Ulonwabo lwentombi kwiintsapho zobudlelwane

Umbuzo wolonwabo lwabasetyhini unomdla, undala. Kwaye, nangona kunjalo, ihlala ifanelekileyo, kwaye nanamhla. Wonke umfazi uyazama ukuhambelana ngokuvisisana nolwalamano.

Iyintoni umphumo wobudlelwane obunempilo, obumanyeneyo?

Okokuqala, oko kukuthi, uthando, njengento ethile. Okwesibini, ukuqonda, ukuhlonipha. Ukuqhubela phambili uluhlu oluvela kwiingcamango ezifanayo lungagcinwa ngokungapheliyo. Ndifuna ukuhlala ngokubanzi iinkcukacha kulolu hlobo lobudlelwano boluntu, njengonxibelelwano.

Apha ulala ngamandla amakhulu. Singakanani ukunxibelelana omnye nomnye, kuxhomekeke kuninzi. Ukukwazi ukuthetha, ukuphakamisa imibuzo enzima ngaphandle kokwesaba ukukhubekisa iqabane okanye ukuxhatshalana ubudlelwane bubungcali obukhulu ukuba wonke umfazi ozama uxolo kwintsapho kufuneka aqonde. Kufuneka ukwazi ukwahlula okubalulekileyo ukusuka kwisekondari, uthetha ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ezikukhathazayo. Ukuze ube nokwazi ukuqhuba ingxoxo, kufuneka uqale ufunde indlela yokuthetha nomlingane ngolwimi olunye.

Khumbula ukuqala kobudlelwane bakho, xa ungeke uthethe omnye nomnye imini nobusuku. Nabani na owaziyo olo lonwabo kulwalamano oluqala nje, uyaqonda oko kusemngciphekweni.

Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukugcina le mfuno kunye nesidingo sokunxibelelana rhoqo. Enyanisweni, ekuqaleni, kwinqanaba lolwazi olusebenzayo komnye nomnye, nayiphi na ingxoxo inomdla kwaye ibalulekile. Abathandayo ngokwenene bafumana ulwazi malunga nomnye. Kamva, xa isibini sitshintshile kwisigaba esilandelayo sobudlelwane, isihloko sesincoko siba ngakumbi ngakumbi, uluhlu lwezihloko luncitshisiwe. Apha kubalulekile ukubonisa ubungqina nobulumko. Ukuba kwintlalontle yentsapho kwakungekho "ukukhahlela", kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukwenza loo nto kumntu - njengokuba ngaphambi kokuba umthandi abe nomdla kunye nayo yonke into, malunga noko akuxelelayo. Abathandi bahlala benento yokuthetha omnye nomnye, musa ukuyilayisha ngaphezulu kwesi sikhala ngokungabonakali kwezinto zethu zokuxhaphaza zasekhaya. Lo mfazi omncinane, ekulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, uyazijonga, ubuncinane, i heroine. Indoda ayisayikuyixabisa. Ewe, kwaye nje awuqondi ukuba apha ubuqhawe. Uninzi lwawo lukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ibhinqa sele lizalwe liphethe incwadi yokupheka entloko kunye nezandla zenguqu-zitshintshi ngendlela yeselula. Asiyi kubaphazamisa ngokubakholisa. Kulula nje, kuba kungenakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele.

Thetha ngeemvakalelo. Emva kwakho konke, udidi lwazo olukhulu, oluya ngaphaya kwemida, ndiyathanda-andithandi, ndiyayithiya - Ndiyamthanda. Vula isichazamazwi, kwaye uya kuba, uyamangalisa: kuba nayiphina imvakalelo yeemvakalelo kukho inkcazelo yesandi.

Nangona kukho intsapho yencoko-yolonwabo yowesifazane, phantse iphephile. Emva koko, nayiphi na ingxabano engapheliyo ingasombululwa kwiingcambu, ukuyeka ukuphuhliswa kwehlazo kunye nemiphumo ephumela kulo. Ukuba ufunda ukwakha osondeleyo, ukuthembela, ulwalamano oluvulekileyo kunye neqabane lakho, ngoko akufanele ukhathazeke ngokuvumelana kwangaphakathi. Kwaye ke, akukho nto iya kusongela ulonwabo lwabesetyhini kwiintsapho zentsapho.

Emva koko, ulonwabo lwabasetyhini luyimpumelelo yomtshato, xa ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho bungaqiniseki. Uthando olunamandla lunika ubomi obutsha. Kwaye konke oku kunxibelelana kunye, kusebenza ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, njengendlela yokwenza iwashi esekelwe kakuhle.

Kakade, ulonwabo kwizidlelwane alubandakanyi ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Lo ngumsebenzi omkhulu, wemihla ngemihla kwaye unzima, owela ngokukodwa kwiimilinganiselo zesibhakabhaka. Kwaye iqela lomntu onamandla limele libekwe ngexesha. Imisebenzi inzima, kodwa inokubulela, ivelise iziqhamo ngendlela yokuthanda, ukuqonda nokuhlonipha.

Ngaloo ndlela, ulonwabo lwabesifazane kwiinkalo zentsapho lunamalungu ahlukeneyo: uthando, ithemba, umonde, ukuqonda, ukuhlonipha, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukukwazi ukuphulaphula nokuva, ukukwazi ukuqhuba intetho. Ulonwabo lwabasetyhini lubuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa kunjalo. Kwaye unelungelo lokuhlala kuyo yonke intsapho. Kwaye thina, bafazi, siyazi zonke iimfihlelo zokulondolozwa kwesi sidalwa esiphefumlelweyo kwiintsapho zobudlelwane.