala engakhululeki kwindawo yokubukela iTV - oku kuya kuthintela inani lexesha elichithwe ngaphambi kwalo.
- Hamba ngakumbi nabantwana.
- Kuya kubakho ixesha elincinane lokujonga ukuba uhlawula ngakumbi abantwana bakho.
- Musa ukuvumela i-TV ukuba ihlale ngaphezu kwama-2 iiyure ngosuku.
- Iiprogram kunye neefilimu ababonwa ngabantwana bakho ziyahlolwa. Akubaluleki nje kuphela umxholo, kodwa kunye nomgangatho!
- Xa ukhangele iifilimu okanye iinkqubo, kufuneka ubeke izimvo kwizinto ezenzeka kwesikrini. Umbono wakho ubalulekile! Ngoko umntwana uya kuqonda okulungileyo nokubi, okuhle nokubi.
- Kubalulekile ukwenza imibono nokugxeka oko kwenzekayo. Kwaye ke abantwana baya kuqonda ukuba akuyiyo yonke into edinga ukukholelwa. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wenze into - amaninzi amaninzi ngaphambi kokuhlalutya.
- Yenza i-TV ibe ngumhlobo kubantwana bakho! Ababandakanyi nje kuphela ukufundisa, kodwa neenkqubo zokuzonwabisa. Kodwa musa ukulibala - ixesha lokuhlala kwesikrini kufuneka lilinganiselwe kwiiyure ezimbini.
- Musa ukusebenzisa iTV njengemali. Abantwana abaphazamisayo kunye neekhathuni ukuze bamondle, okanye benze imisebenzi yasekhaya, bangakhokelela ekubeni baneminyaka engama-4 ukuya ku-5 bakha ukuxhomekeka ngamandla kwiTV.
Gcina umlinganiselo kuyo yonke into echaphazelekayo ngeTV. Ewe, ukuba sele usebenzise imvelaphi yayo kwiminyaka emininzi, akusayi kukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ukubaluleka kokubaluleka kunye nobungendawo ebomini bakho. Cinga ngempilo yabantwana bakho!
Akukho mntu unokunyanzela ukuba usilahle le ntsikelelo yempucuko. Kodwa ngaba uya kulindela ixesha elithile lefilimu yakho oyintandokazi, kunokuba ubukele ifilimu engabonakaliyo ebanjwe ngamaqhosha okuphosa.