I-suit, igolide kunye ne-rolex-indoda ehloniphekileyo okanye i-daffodil ezindlebeni zemali-mboleko? Kule nqaku uza kufunda amaqhinga ama-5 ngamadoda afanelekileyo kwaye uya kuqonda indlela yokufumanisa umviwa ongcono kunentsapho
Nsuku zonke ndiva abafazi bethetha ngamadoda afanelekileyo: njani abazenza ngathi bajonga, bathanda ntoni kunye nantoni na abafazi abakhethayo, kwaye yonke into iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo, kodwa isiqingatha sale ncoko siyizantengantoni kunye neenganekwane ezomeleleyo. Kwaye ukuze kulungiswe le ngqungquthela kwaye kususe ezinye zeentombi zamangalelo ngamadoda amaphupha, ndagqiba ekubeni ndibhale eli nqaku. Ngubani "o"?
Igama lam nguVev Vozhevatov, iminyaka engaphezu kwe-12 ndandinceda ukwakha ubudlelwane bamadoda nabasetyhini. Ndiyacebisa amadoda oshishino abaphumeleleyo kunye no-oligarchs ekukhangela abafazi, badlulise i-psychology yesintu kubafazi kwaye bancede bafumane amadoda ahloniphekileyo iminyaka emine. Kwaye ngoku abantu abafanelekileyo kunye neengcamango malunga nabo.
Umntu ofanelekileyo ngubani na?
Ufumana imali engaphezulu kwama-3000, okwaneleyo, uthatha uxanduva lwakhe kunye nabathandekayo bakhe, uzibophezele ekubeni nobudlelwane obunzulu. Indoda ehloniphekileyo isoloko ihlakaniphile kwaye inomdla. Indoda enjalo yindoda enqwenelekayo, kodwa iyimfihlakalo ekuqalekeni kwayo, kwaye ke kutheni iimbumba zihamba ngeenxa zonke kuye. Ukuze ungadideki, ukuxhomekeka "kwiyakho" kwaye ungayi kuwela iintambo zokuloba zoluntu, iimbali kufuneka ziqhelaniswe kwaye ziqondwe.
Inkolelo ye-1: "Amadoda ahloniphekileyo abukeka njengama-clock"
Le ngqungquthela yehla kumabutho avela kwi-cinema kwaye ibonise ishishini. Iqhotyoshelweyo elihle, apho i-Agent 007 enesibindi, i-Agent 007, ephethe ihembe elihle elikhutshwe ngeemikhono ezikhutshweyo zivela kwindlu, izamkrazula kwaye zijonge iintombazana. Ukubonakala kubanika umntu iimpawu zengqungquthela yomntu: xa ufika kunye nokucinga ukuba unguThixo, kwaye ke kuvela ukuba le nto ebonakalayo ebomini yangempela yindoda enobuhlungu. Indlela yokusebenzisa inkolelo: ngamava ndiza kuthetha ukuba amadoda afanelekileyo endibasebenze nawo kubonakala ngathi abantu balula, kuba akusiko isiko lokubonisa imali enkulu phakathi kwabantu abaneengqondi. Ewe, umlindi omuhle, ewe, izicathulo ezibizayo, kodwa akukho machismo engaphezulu. Ukuthintela kwaye kulula.
Ndabona u-stylist - musa ukukhawuleza ukudubula amehlo
Indlela yokujonga ngokuchanekileyo indoda efanelekileyo efundeka kwincwadi yam enkululeko "Indlela yokufumana nokutsala indoda ehloniphekileyo."
Inkolelo yesi-2: "Amadoda afanelekileyo anomusa, inceba kunye nemikhwa"
Njengengqungquthela yangaphambili, eli libuye livela kwiTV. Abafazi bayakhohlwa ukuba amadoda aphumelelayo ngabantu abanobugcisa okanye isikhundla esiphakeme, kwaye kule nqanaba akunakwenzeka ukuba benze imali enyanisekileyo ukuba babenomnene kwaye banomusa. Ngendlela yemaski - kunokwenzeka, kodwa bonke abantu abaphumeleleyo babumbene ngobunzima kunye nesimo se-punchy. Ngaphandle koko, musa ukuphila kweli hlabathi lezoshishino. Kubantu abanjalo, ubomi ngumzabalazo oqhubekayo, yingakho kungenakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ngokukhawuleza kwi-wavelike. Indlela yokusebenzisa inkolelo: ukuba usebenzisana nendoda, uvakalelwa kukuba unzima kakhulu, akusikho isizathu sokujonga entsha. Vumela ukuthetha kwakho kuvule.
Ukuba ubukhali, musa ukukhawuleza ukuqhuba. Khangela kakhulu
Iingoma 3: "Amadoda ahloniphekileyo ahlala kwinqanaba elibanzi"
Kwale ngqungquthela, kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo, uthando lwabasetyhini baseRussia ngobomi obunothileyo bubonakala. Kwakhona abezindaba kunye ne-cinema bazisa iziqhamo zabo. Umfanekiso womntu waseRussia onzima ongeyena enamandla ebiza ivenkile yokudlela ukunqwenela i-hazel grouse kwiipinapples, kunye neqela labalindi kunye negumbi le-5 kwigumbi eliphakathi kweMoscow alinakuphumla. Kwaye kutheni umfanekiso onjalo? Bonile ngokwaneleyo, kodwa lo mfanekiso ungamanga. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba kungekudala kwakukho i-90, kwaye abazange bahambe naphi na ininzi yamadoda. Ngoko khumbula:
Umntu ocebileyo, ungeyena umnqweno
Kutheni? Izizathu ezibini:
- Ubutyebi bobuboniso bubushushu obukhulu, kwaye kwilizwe lethu kunokwenzeka ukulahlekelwa yinto yonke kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kunye nomsebenzi onzima.
- Xa ufumana imali ngakumbi, utyalo-mali kwaye utyalo-mali: nokuba ulahle imali kwimali yakho yokuthengisa, okanye kwenye indawo. Imali kufuneka isebenze.
Ndandisoloko ndibona abanye bam abafundi bezakhe amahotele abo, ngoxa bona ngokwabo babehlala kwindawo efanayo kummandla. Indlela yokusebenzisa inkolelo: indoda ngokwemvelo ayidingi i-luxury. Unako ukuhlala kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ushise ishishini lakhe, ngoko ke xa elula kwaye engadli lobster - musa ukukhawuleza ukuyeka.
Iingoma 4: "Amadoda ahloniphekileyo abukeka kuphela kwi-appearance ye-supermodel"
Ukuba ukhangele kanye ngoku kumakhosikazi oligarchs, umbuzo uya kuvalwa. Uninzi oluninzi - abafazi abalungileyo kunye nabasema-supermodels. Khangela, yintoni enye indlela:
Bonke abafanelekileyo, abaphumelelayo nabacebileyo bahlala bekhetha phakathi kwabasetyhini. Ujongene nokunyuka kwengqalelo yabesifazane. Ngexesha elifanayo, akunzima ukuqikelela ukuba phantse onke amantombazana abukeka ngokugqithiseleyo kwisikhwama sale mzekelo, kwaye abanye bazama ukuqonda iibhajethi zabo ngokusemandleni abo-ubunjani bendalo kubasetyhini. Umphumo wecala loqwalaselo lwabesifazane olomeleleyo kula madoda: emva kokutshisa, umntu ujika ngokutshekisha ngokugcwele, kuba uyaqonda ukuba ibhinqa elithandanayo nemali / amathuba yindlela yokungabikho ndawo. Ngendlela, ke xa ndiqeqesha abathengi abacebileyo, enye yeemeko zokuqeqesha ukuzihlukanisa nabalindi kunye nokususa zonke iidragi ezibomvu ezinokuthi zihlawule umsila. Indoda ephumelelayo idinga ukuphefumlelwa, ukunyaniseka, ubufazi kunye nokubonakala, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, unokuyenza.
Ukuba awuyilo mzekelo, kodwa uyayithanda kwaye uyayixhasa - unayo ithuba
Iingoma 5: "Amadoda ahloniphekileyo ahlala kwilizwe lawo elivaliweyo"
Kwinqanaba elinengqiqo, kodwa inkolelo. Ewe, amadoda aphumelelayo athanda induduzo kunye nokulondolozwa kwexesha - ngenxa yolu njongo ukuba iiklasi zoshishino zenziwe kwiindiza kunye neendawo ze-VIP kwiindawo zokudlala, kodwa aba bantu bahlala kwaye abasebenzi kwisixeko esithile esikhethekileyo, kodwa kwindawo efanayo apho yonke into ikhona. Ewe, awuyi kudibana nabo eofisini, okanye kwiklinikhi yesithili, kodwa ukuba ukhangele kwivenkile yokutyela, okanye kwiklinikhi yangasese, unako ukuphakama. Apho inkonzo - ikhona apho. Uluhlu lweendawo zonke apho uya kufumana indoda ehloniphekileyo encwadini ethi "Indlela yokufumana nokutsala umntu ofanelekileyo." Isiphelo:
Amadoda afanelekileyo kufuphi nawe, jonga ngeenxa zonke.
Indlela yokusebenzisa ulwazi ukusuka kwinqaku ebomini: - Musa ukuzithemba ngamabhinqa ngaphandle kokujonga yonke into ekusebenzeni. Ukucinga kufuneka kukuncedise ukufezekisa injongo, kwaye kungekudala.
- Ungesabi ukuba uvuleleke kwihlabathi: ngokukhawuleza xa ucinga malunga nokuba amadoda afanelekileyo ahlala kufuphi, baqala ukufumana indlela
- Ungagxininisi kwimilo, njengomthetho emva kokukhazimula kunye nobuhle obufihlileyo abafihlakeleyo abafuna ukuziqwalasela (nangona kungengabo bonke)
- Akusoloko umntu onobubele onobubele, iindleko zehlabathi ezinzima ziphoqeleka ukuba zihlaziye, kodwa zinyani
- Ukuba umntu uthanda i-borsch kunye ne-buckwheat, oku akuthethi ukuba ungumfundi nje, kwaye akakhanyanga
- Umntu ofanelekileyo unengqiqo kwaye akakhokelela ekubonakaleni. Ewe, kufuneka ulungele, kodwa ukuba awuyiyo imodeli, kodwa ngehlabathi elityebileyo kwaye ukuba awuyidingi imali yakhe, unokufumana ithuba lokuba ngumfazi wakhe
- Kwaye okugqibela: zibe ngokwakho, mncumo kwaye uphuhlise. Umntu ofanelekileyo sele sele esondele kakhulu.
Inhlanhla!
PS Ukuba uyayithanda le nqaku kwaye ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga neengqondo zempumelelo yabantu okanye into ekumele ibe yikho, ukuze umntu opholileyo akumemele ngosuku, funda imiyalelo malunga nokutsala kwincwadi yam ekhululekile "Indlela yokufumana nokutsala umntu ofanelekileyo."
Ukususela encwadini uya kufunda:
- Ziziphi iimpawu zowesifazane ezithandwa ngabantu abaphumelelayo
- Yintoni enokwenziwa ngabantu ukuba baqhelane nawe?
- Funda indlela yokufumana izipho ezibiza
- Uza kufunda indlela yokuqhelana neengcali eziphumelelayo, ukuba baya kuzicingela kuphela
Nqakraza, kwaye ungumfazi onomona! Mthetho! KUKHULULA incwadi Kuze kube lixesha elizayo! Inhlanhla!