Umnqweno womfazi ukuba ngumntu

Umnqweno womfazi ukuba ube ngumntu, ndicinga ukuba le nto inqwenela ininzi lethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukhangeleka njani. Ukuba siqhathanisa indlela amadoda ahlala ngayo kunye nendlela abafazi bahlala ngayo, ngoko ngoko abantu bafumana inzuzo. Ngaba udibene namadoda amaninzi angathanda ukuba kwindawo yowesifazane? Yiloo nto! Ngubani othanda ukuhlambulula, ukuhlamba, ukupheka, ubukele abantwana kwaye ukhangeleke kumyeni wakho. Kodwa ke unokufumana ukulungele kakuhle nokukhangeleka kwicala ...

Ngaba 'uphendulela' ngamandla akho okugqibela, kwaye wenza ntoni ngeli xesha? Kakade, kusebenza, kwenza umsebenzi! Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuphela kwintsapho yakho yintlalo-eyakho kunye nabantwana. Kwaye uhlala rhoqo kwiintlanganiso zezoshishino ezineendawo zokuhlala ezithengwa kakhulu kwiindawo zokudlela ezidumileyo, amaqela e-saunas amaqela, kwindalo-ngexesha lokuloba okanye ukuzingela kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela kubameli belizwe lezilwanyana! Ngoko umnqweno wesifazane ulungile.

Iinjongo zalo. Kodwa kutheni ungatshintshi indawo kunye naye, oko kukuthi, ukuxolela - ngesondo? Ubuncinane kwithuba elithile. Ngoko, ndifuna ukuba ngumntu, ukuba ndiyakwenza ukuba ndiza kuba yinto enje ... endinokukufumanisa oko bakufunayo kuthi bafazi. Ngenxa yokuba ziyimfihlo, zingaphazamiseki kwaye zibandayo, ngamanye amaxesha zikhumbuza i-Stirlitz emva kwintshaba. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba awuzange ucele ntoni ngokukhawuleza: "Mhlobo wam, kutheni uhlungu kangaka namhlanje (ujabule, uthanda, ujabule ...)? - ngoxa ukhangele ngenyameko nangomso emehlweni akhe, kusengaphendule kwimpendulo uya kuliva into ecacileyo. Ndingathanda, kungekudala okanye kamva, ube ngumphathi omkhulu. Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, kulula ukuba umntu athole umsebenzi othembisayo: akayi kubuzwa ngodliwano-ndlebe: "Uza kukhulelwa nini ixesha elizayo kwaye uza kuhlangabezana njani nomsebenzi onoxanduva, onoxanduva xa unomntwana omncinci?". Uze uphethe ingxoxo ngokunyanisekileyo: "Kakade, ungobuchule obuhle, kodwa uyaqonda ..." Ngoko umnqweno wesifazane akufanele utyeshelwe. Kutheni ungaphupha, ubuncinane! Ndiza kwenza imali eninzi. Ayikho imfihlakalo yokuba amadoda athola abaninzi abafazi kwizikhundla ezifanayo. Okuninzi - oku akunako?

Yaye yonke into yokuba abaninzi abaqeshi bethu baneengcinga zomqolomba. Ngoko, yam, ngenhlanhla, esele ndiyakuba ngumphathi, ndaphendule kwisicelo sam esicatshulwayo sokunyuka kwemivuzo: "Kutheni ufuna imali? Awunayo indoda okanye akakwazi ukukunika? "Wandula wancoma ukuba athathe zonke iingxakeko kunye neengxaki zam.

Akunakho ukukhululeka, kunjalo. Ndazama ukuthetha ukuba mna ndasebenza kubini, kwaye ngcono kunabasebenzi abaninzi besilisa, kodwa "ingqiqo" yakhe yayingagxininiswa. Kodwa ukuba ndiyindoda, yayiza kuphakamisa umvuzo wam ngenxa yokuba ndiyindoda. Kwaye ndifuna ukubonelela intsapho yam. Ngoko ndixelele ukuba umfazi wesifiso sokuba ngumntu ubudenge.

Ingqumbo yabantu. Kodwa akusiyo yonke into enamafu kwaye ilungileyo kwilizwe lamadoda. Amadoda awaziyo indlela yokuphumula ngokomoya. Bamele bazive bekhokeli kwiindawo zonke nasemsebenzini, kwintsapho, ngaphandle kokuthi, bacinga ukuba, ubomi bahlulekile. Mhlawumbi yingako bahlala ngaphantsi kwabesetyhini. Zizinto ezinzulu zokuzigcina, zihlala zifumana kunzima ukuhlaziywa nokulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezintsha zobomi. Phantse yonke intsasa kufuneka ihlambe. Indoda ayinakuze ive ukuba yintoni ummangaliso ukunyamezela nokuzala umntwana. Amadoda atholakala ukuba ahlupheke ngeengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo zesondo kunye neengxaki zabo "zesimo". Kwaye, maqondana neenani-manani, amadoda ayenobungqina bezobuqili ekufumaneni, abafazi banokubaluleka ekuphuculeni oko abantu bafumene. Ngoko, bafana, makhe, mhlawumbi, siphila kunye!