Ungakhetha njani igama lomntwana? Awukwazi ukuphosakela ngokukhetha igama? Akukho mithetho ethile okanye imiyalelo, kodwa kukho iindlela ezithile abazali abaya kuba nako ukunyusa abazali babo ukuba bakhethe igama elifanelekileyo kumntwana wabo. Nazi ezimbalwa kwezi ndlela.
Iindlela zokukhetha igama lomntwana wakho
Ukukhethwa kwegama ngokwekhalenda yecawa. Ngokutsho kwakhe, imihla ngemihla ihambelana nomntu ongcwele. Ukukhetha igama ngale ndlela, ungcwele ngegama elithile, elikude nomhla wokuzalwa komntwana, ukhethwa. Kukholelwa ukuba emva kwenkqubo yoBhapathizo, isanta okhethiweyo uya kuba ngumgcini wezingelosi kumntwana.
Abazali bangabiza umntwana emva komntu. Le nto ingabakho ntsapho (ootata nomkhulu) abaye bafa, kodwa bashiya uphawu olujulile ebomini bentsapho yonke. Kwakhona ingaba ngabantu abadumileyo, amaqhawe amafilimu okanye iincwadi. Kodwa awukwazi ukunika unyana wakho igama loyise (uPeter Petrovich, njl.), Kunye neentombi-igama lomama, ekubeni ezo mpawu umntwana azuze kubazali bakhe azinakuhlala zilungile.
Enye indlela yokukhetha igama kukufundwa kwangaphambili kweencwadi ezongezelelweyo - ezi zichazi-magama zemvelaphi yamagama, ngaphandle kokuthi, ngokutsho kwabazali, abanakufumana nto. Kwizinto ezinjalo amagama ahlukeneyo kunye neempawu zabo zenziwa. Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, abazali njengokuba bathabatha uphawu, ngokunjalo negama lebhokhwe. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba benze ukhetho lokugqibela, abazali baya kukhangeleka kwisichazi esinjalo.
Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, le nkcazo ayisoloko ihambelana neyona nto iyimfuneko, ngenxa yokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana enze iinkqubo ezithile, amakhono okanye iitalente.
Abafanele baphoswe ngegama, abanye abazali basebenzela ukubhula ngeenkwenkwezi nokubala. Kule nto, uhlalutyo lwamanani olwenziwe ngeenkwenkwezi, lunokuvumela ukuba unxulumane nomhla wokuzalwa komntwana negama. Okwangoku, ubungqina benzululwazi bubonisa ukuba igama elikhethiweyo liyakwazi ukucacisa isigqibo somntwana. Nangona inzululwazi esemthethweni ingenakuzithemba malunga nezinto ezinjalo, uninzi unina lusetyenziswa kule ndlela.
Amanye amagama ahluke kwimvelaphi yawo (Arefiy, Glafira, njl). Kungekudala, ipesenteji yokuqala kwamagama iye yandise amaxesha amaninzi. Ngayiphi indlela, igama loqobo liza kwahlula umntu kwisihlwele, phakathi koontanga, njl. Kodwa abazali akufanele bahambe ngaphezu kwesizathu.
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo xa ukhetha igama
Okokuqala, hlalutya indlela igama elikhethiweyo liza kudibaniswa negama eliphakathi lomntwana.
Ungakhethi igama eliqhelekileyo kwindawo. Awudingi ukuba noK Katie okanye uZhenya kwi-sandbox enye.
Kubalulekile ukuba igama libizwe lula kwaye likhunjulwe.
Kwimimandla yegama lomsebenzisi kufuneka lenziwe kalula.
Kucetyiswa ukuba, ukuba igama elikhethiweyo linemibono ye-euphemistic diminutives.
Khumbula ukuba igama elikhethiweyo akufanele libuhlungu kumntwana kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba kukho ingxaki phambi kwakho, ukuba ungubani igama lomntwana wakho, khumbula ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyisebenzisa ngokucokisekileyo kule nkqubo. Akuyimfuneko ukukhawuleza ukugqithisa kwaye unike imbuzi igama elihle okanye elingaqhelekanga, njengoko linokulimaza umntwana ngokwakhe. Igama lomntwana aluyiyo ifowuni, kwaye kulo mzekelo, akunakwenzeka ukuqhubeka nalo.