Okokuqala, akufanelekanga ukuba ukhangelele ukuba unomdla omkhulu kuwe! Kwaye ungakholelwa yonke into ekuthethwe ngayo. Umntu uyaziwa ngezenzo, kungekhona ngamagama. Makhe sijonge kwiinketho ezininzi, indlela yokubona okubonakalayo kuwe.
Ukuba umfana uthe uvuyiswa kukukwazi, oku akuthethi ukuba unomso oqhelekileyo kwaye uyithande loo ndoda. Mhlawumbi uhlelwe kakuhle, okanye mhlawumbi uyavuya ukukufumana, kodwa ngakwelinye icala. Ngokomzekelo, unomdla kuye ngokwemisebenzi, okanye unomdla oqhelekileyo. Kwenzeka ukuba umntu unomdla kwindima yomhlobo, umhlobo, kodwa akabonwanga njengento yothando. Kodwa ukuba umntu uphinda yonke imizuzu emihlanu ukuba intlanganiso yakho iyimimangaliso yasezulwini, ukuba uyadangalisa ngawe-nantsi kukufanelekile ukucinga ... Kungenzeka ukuba wayelisele ngokwaneleyo, nangomso akayi kukukhumbula konke okuthethiwe.
Ukuba umntu emva kokudliwayo wanikela nje ngekhadi lakhe lebhishini, enethemba lokuba uyabiza-ungabibizi! Kungakhathaliseki ukuba isisithakaphu sinokuzwakala njani - umfana nguye loo nto kunye nomfana ... Wawuthanda emva kwentlanganiso - akusiyo isizathu sokuya kuhlaselwa. Akunjalo kuphela kwiifilimi kufuneka bathathe isinyathelo sokuqala! Khumbula, umfana kufuneka abe ngowokuqala ukubiza! (Ndiza kuthetha mna, kwaye nangona ndithe ndaziphulaphula ezi zihlandlo eziliqela, mhlawumbi kamva, ndazifumana emva kwamanye amadoda.)
Ungabiza ikhadi lebhizinisi kuphela ukuba umntu unokukunika into enenzuzo. Nje ishishini loshishino. Umntu omthandayo uya kukubiza.
Ukuba uthetha, uyaphonsa "umnxeba" okanye "uyakubona" - akukho mzekelo wambiza kuqala! Ngako oko uthe abantu abangakhange bafunde, okanye abanomdla kwiintlanganiso zenu ezilandelayo. Kukho nawuphi na, musa ukumbiza! Kutheni unomntu ongendawo? Kwaye ukuba unomdla kuyo, kuba kutheni ungabi nantoni na?
Ewe, apha. . ixesha lidlulile, akabizi, kwaye unezizathu ezininzi zokuzithethelela. Ngokomzekelo, waphupha inombolo, okanye iselula, nalapho uhlala khona, awuzange umxelele. Ewe, uThixo abe naye! Ndikholelwe, ukuba umntu ufuna ukukubona, uya kwenza! Uya kukhumbula apho usebenza khona, cela abahlobo, okanye ngandlela-thile. Ekugqibeleni, hamba ngencwadi yefowuni, okanye ungene kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni.
Inketho yesibini yokugweba umntu ongathandanga nantoni kukuba uyagula. Uyagula kangangokuba akakwazi ukundibiza-uqala ukuthetha entloko yakho! Kholelwa ukuba loo matyala ayingatshatanga, kwaye ucinge ukuba kuya kuba nzima kangakanani xa ubiza, ngemibuzo malunga nendlela avakalelwa ngayo, kwaye ngeli xesha uzonwaba kunye nabahlobo.
Isizathu esilandelayo ongacinga ngayo kukuba unamahloni! Ugh! Ewe, uyazi, kumntu kufuneka abe nesibindi sokuthayipha ubuncinane i-smsku! Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, cinga, uyayimfuneko? !! Kwaye kwimeko yethu yokukhululwa kunzima ukukholelwa kuloo mmeli wesini esomeleleyo ngaphezu kweminyaka eyi-15.
Kakade, kukho into enjalo njengemithetho yindoda. Kukho amahemuhemu ukuba banomthetho wokumelana nekhefu leentsuku ezintathu. Kubonakala ngathi ukujonga iimvakalelo, kunye nexabiso kuwe! Kwaye makhe sikhumbule indlela amehlo atshaba ngayo xa uvelwano, indlela ofuna ukuphinde ubonane ngayo, kwaye yile ndlela ufikelela ngayo ngoku ifowuni ... Yehlisa ifowuni! Makhe amise ikhefu, asiyinto elula kwaye siyazi ukuba sijonge indoda ehloniphekileyo.
Kwaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza umhlobo kunye naye, kutheni inqaku malunga nomtshato liphuma, ungakhathazeki ukucinga ukuba wakubona kwaye kunjalo! Mhlawumbi uyadabuka kukuba wayesele yedwa, kwaye bonke abahlobo bakhe sele beboshwe ngamaketanga omtshato? Okanye udade wakhe watshata, kwaye wenza buhlungu? Siza kubona - siza kubona, kodwa asifanele sizakhele izinto ezintsha, ziyakwazi ukundiza njengendlu yamakhadi.
Maxa wambi umntu uthi, "Uhle kakhulu! "Okanye" Unobulumko, kodwa andizi nto nantoni "- into yokuqala engayithethayo kukuba uyayicinezela, okwesibini uzama ukukuxelela ukuba uhlukile, ngelixa ungalimazi ukuzithemba kwakho. Yaye yokuqala neyesibini asihambisani nathi.
Akasayi kubiza, kwaye ucinga ukuba uxakekile emsebenzini. Masicabange kunye - kungekudala iintsuku ezi-7 ngeveki umntu usebenza ngaphandle kwekhefu kuze kube ngu-10 ntambama. Lowo ufuna - ufuna amathuba, ongafuniyo - izizathu. Ewe, kunye neveki zokuqala, iinyanga-ezithandana kakhulu, kuba kufuneka ufune ukubonisa ukuba ubaluleke kangakanani kuye, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba uyakuthanda.
Imiqondiso yokwenene onokuyithembela ekuqhubekeni kobudlelwane ngumhla olandelayo. Yaye ukuba usenomonde ukudibana naye -mbiza umnxeba kwaye ubulele nje ngokuhlwa, ungathinti into into. Kungcono ukuba ungathethi kakhulu - bhala iifom. Kodwa ngoku lakho kuxhomekeke kuyo! Ngoku ungakwazi ukuthenga ngokuthenga kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ukuba akabizanga-jonga ulutsha olutsha, kuba uyazi ukuba ungayifumana njani emva kwentlanganiso oyenzile ngendoda!