Uloyiko lunamandla.
Amadoda kaninzi aziva ekhululekile xa edibana nentombazana enamava olwabelana ngesondo? Akayithandi xa intombi yakhe ibonisa onke amava akhe ezesondo ebhedini. Kukhona ezinye i-phobias zesilisa ezithintelayo. Ezi nkxalabo zivela xa umntu eyika ukulahlekelwa amandla, okanye ukwesaba ukuphula amacandelo enkcubeko. Kwaye umntu uyamoyika umona kunye neemvakalelo zokungabi phantsi.
Ngubani ophethe apha?
Indoda ayiyivuyo kakhulu ukuthetha nentombazana enamava olwabelana ngesondo. Amava akho, kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo - kwiintlobano zesini kunokubonakala njengengozi kwindoda yakhe "ubuchule." Kubonakala ngathi "isixhobo sokuvelisa" esikhulu, kwaye uhola ebhedeni! Wayetyenziselwa ukuba wayehlala ephethe. Kwaye ke kuvela ukuba yena kunye "nompu" wakhe unokutshisa ngokukrakra ngecala, ngenxa yokuba uthelekisa nawe - ungumvuzo kuphela. Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo? Ukuba intombazana enamava ayithandi, kufuneka uyibuyisele amandla namalungelo. Dlala umdlalo "Yintoni inkosi yam enqwenelayo?". Uya kuvuya kuba uyazi indlela yokuphatha umzimba wakhe!
Ngokuchasene nemithetho.
Amava akho olwabelana ngesondo aphikisana neziseko zenkcubeko. Kukholelwa ukuba, ngelixa abatsha abancinci becebisa ubuncwane bobuncwane bokwazi, abantombazana bahlala ngokuzithoba ekhaya kunye neenkiki ezinamaqhina. Kakade ke, ngoku bambalwa kakhulu abantu bafuna ukugcina ubumsulwa ngaphambi komtshato, kodwa kunzulu ngaphantsi kwekribri kukho iindawo ezifanayo. Ngokutsho kwabo, intombazana enamava olwabelana ngesondo ayikwazi "ukuhlonipha". Yintoni ongayenza: cela umntu wakho ukuba abe ngutitshala wakho. Makhe abonise oko akuthandayo kunye noko kungenjalo. Emva koko utshintshe indima: menze azi ukuba unokukuvuyisa njani.
Okugqibela kumgca.
Amava akho kunye nekhono lokulala embhedeni umntu ucinga ukuba abanye baye bamtyelela apha. Yena novoobrazhena nabafundi kunye nabo basebenzisana naye, owamngceba naye. Ukugqithisela kumgca wezintlu zakho zesondo akubi. Wayedla ukucinga ukuba amadoda aphumelela, kunye namantombazana-azinikela ukuba anqobe. Into enokuyenza: umona awuphathwa. Ukuba umntu uqala ukucinga ngabahlobo bakho bokuqala, zama ukumqinisekisa ukuba uyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ebaluleke kakhulu, emangalisayo. Yaye inyaniso yokuba uyintombazana enamava ingcono kubo bobabini. Azange asebenze? Mshiye yodwa ngokucamngca. Indoda eqhelekileyo ayikhweleli ngaphambili.
Khu phiswano.
Umthandana wakho unokwesaba ukuba umthelekisa kunye nabathandekayo bakho bokuqala ... Ukhangele kuye kwaye ucinge: "Nanku uVasya isikhundla sevangeli wasemazweni angcono kakhulu, kwaye uPetros wayengenakulungele kwi-caresses yokuqala. Yintoni oyenzayo? "Yintoni ongayenza: kuba uyintombazana enamava, ukuba uyamncoma, uzuze izakhono zakhe, ukuzonwabisa yonke intshukumo ephumelelayo. Makhe abone ukuba wena, kunye nolwazi lwakho lolwabelana ngesondo, unelisekile kubo! Oku kuya kumnika ithemba.
Indlela ephosakeleyo.
Amava obundlobongela akubandakanyi ekuqokeleleni ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo kwaye kungekhona kwinani labathandi, kodwa ukuba ungakanani kwaye uyaziqonda umzimba wakho nokuthi unako ukumnceda njani. Emva koko, umfazi onamava, ukuba uvelwano lwakhe ngesithunzi, uyisipho somntu. Kwaye kufuneka ujabule ngesipho esinjalo.