Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumhlobo olungcono?

Umhlobo wakho ngumntu oqaqambileyo: intlalontle, ethandekayo, uhlala ebonakalayo. Kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yakhe, ulahlekelwa ngandlela-thile ... Masiqonde ndawonye: kuthini ukuthini ukuba ngumhlobo olungcono?

Ungesabi ukutshintsha!

Uthoba lula ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nabantu abangaziwayo, nawaphi na ibali elibuhlungu liza kuxela ukuba wonke umntu avelelwe. Kuhlala kunomdla kunye naye, yingako unabantwana abaninzi nabahlobo. Kubonakala ngathi umhlobo onjalo kufuneka abe nekratshi ngaye, kodwa ngubani kuphela oya kufuna ukuba ngumlingane ongunaphakade we "nkwenkwezi"! Kodwa indlela yokuphuma emthunzini wayo, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ubudlelwane, kwaye kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngabahlobo abakhulu?


Phuma kwiTwilight

Gxi ninisa amandla akho. Buza abangani ukuba zeziphi iimpawu zobuntu bakho neempawu zokuziphatha ezibonakala ngathi zikhangeleka, kwaye uzame ukuzibonisa rhoqo. Ukuba unommotheka obumnandi, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokubonisa. Ukuba ungumfazi omhle wendlu, yenza amaqela, baphathe oogxa bakho kunye neengxaki. Ukuphuhlisa iimpawu ezifanelekileyo. Jonga intombi yakho, zama ukuqonda ukuba iziphi iimpawu zakhe ezithandwa kakhulu ngabanye. "Zama" wena kwaye ucinge ngeyiphi kubo onokuyihlakulela, kwaye yiyiphi into engakufanelanga yona. Fumana isitayela sakho. Njengoko uyazi, hla nganisa kwiingubo. Ukucinga, ucinga ntoni wena? Ngokomzekelo, unamathela kwikhowudi yokugqoka iofisi, kwaye uphupha malunga neengubo zeexiki kunye namabala evulekile. Kodwa ngubani owenza ukuba bangagqoki ngexesha leeyure? Ngoko uya kuziva ukhululekile, kuba isitayela siza kubonakalisa ubuntu bakho. Thatha umdla. Ukuba unomdla wokuzonwabisa, ungabi namahloni ngawo. Abantu bathanda izidalwa zentshiseko, ngomlilo emehlweni abo bethetha into eyintandokazi. Ukongezelela, kuya kukunceda ukuba udibana nabantu abanomdla kunye nokufumana abahlobo. Phuma uye ekukhanyeni. Kunzima ukuba abaninimzi babe ngumphefumlo wenkampani. Yiba nempilo, udaniso, ulwimi lwangaphandle. Ubomi bakho obuhlukeneyo, unomdla ngakumbi kwabanye.


Ngaba kuya kubakho inkxaso?

Umhlobo unokusabela njani umnqweno wokuphuma emthunzini wakhe? Ukuba unomdla wokuba yedwa "inkwenkwezi" esibhakabhakeni, kwaye ufuna ukukubona kuphela njengomhlobo wakhe ozinikeleyo, ubuyekeze ubuhlobo naye. Uthini olu buhlobo kwaye lithetha ukuthini ukuba ngabahlobo abangcono?

Kodwa umfazi othembekileyo akayikubona oku njengengozi. Kwaye ukuba intombi iphethe iimpawu ezinjengokuhlonipha nokuphendula, ngoko uya kukunceda ukuba ube neqaqambileyo kwaye ube nolonwabo.


Kwiqhosha lomtshini

Kwinkampani apho wonke umntu uyazi khona, akulula kakhulu ukutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha yokuziphatha. Ngoko ke, ukuqala ubomi obutsha kulula nakubantu obaziyo.

Ukwandisa isangqa sazana. Cela umhlobo wakho ukuba akuxelele abantu abatsha.

Yiba nzima. Musa ukuhlala eceleni, laphula iingxoxo zabanye abantu, kodwa faka kwingxoxo.

Kuzo zonke iinkampani zizama ukubona into enhle. Uvelwano oluthile kubantu ngabanye isiseko sezonxibelelwano eziphumeleleyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba kukuthande kangakanani ukuthetha nomntu othetha naye.

Yiba nobuhlobo kunye nobuthathaka, bonisa intsingiselo: phulaphulaphula ngenyameko kubachasi bakho uze uqiniseke ukuba ubuze imibuzo ecacileyo.

Qinisekisa ngokwakho. Ungesabi ukuthetha okanye ukwenza into engalunganga. Ngubo kuphela abangenzi nto abaphosakeleyo.


Ubabazi kwimpendulo

Kuvela ukuba sizuze ifa lethu kubomi bethu. Inzululwazi evela kwiSyunivesithi yaseScottish yaseSt. Andrew, emva kokuhlalutya iifoto zentsapho, yafika kwisigqibo esimangalisa: Amadoda amnandi, njengomthetho, azalwe iintombi ezintle kunye noonyana. Ngohlobo oluqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukutshatyalaliswa komama akuniki abantwana kuyo nayiphi na inzuzo.


Ubuhle buyasasazeka

Iingcali zeengqondo zaseFransi zenze uvavanyo olunzulu. Amadoda angama-300 aboniswa imifanekiso yabasetyhini bembonakalo eqhelekileyo: kwesinye sezithombe abafakwe kuzo zizungezwe ngobumnandi, okwesibini - ngokumalunga namantombazana avamile, kwaye okwesithathu - kunye neentombazana ezimbi. Kwaye into echasayo kakhulu kukuba amadoda akhangayo ayenamaqabane aboniswe kumfanekiso wokuqala! Ngoko ungesabi ukuba ngaphaya kweentombi zamantombazana ezikhangelekileyo uya kubonakala ngathi "yimpumputhe".