Indlela yokusabela ngokuchanekileyo kwincwadi yokutshutshisa kwiindawo zokunxibelelana

Unxibelelwano lomntu onesini esahlukileyo uzalana nokusola ukukhwabanisa naye. Lo ngumntu oqhelekileyo wempendulo yomfazi. Ukuba ufumana incoko engcolileyo kwifowuni yakho yesilisa okanye kwiphepha lakhe lezonxibelelwano, musa ukukhawuleza ukuzisa iintlawulo. Iqiniso lokwephulwa kwesithuba somntu siqu luya kubangela ukuxabana nokuhlambalaza. Okokuqala, zama ukuqonda izizathu zokubonakala kwe-interlocutor kwaye unomdla wokuthetha naye.

Kukho izizathu ezibini zezi:

1. Ngothando. Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuzonwabisa ngothando olungenanto. Ngethuba lobhalwano akukho mbuzo wenkonzo yangempela, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo.
2. Lo ngumngane wakhe omdala / umlingane / umlingane. Nika ingqalelo kwimeko yokunxibelelana. Izihloko kunye neentlobano zesini ziyinto ebalulekileyo yokuzonwabisa. Ngaliphi na ixesha, utshintsho kwiintetho ezenzweni zangempela lunokwenzeka. Iphutha eliqhelekileyo kubasetyhini kule meko kukubeka isigxina. Nangona umntu esusa iphepha kwi-intanethi yentlalo, ukuba ufuna, uya kufumana indlela yokudlala ngothando nabanye. Kunzima kakhulu ukulawula le nkqubo.

Njani ukwenza?

Ukuba i-correspondence ebonakalayo ibonakala ingenakunqwenela kuwe, ungabonakali ukucaphuka kwakho. Mhlawumbi umntu ukhangelele iimvakalelo ezintsha okanye ukhulula uxinzelelo oluye lwaba phakathi kwakho. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zihambe kwimeko. Zizinyame uze usebenze ngokubonakala kwakho. Utshintsho olunjalo aluyi kuphawulwa: ingqalelo yendoda iya kutshintshela kuwe, kunye neengxoxo eziqhelekileyo ziya kuzimisela ngokwazo. Enye inketho incoko yentetho ngobudlelwane bakho. Fumana into ephazamisayo okanye ayihambisani neqabane. Kungenzeka ukuba, ngokucacileyo uya kukuxelela oko akakhoyo. (Musa nje ulinde umntu ukuba avume ngeposi). Emva kokuxazulula iingxaki kwiqela lakho, iqabane liyakulahlekelwa ngumnqweno wokunxibelelana namanye amantombazana.