Mhlawumbi, phantse wonke umntu ucinga malunga nokuba ngaba baya kuba ngabantu abalungileyo ebomini babo.
Ukubuza imibuzo enjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ungakhohlwa ukuba wonke umntu unemibono eyahlukileyo. Ngoko ke, ngokufana namadoda afanelekileyo, gweba wonke umntu. Kodwa kunjalo, mhlawumbi, kukho impawu ngamnye umntu ofuna ukuyibona kwikhethiweyo.
Ngoko, amadoda afanelekileyo kufuneka abe: ohlakaniphile, omhle, onenkathalo, onobubele, onomdla, oqinileyo, onobuqili, onokuqonda, onoxanduva, onomsebenzi omhle, okhusela kunye nokuningi, ngakumbi. Yaye yintoni abantu abayithandayo?
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabafana, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zonke zihlobo oluhle kuphela. Ngokomzekelo, kukho abantu abatsha ababizwa ngokuba "umphefumlo wenkampani". Bayazi indlela yokonwaba nabani na ukufumana indlela eya kwiintombazana. Akunakuze udideke naloo mfana oselula. Uyazi amabali amawaka kwaye uyazi ukuthetha oku okanye ukuhleka kwexesha. Ukongezelela, ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantu bahle kakhulu. Kwaye nangona loo mntu engakwazi ukubizwa ngokuba mnandi, unesiqhwaba esinjalo kunye nomsindo ongenakukwazi ukumelana nayo. Kodwa abaninzi abafana banolu hlobo banemiphumo yabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubunzima. Abafana abanayo abazi indlela yokuthatha ubomi ngokubalulekileyo. Bayi-femanizer kwaye baphatha abesifazana, nangona bahloniphekile, bengabonakali. Ngomfana omncinci kunzima ukucinga ngobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo. Batshata kakade kwixesha elihloniphekileyo okanye ungatshati nhlobo. Siyabulela ukuba loo mntu ulula kakhulu xa ephakama, uhlala eshiya umsebenzi okanye athathe ikhefu ngeendleko zakhe ukuya kwenye indawo. Ngako oko, intsha, ngokuqhelekileyo, ayinayo imali eyaneleyo nantoni na kwaye ihlala kwimvuzo ukuya kumvuzo, nokuba yindlala okanye i-shikuya. Kula mabhinqa, amantombazana ahlala ephulaphula aze athande nabo. Oku akumangalisi. Umfana uhlala eyazi indlela yokuncoma, ukuvuya, uyazi ukuba nini na ukunikela isandla kunye nalapho ulahlekelwa yintokazi phambili. Ngokuqinisekileyo, loo mntu uyayibamba intombazana kwaye ucinga ukuba uphelele. Kodwa ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, iimigodi zakhe zityhilwa kwaye le ntokazi ididekile. Wonke umfazi udinga ukuzinza nokuziva ukuba unokuthembela kumntu. Kwaye indoda enjalo ayinakubizwa ngokuba yindonga. Kunoko, ujikeleze intsimi, ehamba emoyeni kwaye iqhutyelwa kubantu abahlukeneyo. Ngomntu onjalo unokuba ngabahlobo abagqibeleleyo kwaye uzonwabisa. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukutshata naye, ngoko, mhlawumbi, udidekile. Ngaloo ndlela, eli candelo labantu abatsha ukuya kwindawo engenakukwazi ukuxelwa.
Kwaye kukho, umzekelo, olunye uhlobo lwabafana. Ngokungafani nabantu abonwabileyo kunye namajokwazi awaziyo ukunqoba uthando kunye nokunyamekela kwabo bonke abantu, ezi zihlandlo zihlala zithe cwaka kwaye zithandi iinkampani ezinkulu. Ekuqalekeni, kunokubonakala ngathi loo mntu uyamthiya umhlaba wonke kwaye uyazihlambalaza. Loo mfana ululaza ukubonisa abantu, kuba uhlala ethetha izinto ezingaqhelekanga kwaye uzama ukubonisa iimpawu zakhe ezimbi. Ewe, kwaye kubonakala ngathi, akunakwenzeka kakhulu. Ngoko ke, amaninzi amantombazana atsala ukubethela umnqamlezo kuloluhlu lwabantu abaselula kwaye abazami ukuqonda ukuba ngubani ngokwenene. Kodwa ukuba ubani ufuna ukubona uhlobo luni lomntu ongaqhelekanga, ngoko uya kumangaliswa. Abantu abanjalo abancinci, ngokwenene, banentlonelo kwaye banengxaki. Ukuziphatha okunjalo okunyanyekayo yi-mask yabo, impendulo yokukhusela kubantu abanengxaki. Yingakho abaninzi abantu bengayithandi. Abo baziyo loo mfana banokuthi bathemba ukuba unomusa, unomnene kwaye unomdla. Umfana onjalo ufuna into ethandekayo ukuba athole iinkwenkwezi ezivela esibhakabhakeni aze abhale izibongo. Ufuna nje ukuba uqiniseke ukuba le ntombazana ayiyi kuhleka ngeemvakalelo zakhe. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uyathandwa, uya kuguqa intombi yakhe entliziyweni yakhe kwaye enze konke ukuze amenze avuyiswe.
Kwaye kukho olunye udidi. Iquka abo bafana abangazange baphathe izandla zabo. Ngaba kufuneke kakhulu. Ngokungaqhelekanga bathetha ngothando nangemvakalelo. Kuloo mfana oselula kunzima ukulinda uthando. Akayi kuzisa ikhofi ukulala kwaye anike amaxesha. Kodwa nguye ohlala ephazamisayo ukuba ube neengubo ezifudumeleyo, ukutya okulungileyo kunye nophahla olufanelekileyo phezu kwentloko yakho. Amadoda anjalo akakwazi kwaye akwazi ukuthetha ngothando. Ngokuvakalayo akukho nto i-chivalry kuyo. Kodwa bavakalisa iimvakalelo zabo ngezenzo, bekunika ubomi obumnandi noxolo.
Kukho namadoda aziphatha ngokuzithandana, aze afumane ubomi, kodwa ayenzi ngokwenene. Basabela kwinto yonke ngokuzithoba, balinganise ngokuphindaphindiweyo iingcamango kunye nesigqibo, ningalokothi nigijime naphi na kwaye ningaphenduli ngokumemeza. Ngomntu onjalo kunzima ukuqonda oko akucingayo nendlela ahambelana ngayo nale meko.
Kwaye kukho abantu abafihlakeleyo ngokungazi nto nantoni na, nokuba uhlala nendoda emininzi iminyaka emininzi. Zibonisa iimvakalelo, kodwa azivuli okanye zihlambele umphefumlo kunoma ubani. Ba nelizwe labo, apho bahle nabo. Kukho amadoda angenasiphelo akulungele ukukunika igolide kunye neadayimane, kodwa baya kuhamba ngeTekhthi elula, kwaye awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na.
Ngoko, njengoko ubonayo, zonke iindidi zineenkcaso. Ngoko ke, ukuba ukhangele indoda efanelekileyo ngokwenene, yima uze ukhangele kuwe. Ekufuphi, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho umntu oza kuthanda naye, kwaye kunye nobunikazi bakhe uya kuxolelana. Kwaye xa oko kwenzeka, kuya kuphelela.