Nantoni na ukuba bathetha ngokulingana ngokwesini, kodwa kwiinkalo ezininzi, isundu sinikwa amadoda njengomgangatho wolwazi kunye nezakhono ezahlukeneyo. Oko kwandisa kakhulu ukuzithemba kwindoda kwaye kuvumela ukuba baphakamise ukuphakama kobukhulu babo ukuba baxubushe kwaye bahlalutye ngokucwangcisekileyo izenzo zonke zabasetyhini, iimpawu zokubonakala kunye nomlingiswa, ukutolika yonke into ngendlela yabo kunye nokugqiba isigwebo.
Indoda efanelekileyo ilungileyo, ukuphelela kwakhe ngokomoya nangokwenyama akuxhomekeke ekugxekeni. Umntu onokuzikhethela ukuziphatha ngokuzixhamla uyazixolela amancinci kunye nobuthathaka, mhlawumbi ukholelwa ukuba akanayo. Ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo kukugxeka kakhulu ukusilela kwabasetyhini. Kwaye konke oku kugxekwa okukude kukubhekiselele ekuphelelweni kokomoya nabokwenyama. Enyanisweni, lo ngumnye umgibe oqhubekayo.
Ubusi, kutheni ulinganisa le ngubo? ... Inyoko, kungekhona nomfanekiso wakho. Kwaye kungcono ukufihla imilenze phantsi kweebhulukhwe zakho. Ewe, inwele ayikho nto, kodwa ngokucacileyo kungekhona ebusweni bakho, izihlathi ziphuma ngaphandle kweendlebe zazo. Mamela, kutheni ufuna i-makeup? Yintoni engalunganga, le ndlela ayikho. Awu, Nkosi, zingaphi na izihlandlo othi: Awazi, ungahambi. Yonke into yajika. Kutheni uchitha imali eninzi kwi-cream? I-steam yakho imibimbi sele idinga ukuqhuma umbane. Umfazi emva kwevili? - Ngokuqinisekileyo i-monkey ne-grenade. Ukuba bekuyintando yam, ndiyakwenqabela amabhinqa ukuba aqhube emva kwevili ephantsi kwentlungu yokufa. Ewe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungumncinci, unina, kodwa ubudala buziva buziva. Akuyintombazana, emva koko, kodwa yonke into imidlala, yonke into igqoke. Kwaye awukwazi ukuguqula ubunzima obuninzi ngempahla, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama kangakanani. Ewe, ungalili. Musa ukukhala. Ndikunye. Ndiyakuthanda kwaye njengaye. Khangela ukuba baninzi beenxa zonke. Awunaso ixesha lokuphuma esitalatini, abafazi abasenokuba ngabakho ukulungele ukuzibopha entanyeni yakho. Vele unikezele kwaye unganqikazi, kwaye uhlakaniphile, kwaye ulungile, kwaye ukhuselekile. ... kodwa akukho mntu ufuna. Ngenxa yokuba amadoda aqhelekileyo, kanye kanye okanye kabini kunye nayo yonke into. Abasetyhini baninzi. Akwanele kuwo onke amadoda, akwanele. Kodwa mna, andihambi. ... Nangona kunye nedatha yam amathuba amaninzi namathuba amaninzi! Khawukhawuleze uye kwivenkile ubhiya kunye nogwayi. Yintoni? Ngobusuku egcekeni. Ngoko yintoni? Ngubani ofuna? Ngokukhawuleza, iincinci ezincinane, usenokuthenga iintlanzi zebhiya. Ngaba unayo okwaneleyo ye-pantyhose? Futhi uchitha phi umvuzo wakho? Wam Umvuzo? Ewe, ndibeka yonke into emotweni. Unqwenela ukukhwela, uthando kunye nesitya sokuthwala. ... Hayi, loo nto yaleka? Mamela, cinga into yokutya. Ingaba kukho isaladi izolo? Uyidla ngokwakho. Owu, ndidiniwe namhlanje, umqolo wam uphukile. Khumbula umva wam. Izandla ziwa? Kutheni? Ukhulelwe emsebenzini ukuze uhlale? Yaye ukuba uhamba ngothutho loluntu, kwaye ungenaye emotweni? Mamela, sinawo ngefriji? Kuthengisa njengentambo yokuqhuma. Ngaba undicele ukuba ndibuke? Ngaba ndibukeka nje ngefriji? Inkosi ayizange izame ukubiza? Ngaba iingcango zihlala zijikeleze ngebhodi? Lindela, kodwa nini ndifanele ndiyenze oku?
Zonke ezi zivakalisi, izigxeko kunye nokuhlaselwa, njengamanzi ahlaziye uxolo lwengqondo lwowesifazane, unqamle umhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zakhe. Kwaye, ngoku, ngokuthe ngqo, ulele ugibe olufanayo. Qinisekisa lo wesifazane ophantsi kwakhe kunye nobunzima ukuze iindoda ezithembekileyo kwizandi zokuqala zezwi lomntu ziza kumninimzi njengoSivka Burka, ukuze iqela liza kuqhuba okokuqala kwaye mhlawumbi ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ukuthandaza imihla ngemihla nangendlela echanekileyo, ukuba uhlala kunye nomlimi, kwaye akukho nanye, njengabo abaninzi. ... ukuba uyakuthanda oku, akugqibekanga, ahlambulukile, angenangqondo, ahlambulukile. Kodwa enyanisweni, zingaphi iinzame ezijikelezayo? Bobabini bahlakaniphile kwaye banhle. Amakhulu amabhinqa ekhangele enye indoda kuphela. Kwakhona kunjalo, ukuba kwakhona uphuze? Kodwa wafika ekhaya, kungekhona kubafazi. Ngumhla ongenakukwazi ukuthatha inkunkuma? Ityate, into ephosakeleyo emsebenzini. Ngaba i-TV ayisebenzi? Ingaba i-iron spark? Akukho nto, ndiya kubiza inkosi. Kule ndawo ekhethekileyo apho. Thixo, kuthekani ukuba ngokukhawuleza bathathe olunye usuku? Iyintoni inhlanhla ayenayo nam. Ngomnyango nje. Ukulala nje phezu kombhede. Uzama nje emlanjeni. Awu, wangqongqa kabini ngaphambi kokulala! Wabeka iisokisi kwiitanki kunye nezinto zokuhlamba ezingcolileyo, kungekhona njengesiqhelo, phakathi kwegumbi.
Ubungqina nokungeniswa, ukungathandabuzeki okunqongophele kungena kwinyama kunye negazi lomfazi. Ukuphoqelelwa ukuba wenze samoyedstvom, ukulahla ukuzithemba. Ukwesaba ukulahleka kunye nokuzingela. Indoda iya kuba ngukumkani wehlabathi elincinci kunye nobuthixo, ngokukhawuleza nangokukrelekrele ngobuchule kwiintambo zeengxaki zowesifazane kunye nokwesaba. Yaye loo mfazi ugijimela kuye kuphela kwaye wakhiwe kwikomiti yokuqala, kunye nebhaya, nakwi-workshop, kwaye uhlambe imoto, kwaye uthabathe inkunkuma. Baba, yazi indawo yakho. Ngelinye ilanga ihlabathi eliphambi kwelinye ibhinqa liphuma enye into: Ngubani na ndiyidingayo? Ewe, ubuncinane kuye. Kwaye okokuqala kukuphela kwam. Emva kwayo yonke into, waqhayisa ngehlazo, waza wahlabelela iingoma, wayedansa, wayenxiba ingubo eqinile. Kwaye kwakungaqhelekanga, okuyingqayizivele, ngamnye. Yonke into, yonke ichithwe, yayiphelile. Akuzange kube mnandi, kwakuyinto efana nokuphanga kwanyuswa kwinqona kwaye yaqeqeshwa kakuhle. Kwaye umzingeli akahlali umdla. Yintoni inkukhu yakhe, uyithathe? Inkukhu ayiyiyo intaka. ... Kodwa wayeyintaka. Yaye wabuyela njani? Ulahlekile. Lahleka ngexesha. Ewe, ukuba inxalenye, kodwa ukuba iphelele? Yinto enomdla, kwimeko yokudandatheka okungapheliyo nokukhathala, kwisondo lokuphila. Kodwa kuthekani ngokuzakhela ngokomoya, ukukhula ngokomoya, ukuphucula ngokomoya, ukukhula ngokomoya? Kwaye inkukhu ngokukhawuleza yenza inzame yokugqibela. Kodwa ke ukuhleka usulu kuthi: Uyaphi na? Uya kuphi na imfundo yakho? Le mi milenze? Ubunjalo, njl Musa ukukholwa. Yintaka. Unomdla kwaye untle. Kwaye umntu ngamnye unet talente ngendlela yakhe kwaye unokukhula kwaye aphuhlise ubomi bakhe bonke. Yiba nomdla kuwe nakwabanye. Kwaye phakathi kwe-borscht, izimbiza, abantwana kunye nokucoca indlu kufuneka ibe yihlabathi labasetyhini. Ihlabathi elizaliswe ngokuvisisana, uvuyo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa. Kwaye ukuba umntu uyakuthanda, uya kuqonda. Yithetha nje naye. Kuqinileyo kwaye uzolile ukuba wena, kunye naye, unelungelo lokufumana indawo yokukhulula kunye nexesha lakho, ukuphumla nokuzilibazisa, ukuhlonela nokubulela. Kwaye ukuba yonke into ekuphenduleni zonke izifiso zakho zokuzihlakulela kunye nokuzithemba, umntu wakho uphendulela umnwe wakhe etempileni. Kulungile ke. KukaKesare into kaKesare, uThixo akavumelani. Mshiye umthwalo owenza ukuba ungene phantsi. Kuye, ungeke undibhukude kunxweme kwisiqithi esimangalisayo esibizwa ngokuba yiyolo. Asinakuvuyisa ngomnye umntu, kuphela thina.