Kule minyaka, amantombazana avunyelwe kakhulu, kwaye ngokuzimeleyo ukuze baqhelane nabafana besitratweni. Madoda othakazelisayo, ungesabi ukuhamba kuqala, kodwa qaphela, ungenzi nto leyo, mhlawumbi uya kumnkwantya. Unokwazi ukuphi na. Apha kwisitolo, umzekelo, cela icebiso lakhe, xa ucinga ukuba ukhethe isipho kumntu oyithandayo okanye ifowuni entsha. Abafana bathanda ukubonisa ukuphakama kwabo, ngoko akukho namnye kubo ongenakukwazi ukunceda intombazana entle.
Kwaye kwimvula, ungazifihla phantsi kwe-ambulera uze uthi ngelizwi elimnandi: "Ndicela uxolo lwakho, ndilibale i-ambulera ekhaya, into endiyidlalayo - andiyivuyo!" Kwaye lo mfana uya kuziphatha njengesikhulu kwaye akuzise kwindawo eyimfuneko, kwaye ekugqibeleni uhamba uya kuthatha inombolo yefowuni yakho.
Imfihlelo yokukhohlisa inombini yesibini.
Ndiyakuvuyela, uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala ekukhohliseni umntu. Kodwa oku akukho konke. Kubalulekile ukwenza njalo ukuze uhlale uhlala ecinga iingcamango zakhe, ukuba ube yinto yokudumisa. Ngexesha elifanayo, khumbula ukuba abafana bathanda ukuzinqoba, bahlala neenkwenkwezi eziphakathi.
"Ngoku ke kufuneka uyenze ntoni na?" - uyabuza. Kulula kakhulu, kufuneka nje ukuvumela loo mntu ukuba anqobe. Mbonise ukuba unobuthakathaka kangakanani, makangathi uzive njengendoda yangempela. Ikhompyutheni yakho ayisebenzi, awukwazi ukufumana i-headset efanelekileyo kwifowuni, awukwazi ukugqiba ekukhethweni kwemoto, kwaye mhlawumbi unayo into enokuyifuna kakhulu ngoku ngoku. Uyabona, isizathu sokuba athathe inombolo yakhe yefowuni ayinzima kakhulu ukuyifumana!
Imfihlelo yokukhohlisa inomboro yesithathu.
Amadoda athande amehlo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ukhangeleke uphelele. Akukho mfana onokuyithanda ukuba kukho intombazana engaphephile. Ukongezelela, imbonakalo yakho kufuneka ibe yintlonelo, kodwa ingabonakali. Isikhiti esifutshane, iqhosha elingenakunqatshulwa kwi-blouse, ijee eziqinileyo - kule meko zonke iindlela zilungile.
Imfihlelo yokukhohlisa inombhobane.
Kwaye ngoku makumxelele ukuba wena, mnandi kwaye uyamangalisa, mhlawumbi uzame enye enye indoda. Buza icebiso, bathi bayathandana. Ngubani? Akukho msebenzi wakhe! Makhe ahlupheke.
Apha, mhlawumbi, kunye nakho konke onokukwenza kwisigaba sokuqala sokukhohlisa. Okulandelayo - ukuhamba kwakhe. Ukuba umntu akaze asebenze ngokumemezela ngothando, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoko unako. Myeke ngokuthula. Yaye ukuba uthe wawa thandana nawe kwaye uhlala kunye, ke ungagcini, kufuneka udibanise umfana nsuku zonke. Nazi iimfihlakalo zokugqibela emva kwakho.
1. Ungamvumeli umfana ahlale entanyeni yakho, ungakhethi "ewe" kuye. Qhubeka uqhubeka udlala ngothando.
2. Bukela iphunga lakho. Ufanele uhombe olungileyo. Musa ukunyamekela imimoya eneepheromones.
3. Hlala wena. Ukuba umntu wenza okuthandayo, mkhuthaze.
4. Musa ukuba ngumhlobo kunye namantombazana anhle kunawe.
5. Abahlobo banenkohliso, qaphela.
6. Akukho buhlobo phakathi kwendoda nentombazana. Iphelisa ngothando olungenanto, okanye ngemfazwe.
7. Yiba nesithakazelo kulokho akuthandayo, ngoko uya kuba nento yokuthetha ngayo.
8. Gqoka izithende eziphakamileyo, kwaye i-gait yakho iya kuba yindawo eninzi.
9. Funda ukuphulaphula. Makhe akhulume.
10. Musa ukwesaba ukubonakala uyisilumko, abantu bathanda ukuba bantle ngaphezu kwamantombazana.
11. Ngaphandle kweemeko kwaye akukho phantsi kweemeko kufuneka umnike isizathu sokucinga ukuba ufuna ukutshata naye, okanye ukuba unomdla kwimali yakhe kuphela.
Ewe, kunzima ukuvumelanisa zonke iimfihlelo zokukhohlisa abantu kwinqaku elilodwa, kuba lubugcisa bonke. Kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba emva kokufunda oku, unokwazi ukunqoba umfana oyithandayo. Inhlanhla kuwe, amantombazana abathandekayo. Khumbula ukuba izidalwa ezihle kakhulu kwihlabathi lonke.