Iimpawu zengqondo zezingane zasesikolweni

Iminyaka yokufunda esikolweni isithuba apho umntwana efunda ihlabathi elizungezile. Abantwana besikolo basesikolweni banemisebenzi yabo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Ukuqala ukuhamba, umntwana wenza izinto ezininzi zokufumanisa, uyazi malunga nezinto ezisendlini, esitalatini, kwi-kindergarten. Ukuthatha izinto ezahlukeneyo, ukuvavanya, ukuphulaphula izandi ezivela kwisifundo, uyazi iimpawu kunye nepropati le nto inayo. Ngeli thuba, umntwana uveliswa ukubonakalisa okubonakalayo-okufuziselayo nokubonakalayo.

Kwiminyaka emi-5-6 ubudala ubudala, umntwana, njengeponji, uyithatha yonke ingcaciso. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabonisa ukuba kule minyaka yobudala umntwana uya kukhumbuza ulwazi oluninzi, kungekudala angayi kuze akhumbule ebomini. Eli lixesha apho umntwana unomdla kuyo yonke into engakwazi ukwandisa ii-horizons zakhe kwaye oku kunceda ihlabathi elikujikelezile.

I smotional sphere

Ngokuqhelekileyo, iminyaka yobudala yokufundela ibonakaliswa yimvakalelo yokuzola. Abanalo ukungquzulana kunye neziqhamo ezinamandla ngenxa yezizathu ezincinci. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ukuzaliswa kwengqondo yomntwana kuya kuncipha. Emva kwakho konke, usuku lokufunda esikolweni luzaliswa yimvakalelo eninzi kangangokuba ngokuhlwa umntwana ukhathele aze eze ekuphelelweni.

Ngeli xesha, isakhiwo seenkqubo zemoya zitshintsha. Ngaphambili, iimpembelelo zeemoto kunye nezityalo zifakwe kwiinkqubo zengqondo, ezigcinwa kwizingane zasesikolweni, kodwa ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwemvakalelo kufumana ifom ekhunjelwe. Umfundi oqala ukufunda isiqalo uqala ukulila kwaye akavuyi nje kuphela kumsebenzi awenzayo ngoku, kodwa nakwinto aza kuyenza kwixesha elizayo.

Yonke into eyenziwa ngumfundi wesikolo esikolweni-idonsa, idlala, ibumba, iyakha, inceda unina, ukwenza imisebenzi yasemakhaya - kufuneka ibe nombala obalaseleyo wombala, ngaphandle koko izinto ziza kuphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza okanye zingenzeki nhlobo. Oku kungenxa yokuba umntwana kule minyaka akakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ongathandeki kuye.

Intshukumo yokukhuthaza

Ukuthotyelwa kweenjongo kuthathwa njengendlela ebaluleke kakhulu, eyakhiwa ngeli xesha. Iminyaka yobudala yeso sikolo lixesha apho ukuthotyelwa kweenjongo ziqala ukuzibonakalisa, oko kuyaqhubeka nokukhula ngokuqhubekayo. Ukuba umntwana wayenomnqweno emininzi, ngoko kuye kwakungekho imeko engabikhoyo (kwakunzima kuye ukuba anqume ukukhetha). Ngokuhamba kwexesha, isikolo sokufunda esikolweni sifumana ukubaluleka okuhlukeneyo kunye namandla kwaye sinokwenza isigqibo ngokukhetha ngokhetho. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, umntwana uya kufunda ukuphazamisa iinjongo zakhe kwaye akayi kusabela kwizinto ezilingayo, kuba uya kuba neenjongo ezinamandla eziza kubakho "njengophawulo."

Ngomntwana wesikolo, isisiseko esinamandla kunomvuzo, isikhuthazo. Isisusa esibuthakathaka sisijeziso, kodwa isithembiso somntwana ngokuqhelekileyo sisisusa esichukumisayo. Akunamsebenzi kubantwana ukuba bafune izithembiso, kwaye kunobungozi, kuba abantwana abafezekisi izithembiso zabo kwinani lamatyala, kwaye izibhambathiso ezininzi ezingagcwaliseki kunye nokuqinisekiswa kukudala ukungakhathali kunye nokungagunyaziswanga kumntwana. Obuthathaka kakhulu kukuthintela ngokuthe ngqo ukwenza nantoni na, ingakumbi ukuba ukuvinjelwa akuqinisekisiwe ngeenjongo ezongezelelweyo.

Umntwana ngeli xesha uhambelana nemigangatho yokuziphatha eyamkelekileyo kuluntu, ufunda ukuvavanya izenzo, ukuqwalasela imimiselo yokuziphatha, ukuziphatha kwabo kulungelelaniswa nale miqathango. Umntwana unamava okuziphatha. Okokuqala, umntwana uvavanya izenzo zabanye abantu, umzekelo, amaqhawe okubhala okanye abanye abantwana, kuba izenzo zabo azikwazi ukuvavanywa.

Kulo nyaka, isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo sisimo sengqondo esicatshulwayo sokufunda esikolweni kwabanye nakwabo. Abantwana basesikolweni basoloko begxeka ukungaphumeleli kwabo, ontanga banikwa iimpawu zabo, baqaphele ubudlelwane phakathi komntwana kunye nomdala, kunye naphakathi komdala kunye nomdala. Nangona kunjalo, abazali banomzekelo kubantwana. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukuba abazali babeke ulwazi oluhle kumntwana, nokuba luyimfihlo okanye ulwazi lwengqondo, akufanele lubangele ukwesaba, ukuxhalaba okanye ukuthuka kumntwana.

Xa umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka engama-6-7 ubudala, uqala ukukhumbula ngokwakhe ngaphambili, ukuqonda okwangoku, ukumela kwixesha elizayo.