Umthendeleko weeSense
Abazali abaninzi bathi xa bebona ibhedi, abo babancinci baqala ukuvuya nangaphambi kokuba bafumane umlambo wokuqala wamanzi. Ngendlela, injabulo yokuba abantu abadala kunye nabancinci banokufumana kwiinkqubo zamanzi, iingqondo zengqondo zidibanisa ngqo kunye neenkumbulo zomzimba wethu malunga ne-amniotic fluid.
Masithethe?
Umnqweno wokunxibelelana ubonakala kumntwana kakhulu kunokuba uqale ukuthetha. Kwaye ukuqala ukumomotheka uyaphendula kwinto eyenzekayo. Kuyaziwa ukuba ngexesha lokulala emlonyeni weintsana ezithandwayo zivame ukubonakala "ukukrazwa kweengelosi". Kwaye nangona le nto ibonakala ngenxa yobungqina benyama, oomama bahlala bebonwa njengobonakaliso bokwenene boluvuyo. Kodwa ezi zinto zokuqala, ukuzumkraza okungafaniyo ukuya kuluphi na ukuthelekiswa kunye nokuhleka okukrakrayo, kamva kamva kusivuyela iiveki ezimbalwa umntwana okhulile. Ukuhleka akusiyo kuphela isipho esixhasayo kulabo ekubhekiswe kuzo, kodwa kunye neshukumisayo esihle sokuphuhlisa umntwana. Ukuhleka kuzalwa ngokuhleka. Ukuzonwabisa kuyafuneka. Umntwana njengesiponji uthatha iimvakalelo zethu: indlela eya kuhleka ngayo (nokuba ingaba kukho konke), kuxhomekeke kakhulu kummandla kamama - ukuzola okanye ukuxhalabisa. Ukuhleka kwezingane kuzalwa ngaphandle kwemfuneko yokunxibelelana nabathandekayo, kwaye uncedisa umntwana ukuba ajoyine iqela labangane bakhe. Abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu baqondana kakuhle. Le yindlela yabo yokuzihlula kwihlabathi labantu abadala. Ukuhleka kwabo ngokuqhelekileyo ngumqondiso wokuba ngumntu weqela laontanga, indlela yokuqala yokuphuma kwintantathu "nguTata, mama,".
Ukuzalwa kwamahlazi
Ngomdla wokuziphulaphula ukungavunyelwanga, abantwana bayaziqhelanisa kwangaphambili, nangaphambi kokuba baye kwi-nursergarten. Ngako-ke, i-prankster, oneminyaka engama-1000 ubudala ubudala, uyayidonsa amanzi ase-soapy ebhodini emlonyeni wakhe ukuba afefe umntakwabo, ezintlanu uya kudala amagama ahlekisayo kodwa angabi "ngamazwi apolitiki" kwaye ngonyaka uya ukuhleka, ukufumana efini ukufana, uthi, kunye neendlovu. Kwaye akunjalo ngethuba lokuba "amaqhinga" amaconco malunga ne "pi-pi" kunye ne "ka-ka" ibonakala kwiingxoxo zabantwana kanye emva kokuba idiapers zokugqibela ziphonswe ngaphandle kwaye izikhalazo zayeka ukungcola. Zonke ezi zigugu zicaca ngokucacileyo: "Sabantu sele sabantu abadala kwaye sikwazi ukuhleka ngesidalwa esingenalulinganiso nesingenasiphelo esasikhona!"
Konke ngohlobo!
Unyaka wokuqala:
Umzimba wakhe unika intshontsho eninzi into enomdla, okubangela ukumamotheka ekuqaleni (ekupheleni kweminyaka e-ezisibhozo) kunye nokuhleka (iinyanga ezintathu). Uyakuvuyela i-caresses, i-tickling elula, izandi ezimnandi, amazwi aqhelekileyo kunye nokujonga ...
Unyaka we sibini:
Xa uneminyaka yobudala ubudala, ukoma kwintengiso kukhula, njengoko umnqweno wokuphuhlisa izithuba ezintsha. Inani lezinto ezithandekayo zanda njengoko inkululeko yokunyuka iyanda: khumbula ukuhleka okunqabileyo, okubonisa isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana! Unandipha yonke into ehambayo, nokuba iyinqwelo ehambahambayo okanye inzala evela entabeni yabantwana. Kwaye kukuhle ukuphula indlu yakho eyakhiwe ngamadayisi!
Unyaka wesithathu:
Kule nqanaba, zonke iintlobo zokuhleka ezichazwe ngenhla zidibanisa enye. Ukubamba, ukufihla, ukukhahlela, ukudlala indiza-konke kukupholile. Njengoko intetho ikhula, ukuhleka kudlulela ngaphaya kwemizwelo kwaye ibe "ngengqiqo". Ukuhleka kwiinkampani zontanga kaninzi kuvumela ukuba benze ubuhlobo - oko abantwana abangenako ukukwenza ngokudibanisa incoko.
Unyaka wesine nangaphezulu:
Amagama aphosakeleyo kunye "nokugcoba" uphumelele kakhulu kubaphulaphuli babantwana - ngaphandle kokuba bavakaliswa ngabantwana ngokwabo. Ukuba "amagama amabi" athetha ngabantu abadala, abantwana bayothuka. Emva kwakho konke, kulungile ukuphula kuphela loo mithetho egcinwa yiyo yonke into ... Ukuqala ukuziva ehlekisayo ngamazwi nangengcamango, abantwana bafunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba babone iinqununu kwiincwadi, iimifanekiso.
Ewe, siya kudlala?
Ngonyaka unokumxhaphaza umntwana, umbonise ukuziphatha okungavamile. Bonisa ukuba uya kudla ngokuphakamisa i-spoon endlebeni yakho, okanye ufake ikhutshana lesana ekhanda lakho okanye kwiibhothi ezandleni zakho. Yenza sengathi uloyiko, umzekelo, ibhola lokuqhayisa - ehlekisayo, edlala, ngegama elitshintshileyo, esithi: "Oo, ndoyike, soyika!" Zenze sengathi ufuna ukusela iplaji kwibhotile yengane. Unokubeka iipulo okanye amathoyizi athambileyo kwisisu somntwana kwaye uwatshintshele kwamanye amagumbi. Yenza ubuchule: nayiphi na isenzo, engavumelekanga umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, kunokumenza ahleke.
Olunye ilizwi
Shintsha ilizwi lakho kwaye uthethe ngeetyshi ezahlukeneyo. Bonisa iimvumba umdlalo omncinane ngezilwanyana ezincinci, okuthi, umzekelo, udlala ukudlala. Nika ithoyizi enye kwintsana, makhe azame ukuyibalekela kumdlalo wakho, uyifihle kwaye uyiphakamise. Ungatshintsha ilizwi lakho ngexesha phantse nayiphi na umdlalo. Unokuzama ukuthetha ngepayipi (iphephandaba eliphangelwe) okanye uhlobo oluthile lwesitya. Cetyisa ukuba inkunzi yebhodi iphinde iqhube kumbhobho.
Ukukhawula
Ukhetho lokuphumelela. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ulindele ukubizwa ngaphambi kokuba uthinte umzimba wakhe. Usuvele ehleka kwaye ewela ekuhlekeleni. Phakamisa isikhombiso sokukhawulisa umtshini wokudlala. Tshela umntwana: "Thepha umlenze kwibhere!" - kwaye ubonise umlenze webhere; Tyikitye ibhere le-teddy's belly! "- njll. Xa umntwana eqala ukukhahlela ibhere, gubha ithoyilo, ngokungathi uyamhleka, kwaye uhleka ngokukhawuleza. Emva kokuba umdlalo ngamnye wokudlala ukhawuleze umntwana wamkele enye indawo - inoliseko inokuqinisekiswa.
Emva kweminyaka emithathu
Jonga umbhobho
Lo mdlalo uququzelela ukuhambelana nokunyakaza kunye nokusetyenziswa kolwaphulo lokuthetha, kodwa oku akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu injongo yayo. Lona umdlalo wehlaya, umdlalo wokudlala. Abantwana baqonda ngokukhawuleza imithetho yayo kwaye ngokwabo babonisa le ntlonelo kwabanye. Zibambe ngokukhawuleza entloko kwaye ngelo xesha unamathele ulwimi lwakho. Ngoku zitshintshe emva kwendlebe yekhohlo kwaye ngokukhawuleza uthathe ulwimi ngasekhohlo, uze uphinde uqhubekele ekunene. Ekupheleni kokugxila, khawula intamo yakho kwaye ususe ngokukhawuleza ulwimi. Ngaba ucinga ukuba umntu omdala akazibandakanyi ngokukodwa kwizinto ezinjalo? Uphosakele: ukuhleka yinto ebalulekileyo kwaye ibalulekileyo. Unako, ukugubungela ubuso bakho ngezandla zakho, ngexesha ngalinye utshintshe ngokukrakra intetho yolonwabo kubuhlungu nokubuyela kwakhona. Ngoku makhe afune abantwana.
Akunqatshelwe ukuhleka!
Ukudlala abantwana (kakuhle, ukuba uququzelele abathathu okanye abantu abane - ngaba ngabahlobo bomntwana, abazalwana bakhe nodadewabo abadala) kufuneka baphinde baphinde bathi "mna" kwaye musa ukuhleka. Ngubani wabantwana abangenakubeka umyalelo wokuqala wokuvalwa, kufuneka ungeze igama elithi "mna" igama okanye igama lakhe kuphela. Bonke abanye abantwana baqhubeka bephinda ngokuphindaphinda kuphela "I". Impazamo elandelayo yongezwa igama elitsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, musa ukuhleka kulo mdlalo akunakwenzeka! Smeshinka kwaye iwela emlonyeni ngamnye kumdlali ngamnye.
Umdlalo ngezithunzi
Udinga ukudlala ngosuku olushushu. Umsebenzi ukuza phezu kwesithunzi seentshaba. Ungazama ukufihla isithunzi sakho ezintlangeni, kodwa uzama ukunqoba ukunqoba kokuqala. Emva komdlalo, unako ukujikeleza izithunzi ngezitshixo. Makhe umntwana eme endaweni ehlekisayo, kwaye uzama ukuza kunye nesimo esimnandi ngakumbi somzimba. Dory izithunzi ezisehlotsheni ze-asphalt kunye neepusi, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu - ukumamatheka!