Izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuhlukana kwabantu okanye kutheni ubuhlobo buphela ngaphambi kokuba baqale?
Kwi-metro / ibhasi / kwisitalato.
Uhamba, ngokukhawuleza uyambona kwaye ngokukhawuleza uwa thandane. Kuphela kuncike kuwe, lo thando luya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza. Emva kwakho konke, awuthathi mva ngokusondela kumfana ngala mazwi: "Oo, oh, Vasya, ngaba nguwe?" Awu, ndiyaxolisa, ndiphosakele! "Okanye:" Ukuba incwadi yakho yile nkondlo? " Ndiza nje kuviwo kwaye ndifuna ukuyiphinda. "
Ngomhlobo.
Yonke into inokutshabalalisa untloni, ngokungaqhelekanga, ubuhlobo obudala bufana nokuwanga umntakwenu. Kufuneka upholise ngaphantsi, kwaye unganciphisa ixesha elithile unxibelelwano, ukuze kamva ukhangelelana nomboniso "olutsha". Kwaye ungamnika umdlalo: umzekelo, ukudibana nabantu njengabantu abangaqhelekanga.
Emva komhla wokuqala.
Emva kokuba uhlale phantsi kwe cafe, wanyamalala, nangona wawukulungele ukunyuka kwintando. Okanye ukulahleka kwexeshana - linda iintsuku ezimbalwa, uze ufumane oko, buze into engathathi hlangothi kwaye ujonge ukuphendula. Okanye wayekwesaba nje, kuba wakubona njengentombazana enzulu, ulungele ulwalamano, kwaye kungekhona nje into engenziyo. Okanye zonke iiyure ezintathu wandixelela ngendlela ofuna ngayo umntwana okanye indlela othanda ngayo ifilosofi kaKant.
Emva komhla wesithathu.
Imihla emithathu yanele ixesha lokuqonda ukuba umntu wakho okanye cha. Ukuba usuvele uzicingela ukuba ungowakho, kodwa akayifumani, ukuthanda kwimiba enjalo ayikwazi ukufezwa, kuba kufuneka ukhethe amanyathelo amasha, ubhalele kuye, ube yinto enqabileyo.
Iimigodi kunye ne-pluses yokuhlukana.
1. Awunaso umntu onokuhamba naye ixesha elide phantsi kwesibambiso kwimigqomo yekwindla. Kodwa unokuthi uvele "ekukhanyeni" kwaye ungabesabi ngothando nabantu abatsha, phakathi kwabo kuya kuba ngumntu oza kubeka ngokukhawuleza izibhobho zenkunkuma.
2. Emva kokuhlukana, ixesha elingenalo lihlala ngonaphakade. Kodwa unokuyipopera usuku lwakho ngomzuzu kwaye wenze izinto ezininzi - ixesha liya kulungeleka nokuba yintoni oye wayilinda ixesha elide.
3. Utshintsho olwenziweyo alukuncedi, kwaye aluphuculanga. Kodwa unokukhala ngokukhuselekileyo zonke iinyembezi, uze udle i-chocolates ezilishumi kunye nje nepolenteynichat.
4. Awufuni ukwenza nantoni na, makungabikho bhala iincwadana zaseyunivesithi, emva kokuhlukana "awukho", Izifundo ziya kulinda, kodwa unokufumana italente ethile yokudala. Ngokomzekelo, bhala ibali malunga nolwalamano lwakho - kwaye ekugqibeleni, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwakunothando lwakho olutsha nolonwabileyo.
5. Emva kokuhlukanisa abantu, ukuthanda kwabo kuyashintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Awukwazi ukugqoka ezo zinto azithandayo, uhambe kwindawo ohamba kuyo, kwaye uphulaphule umculo ayewuthandayo. Kodwa unako ukuqokelela zonke izinto uze unike umhlobo okanye intandane, utshintshe isitayela, uvule indawo ezintsha, uthanda umculo omtsha kwaye ube nesimo esihle kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukhulule kwaye uvulele ubomi obutsha.
6. Awuyivuyo. Kodwa ngoku unayo ixabiso elixabisekileyo elinokuguqulwa libe yingcamango ebaluleke kakhulu: konke okwenziwayo, konke kukuphucula, zama nje ukuhlalutya izizathu zokuhlukana. Emva kwexesha uzonwabile ukucinga: "Yeka kakuhle ukuba saqhekeka! Ndiyombulela kuye yonke into, kodwa ngoku ndivakalelwa kakhulu kwaye phambi kwam zonke iingcango zivulekile. "
7. Uloyiko lolwalamano olutsha. Kodwa unethuba lokuqonda into ebalulekileyo - uthando kufuneka luphuhlise.
Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza