Ekufikeni kwentsha, xa ixesha lifika lothando lokuqala, abafana kunye namantombazana athatyathwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba banombono ohluke ngokupheleleyo wendlela abathandayo kufuneka bachithe ngayo ixesha labo. Le nsizwa iqinisekile ukuba umsebenzi wabo oyintloko kukuseka ubomi obusondeleyo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka ukuba banelisekile kwisini. Le ntombazana icinga ukuba into enhle kakhulu ekuhambeni kwempilo iyahamba phantsi kwenyanga, ingxoxo edelele kwifowuni kunye nokuqabana okukhawulezayo. Nangona uluthando lokwenene lweqhawe lakhe, akakho konke, njengoko bathi, "hamba phambili." Oku kubangelwa kukuba ukuba umnqweno wobudlelwane ngokwesondo emzimbeni womntu udibana ne-hormone testosterone. Iveliswa kokubili kwintombi kunye nomzimba wesilisa, kodwa isixa saso sincike kwiminyaka yomntu. Kwabafana abaseneminyaka engama-16 ukuya kwe-20 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-19, isiqhwithi somoya esiqhelanisiweyo, sinamandla abo bahlala becinga ngayo ngesondo. Kwaye kaninzi abakhathaleli ngomgangatho walo, into eyona nto yiyo ngokwayo.
Kwaye kwinqanaba lomfazi ngeli xesha, umveliso we-testosterone awunzima kakhulu kwaye ukhula ngokuthe ngcembe, ngoko uvakalelo luhlala, kwaye loo ntokazi ihlala ivumelana ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane bezocansi, ivumelane kuphela neenqweno zomthandi, kwaye ayisoloko iyaneliseka ngokwesini.
Xa uneminyaka engama-25, umzimba wesilisa udla ngokufikelela kwisiqhamo se-hormonal, esiye sabanjwa iminyaka engama-10. Intombazana yonke le nto iqhubeka ikwandisa umveliso we-testosterone kunye nokwenziwa kwesini. Ngako-ke kwiminyaka engama-28 ukuya kwe-2 ukuya ku-2 kubuninzi beembambano ezinxulumene ngokwesondo, kusetyenziswe ukuba, ngokokuba umgca we-femtosterone kunye nomgca wehla wesilisa unqatshelwe. Indoda eyasinda kwixesha leemvunguvungu ze-hormonal eyamgxotha ukuba ifune ukubonakala kwintsha kunye nokuvakalelwa kuya kuba nokuzola kunye nokuzimela, isetyenziselwa ubuhlobo obude kunye nomlingane omnye. Intombazana ivusa ubunono, kwaye iqala ukuzonwabisa ubudlelwane bezesondo - malunga ne-20% yesini esilungileyo emva kokuba uqale u-orgasm.
Kwixesha elizayo, imigca ye "testosterone cross" idibanisa, kuba emva kweminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwe-35 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwe-5, ukuveliswa kwe-testosterone kwindoda ewela ngokukhawuleza malunga ne-1% ngonyaka (ezinye izinto ziyakwazi ukukhawuleza le nkqubo, umzekelo, ngokunyameka, "izinga lokunciphisa" lingafikelela kwi-10%). Kwimeko yobomi bomntu, ubulili buyeka ukudlala indima ebalulekileyo ngaphambili. Okwangoku, amantombazana yonke indlela ejikeleze: lonke eli xesha uphuhliso lwe testosterone kumzimba wesetyhini lukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye lufikelele kwinani lalo-40 ubudala. Ubundlobongela bubalulekile kuye, kodwa oontanga bakhe abanakufumana uncedo olunjalo, olufana nolwakhe ebusheni bakhe, ngoku lufuna ukufudumala kunokuba amava amnandi.
Kwaye umzimba wentombazana okwangoku ulungelelanisa ukuba "uphawule" iibhanki, kuba imozulu ayikude. Enyanisweni, ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutywe i-hormonal breakbreak, eyayibeka igama elithi "kwi-45 baba berry kwakhona." Into efana nayo ingenzeka kumadoda, ngoko "inwele ebomvu kwintshebe, umtyholi kwintambo." Kule minyaka, imitshato ezinzileyo ihlala ihlukana kwaye izibini ezithandanayo-ubudala ziyazalwa. Kwaye, ukuba ngaphambi kokuba indoda ikhulile kunomfazi wayo, ngoku kutshanje kwakukho ukutyekela ukubonakala kwezibini, apho umfazi ekhulile kunomlingane wakhe, eYurophu inani lemitshato efana ne-9%.
Ubomi bobudlelwane bobudlelwane bobudlelwane obusemva kwabantu beminyaka edlulileyo, kwakhona, kukho utshintsho. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba kucingelwe ukuba ngeminyaka yobudala, ubomi bomntu obusondeleyo bufanele bube buthathaka, kodwa ngoku iimbono zitshintshile. Namhlanje kukholelwa ukuba ixesha elide umntu uya kusebenza ngokwesondo, ngcono. Kwaye inani labantu, nangona ubudala beminyaka yomhlalaphantsi, baqhubeka benandipha injabulo esondeleyo, ikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngaphezu kwesigamu samadoda angama-60 abo bangabakho (iminyaka eyi-15 edlulileyo babephantse abaninzi). Kwaye oogqirha bayamkela ngokukhulu, kuba sele sele ibonakaliswe ukuba iindlela zokuguga "zisoyika" ngokwesondo, kwaye abo abangazikhanyeli ngokwabo, baqaliswa kakhulu emva koko.