Umsebenzi ophezulu wabazali kukuqinisekisa ubomi obonwabileyo kubantwana babo kwaye bakhulise bephilile kwaye bavuya. Ukwenza oku, kukho imigaqo emininzi yokhuseleko lokuphila, okufuneka ifundise abantwana ukususela ebuntwaneni. Enye yemithetho ebalulekileyo ebomini, ekufuneka imfundise umntwana omncinci, imigaqo yokuziphatha ezindleleni. Kodwa abazali abaninzi abanamathele kakhulu kulo mgaqo. Ngoko ke, ukuphulwa kwemithetho yendlela, ixhamla inani elikhulu labantwana, apho impilo yabo kunye nokuphila kwabo kuxhomekeke.
Abazali baselula kakhulu banokucinga ukuba abayidingi le nkcazelo kunye nokukhuselwa kwabantwana endleleni eyazo. Kodwa, njengokuba uyazi, ixesha libaleka ngokukhawuleza, awunaso ixesha lokujonga emva, njengoko umntwana wakho eqala ukuya esikolweni eyedwa. Emva koko uya kuqonda ukuba kunceda ntoni ukuba azi imithetho yokuziphatha yabantwana endleleni.
Ngokwezibalo, inani elikhulu lezengozi ngenxa yezengozi zendlela zendlela ezibandakanya abantwana nazo zenzeke kwiibane zakhiwo zendawo yokuhlala. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abadala kufuneka bahlale bebeka iliso abantwana ukuze baqaphele indlela.
Kulungile kungekudala kamva
Kucetyiswa ukuba, xa umntwana wakho sele esele agijime, kuquka nesitalato, ukuze azi indlela yokuziphatha endleleni. Akudingeki ukuba ufunde ngokusemthethweni imigaqo yendlela kunye nomntwana kwaye ubenzela ukuba bafunde ngentliziyo, kufuneka ufundise kuye imigaqo engundoqo yemigaqo yokuziphatha okukhuselekileyo endleleni. Qala ukuthetha nomntwana ngokukhuseleko kwindlela ngelixa esesesikhaleni.
Umphezulu-phezulu, umntwana onqabileyo
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufundisa umntwana, kuya kuba kuhle ukuzigcina wena. Ukuba uxelele umntwana ixesha elide ukuba ufuna ukuwela umgwaqo kuphela ekuhambeni kwabahamba ngezinyawo kwaye uhlala ukhanya ngokuluhlaza kwendlela yokuhamba kwendlela, kwaye uyayidlula ngaphaya komgwaqo, uye ekukhanyeni okubomvu okanye ngokugqithiseleyo - kwindawo engafanelekanga, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kwenza njalo fanayo nawe.
Ngoxa ufunda imigaqo yokuziphatha ezindleleni, zama ukubandakanya umntwana kule nkqubo, ukuyiguqulela kwimidlalo enomdla. Abantwana abaselula bathanda izibane zendlela, banomtsalane ngokutshintsha ukukhanya okukhanyayo. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, baya kufumanisa ukuba yintoni kwaye kutheni kuyadingeka. Le mibuzo ingaba sisizathu esihle kakhulu sokuqala ukufunda imigaqo yendlela yokuguquka kwendlela kunye nemibala engundoqo yombane wendlela.
Abantwana babona indlela ngendlela eyahlukileyo!
Abantwana abancinci bayayiqonda indlela kunye nezithuthi zihamba ngendlela ehlukileyo kunabantu abadala. Siza kukunika ingqalelo iinkalo eziphambili zengqondo yengqondo yabantwana.
Iliso labantwana
Abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala, ngokusemgangathweni, kufuneka bahlule phakathi kweemoto ezimileyo ukusuka kwimoto ehamba endleleni. Kodwa umntwana akakwazi ukuvavanya ingozi ebangelwa yimoto ehamba ngokulandelelanisa ngenxa yezinto ezikhethileyo zengqondo yakhe yobudala. Akakwazi ukucacisa ukuba yintoni umgama osuka kuyo, ingakumbi kwisantya esihamba ngayo. Kwaye ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuyeka ngokukhawuleza, umntwana, mhlawumbi, akwazi. Kwiingcinga phantse bonke abantwana abaselula, imoto yangempela inxulumene nemoto yokudlala, inokumisa nanini na.
Imithombo yesandi
Ukuncediswa kwenyango lomntwana kwisakhiwo kwakhona kuneempawu zayo. Kuze kube yiminyaka emithandathu ngenxa yale miba, abantwana abahluki kakuhle ukusuka kulophi na icala nasiphi na isandi esivakalayo, kubandakanywa izandi zithuthi ehambayo endleleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana akanakufumana indlela yakhe apho isandi saloo moto esondela.
Ingqwalasela yabantwana
Ngenxa yeempawu ezithile zeminyaka yengqondo yengqondo yabantwana, kubantwana abancinci, ingqwalasela iyayikhetha. Umntwana omncinci akakwazi ukugxila kwizinto eziliqela eziwela kwintsimi yakhe yombono, ngaphezu kwemizuzwana 2-3. Unyusela kulo mfanekiso into ethile, apho yonke ingqalelo yakhe ichazwe. Into, into eyenziwa ngumntwana ngesikhashana, inomdla kuye, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo akayi kubona yonke into. Ingaba ibhola elaligqityiweyo kwindlela kwaye umntwana ehamba emva kwayo, mhlawumbi, akayi kuqaphela imoto ezayo.
Inkqubo yokuvimbela isistim se-nervous
Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka elishumi abazange bahlakulele ngokupheleleyo inkqubo ye-nervous system, ngenxa yoko ukuphendula kwabo kwiimeko eziyingozi akufani na badala. Ngokwezibalo, abantwana aba-9 kwabantwana aba-10, abawela ngaphahla, baya kubanda ngeqhwaba kwaye baya kugcina amehlo abo ngezandla zabo xa bebona imoto phambi kwabo. Ngobuchopho babo, uhlobo oluthile oluphawu lwabo bonke abantwana luya kusebenza ngokukhawuleza -kuba kungekho nengozi, akukho nto, kwaye yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Yiyo kanye eyenzekayo kwi-2/3 yeengozi zendlela ezithinta abantwana.
Impawu yombono weintsana
Bonke abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ukuya kwe-8 ubudala banomfanekiso "we-tunnel". Oku kuthetha ukuba abanalo nawuphi na umbono wombono, ngoko ke, umntwana ubona kuphela oko ngqo phambi kwakhe. Ngoko ke, umntwana uyakubona kuphela imoto ehamba phambili, kwaye izithuthi ezidlulayo kwicala, akayi kubona.
Ngokumalunga nalolu hlobo, umntwana kufuneka awazi umgaqo wegolide wendlela - ngaphambi kokuwela umgwaqo kufuneka uqale ukhangele kumacala, ngakwesobunxele, uze uye ngasekunene. Kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntwana engayazi lo mgaqo, ngoko unokudala imeko engxamisekileyo kwindlela. Xa ufundisa imithetho yokhuseleko yabantwana ezindleleni, kuyimfuneko ukuba uyiqwalasele yonke le mpawu yomzimba womntwana.
Uvavanyo lokungabikho kwingozi
Kubantwana abancinci, kusekhona into enjalo - yonke into enkulu, inkulu-khulu ivakalelwa. Umntwana uphendula ngobungakanani bemoto, kodwa isantya apho le moto ihamba khona, ayikhathazi nhlobo. Kubonakala kwinkomo ukuba iloli enkulu ehamba ngokukhawuleza yingozi ngakumbi kunokuba imoto yeenqwelo ezihamba ngejubane elikhulu. Ngaloo ngqondweni, kufuneka uhlale unika ingqwalasela yomntwana kwingcaciso echanekileyo yengozi.
Ukukhula okuphantsi kwamaqabunga
Ukukhula okuncinci kwimeko yengxaki xa umntwana ewela indlela. Kwinqanaba lokuhlaziywa, ngokukhula kwalo, umntwana ubona indlela eyahlukileyo kunabantu abadala. Ngoko ke, akakwazi ukuhlola imeko yangempela endleleni, ingakumbi ukuba uphando luvale iimoto ezipakiweyo ngasecaleni kwendlela yokuhamba. Kwabaqhubi le nto ingxaki, kuba kunzima ukuba baqaphele abahambahambayo abancinci, ngokukodwa abaqhubi beloli.
Bazali! Kufuneka, ngokwemizekelo yakho, ubonise abantwana ukuba bawugcine njani imithetho yendlela. Fundisa abantwana ukuziphatha okukhuselekileyo ezindleleni. Kwimoto, ukuthutha abantwana abancinci kwi-auto-chair-chair, ehambelana nobudala bomntwana. Ngoko ke ngoncedo lwakho ukhuseleko lwabantwana bakho luya kuqinisekiswa.