Umhlobo kwixabiso elimiselweyo.
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu akubonise uvelwano, unomdla ngokunyanisekileyo ebomini bakho, unika uncedo, kodwa xa ummisa ebomini bakho, yonke into ngokukhawuleza iguquka ngokukhawuleza. Kubudlelwane bakho akukho nto ingaba ifaneleke "njengentlawulo". Intombi yakho kufuneka ifune ukuhlawula, kodwa ayibuyiseli amatyala. Kubonakala kuye ukuba i-blouse yakho entsha ihleli kuwe ngendlela engafaniyo, kodwa kuye ... Ufuna uncedo ngokukhawuleza umyeni wakho ekuhleleni umsebenzi omtsha, ngaphandle koko akuyi kuba nantoni yokondla ikati. Uhlala unomama ongekho kwaye ufuna imali kumayeza. Ewe, awukwazi!
Yaye ukuba akayifuni imali, uya kucela ukuba umthabathe ebhizinisini obaluleke kakhulu, unamathisele iphepha lodonga okanye into. Intetho malunga nomnqweno wokuncedisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, akunjalo.
Mkhangele ngenyameko. Ngaba ubona umntu oswele ngokwenene ojongene nobunzima bexeshana kwaye uzama ukusombulula iingxaki zakhe ngokwakhe kunye noncedo lwakho oluncinane okanye ngaba umntu ofuna ukuba zonke iingxaki zakhe zixazululwe nguwe kuphela? Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba ngaphambi kokuba u-leech oqhelekileyo, omele ulindele kuphela, uhlala njani entanyeni yomntu, ungalibali, ulahle!
Ukuqala, kukho izizathu eziphosakeleyo zokuphika esinye isicelo kunye nokuzwakalisa. Ukuba intombi iqhubeka ifuna, yenza ishintshiselwano. Uya kumgcini wakhe, kwaye uhlamba izitya endlwini yakho ngeli xesha. Akavumelani? Unelungelo lokukhubeka kunye nale mvelaphi ukuyeka ulwalamano. Ngoko i-leech okanye ukutshatyalaliswa, okanye uya kukunyamekela ukusebenzisa esikhathini esizayo.
Umhlobo ovela kwelinye ihlabathi.
Kwaye oku akuqhelekanga. Ubomi bakho, intombazana ingabonakala, eziphatha ngokufanelekileyo okokuqala, kodwa ke iya kuba yonke into enomdla kuyo i-myths, karma, amandla okuhamba kunye negama loMfundisi Omkhulu. Ewe, uya kuba nomdla kule nto yedwa, kodwa ekugqibeleni, uvakalelwa kukuba ubanjwe ngendendlunkulu yezityhilelo zentsingiselo. Ukhangele oku, kwaye wena ngokwakho uza kungena kwihlelo - emva kwayo yonke into, kungekhona kwindlafa, nangona kunjalo, wathabatha zonke ezi zityhilelo ezinkulu.
Qaphela! Intombi enjalo inokuba yingozi kakhulu, ukuba kuphela ngenxa yokuba iphakamileyo eliphakamileyo liyakudlulela kwaye lidluliselwa njengomkhuhlane. Ukusuka kuyo unokubanjwa kwi nkolelo kulezo mbono eziphambeneyo ezisasaza.
Zama ukufaka ingqondo. Mxelele ukuba awuxhasi ngokupheleleyo iinkonzo zakhe, musa ukuxubusha iingxoxo ze-"worldworldly ", okanye mhlawumbi ngcono - qalisa imfundiso ephikisana neenqobo ezisisiseko zezinto azamkelayo. Ngaloo ndlela, umhlobo okanye unqume ukufikelela kwiimbilini zakho, okanye ukuya kulabo abakulungele ukumphulaphula.
Umhlobo wegazi.
Awukwazi ukukhanyela - ngumhlobo-isihlobo. Dade, u-anti, okanye, yintoni eyona mbi, uninazala. Unika ukuba ube ngabahlobo, kwaye awukwazi ukunqaba. Kubekwa, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba kufuneka uwamkele naliphi na ixesha nangasiphi isizathu. Kodwa yintoni enye into enokuyenza ngayo ukucaphukisa isihlobo?
Kubonakala ngathi le yimeko enzima kunzima kakhulu, kuba awukwazi ukulahla umntu osondeleyo, kwaye kunzima ukuyifundisa kwakhona. Ukuba i-vendetta ayifakiwe kwiiplani zakho zangoku, yenza ngobuqili, kodwa uzinzile.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokucacileyo imida evumelekileyo. Ukuba awuvumeli abahlobo bakho bakudala izinto ezithile, akufanele uvumele isihlobo.
Okwesibini, yibani nobubele, kodwa niqinile kwaye niyaqhubeka. Gcinana nesakhelo sokuziphatha kunye neetoni eziza kukukhusela ngokutsha ngokukhawuleza ebusuku kunye nezidingo zokubingelela yonke into ehlabathini kuphela ngenxa yokuba kwimeko enzima bekungekho umntu kodwa isihlobo.
Okwesithathu, zama ukucima ityala, kodwa ukuba iingxoxo zingenakunceda, kufuneka ukwandise umgama phakathi kwakho.
Abahlobo abasoloko bephila ngokubhekiselele kumalindelo ethu, kwaye abahlala beziphatha ngendlela enobubele. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umhlobo akayiyona ntsi ngiselo ebomini. Ukuba ubuhlobo buba nzima, ukuba ulwalamano luba linye, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba nguwe kuphela onobungane, kwaye umhlobo uvumela kuphela ukuba ngabahlobo - unqume yonke imizamo yomhlobo onjalo ukuba ungene ebomini bakho. Ngamnye wethu unelungelo lokonwaba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba awuphi ummeli. Ewe, maxa wambi kwenzeka ukuba ubomi buzala abahlobo ababalaseleyo, kodwa luphinde lunikeze abatsha, abo bangenamahloni ukubiza okwenene.