Isiqingatha sobomi bethu esichitha emsebenzini kummandla wabantu abafanayo. Ngako oko imbono yobudlelwane bezesondo kunye nomsebenzi, ngokubanzi, ayinakuhlukaniswa. Iingcali zezobudlelwane bezenkolo zivakalisa ngokusemthethweni-ngaphezulu kwesigamu sokuxhatshazwa kwabantu kunye nabangabesapho emva kweminyaka engama-30 bazalwa emsebenzini.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo emsebenzini
Ngamanye amaxesha abatshati kunye nabalingane abasenyongweni baba ngabahlobo kunye noogqirha, abasebenzi, umenzi, umthengi kwaye akukho nto emangalisa kulo. Siphumehluko phakathi kokusebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda kwaye kufezekiswe ukuba akukho phantse. Into yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ekusebenzeni ingaba yindoda nomfazi. Kodwa abasetyhini banokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini emsebenzini. Kwintloko yeefisi ezizimeleyo, uninzi lwabo ngabantu abatsha abangenasithintelo ngokuziphatha kwaye baphuhliswa ngamandla.
Kwilizwe eliphucukileyo, ibhinqa liyakwazi ukubheka iimbono zendoda njengobundlobongela ngokwesondo kunye nokuyibeka. Sineengqalelo ezifanayo kunye neendawo ezininzi. Ezi ziyakuthintela, iingxoxo zesondo, iintlonelo ezinqabileyo, ukunikezelwa ngokuthe ngqo ukufaka ubungqina obusondeleyo. Uninzi lwabasetyhini alufihli engqondweni ukusola, kuba bayaqonda ukuba kuya kuba nzima ukubonisa ubungqina bokuhlukunyezwa ngokwesini.
Amadoda ngokuqinisekileyo aqiniseke ukuba lo mfazi uyababangelela kwaye ahlale engacingi. Oogxa abalingani abanobuqili, banengqondo. Olu luncedo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zeofisi ze-ofisi, memela ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukutya kwasemini, uphathe i-ayisikrimu, uthinte ngothando amahlombe, unike izipho, ukuncoma kuthi. Ukuba umxhamli ungumphathi, unokumisela isikhundla esiphambili, ukhuphe ibhonasi okanye uphakamise umvuzo wakhe, thumela umgangatho ongaphantsi kwintengiso. Intsingiselo yale miqondiso yenkxalabo yinto enye, kuvela kuwe impendulo encedisayo. Ndiza kufuneka ndiphume phambili. Kwaye konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni unqwenela ukuhlala kule nkqonkqo, ukusuka kwisimo sengqondo kunye nomlinganisi.
Thabatha ingqalelo kwinto abalingane bakho bathi kufuphi nendawo yokusebenzela. Xa umonakalo unombala oqhawulayo nesondo, kufuneka ukhethe iphethini. Ukuba uxhasa incoko, kuya kuthetha ukuba awuyikukhazamisa ukukhuthaza ukudibana kunye nokuba ungumfazi onobuchule kwaye ukhululekile. Ukuba ugqithise ngokugqithiseleyo i-chatter ingxoxo, iya kucacisa ukuba akufanele udideke kwaye unengqungquthela.
Kuqhelekileyo ukunika izipho zoNyaka omtsha kunye nemini yokuzalwa, kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo. Kodwa qaphela ukuba abaphathi okanye abantu bazama ukunika into kwenye indawo. Kwezinye iimeko kunye nakwiintlobo kufuneka zilahlwe. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuthatha ithuba, zithatha izipho, zize zibiza.
Ukuba unquma ukuba indlela efanelekileyo yokuqhuba umsebenzi kukuba ulale ngesondo kunye nomphathi, ngoko unako ukumkela isimemo kwiindawo zokudlela, kunye nomnqweno olandelayo wokuhlala naye yedwa. Kwezinye iimeko, phendula nayiphi na imemo ngephutha.
Omnye ucinga ukuba xa umntu ekhusela omnye osebenza naye okanye umphathi, njani usebenza? Mhlawumbi umsebenzi uya kuba ngumsebenzi onzima, ngaba baya kukhangela umbuzo? Ukusuka emsebenzini kufuneka ube nemihlali, ngaphandle kwemvuzo. Kutheni iintsuku ezi-5 ngeveki zihlupheke kwaye ziye emsebenzini, indlela yokulwa? Ngaba unokuyeka phantsi kwaye aphile kwindawo entsha ngendlela entsha? Kodwa, umzekelo, ushiye umsebenzi. Yaye phi isiqinisekiso sokuba iingxaki ezifanayo aziyi kuvela kwindawo entsha? Kodwa ukushiya isigxina, awuyi kuzuza amava okuphila, izakhono zokuphila eziyimfuneko.
Iigundane ezimhlophe azichaphazeli. Ngoko ke uyindoda ebonakalayo kunye neqaqambileyo, oku kukudibanisa okukhulu. Kodwa kwi-career ayikusoloko ihamba kakuhle. Oomama abaqeshwe namhlanje bajongene neengxaki ezahlukileyo, kubandakanywa ngesondo. Mhlawumbi, olu bunzima babancedisa ukuba bafumane indlela yokuphuma kwezi meko. Awuzifaki izibambiso kwiindawo zokuqala zokunyaniseka nokunganyaniseki. Emva kwakho konke, uyinto yentsimbi.
Amava abonisa ukuba ukubonakaliswa kwamazinyo kubo bonke abafuna ukukudla, benze bawa emva kwaye ekugqibeleni, bakufundise indlela yokuhlonela. Kuncike kakhulu kuwe.