Kungekudala umhlobo osondeleyo wathetha ibali elingathandekiyo. Iminyaka emithathu edlulileyo wazisa umhlobo wakhe ukuba asebenze. Wayengazi ukwenza nantoni na, mhlawumbi asebenze kwikhompyutha. Kwaye inyanga emva koko, isihlobo saqonda ukuba wayenzani ububudenge. Intombi yaqalisa ukumisela iqela elimelene naye. Ingquzulwano iqalile. Akakaze abe neemeko ezinjalo kwiminye imisebenzi, kwaye akakwazi nje ukuba wenzeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo emva kwemvaba, akukho namandla kunye nemisipha yokusebenza kule meko, kodwa akafuni ukushiya lo msebenzi. Enye ingxaki: ungumntu onomusa kakhulu kwaye uthembele. Mhlawumbi yeso sokuba azinako ukuzimela. Ndiyavuma, le meko iyinto eqhelekileyo (ngokukodwa kwiqela labesetyhini). Yintoni enokuyenza ngobudlelwane beqela kunye nendlela yokuziphatha ngokubanzi, ukuze ngekamva akukho ziingxaki? Kuye kwenzeka ukuba ukuxazulula iingxaki zengxabano zomsebenzi yinto yesayensi yonke.
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla, nayiphi na yamantombazana ibhekene neengxaki ezininzi, imisebenzi kunye neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, umgama wokhuseleko esiwafumana kunye kunye. amava obomi, sivumela ukuba sinqobe yonke imithintelo. Ejongene nokungaxoliseki, sicinga, imeko, sicela uncedo: siyabonisana nabadala, sabelana nabahlobo, sixhomekeke kwiifom. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, siyaqonda ukunqotshwa kwethu kule nkalo kwaye siyibale ngoku, kuba ngokubanzi le nto ayibalulekile. Kodwa kwinkqubo yokuqokelelwa kweemeko ezinje, ngokukodwa kwimibutho ebalulekileyo yentlalo, ukukwazi kwethu ukumelana nokuqhubela phambili, naphezu kwayo yonke into, ilahleka ndawo. Utshintshwa nguloyiko, umvakalelo wokungancedi kunye nokungathembeki kwabanye. Imizwelo, njengolwandle esiphepho, isilungele ukusiginya kwisilingo sokuqala sokuphuma kule nkwenkwezi kwaye sibone oko kwenzekayo.
Kuye kwenzeka into efanayo kumzala wam. Ibali lakhe lihlaba ixinzelelo kunye nokukhala ukucela uncedo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimbalwa ezimbalwa ngokubhekiselele kuyo ukuba kuya kwenzeka ukubuyisela imeko kwaye unike iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo. Kwaye kuyimfuneko, iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo? Emva koko, imeko eofisini, njengoko ichazwe yi-heroine yethu, ifana nobudlelwane bodwa: uyamthanda, kwaye ayithandi. Yonke imiphumo elandelayo: ukudideka ngenjongo, iintlungu zokusola, umnqweno wokubuyisela ubulungisa.
Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho olusebenzayo (kunye nenkokheli, kunye nabo osebenza nabo) luqala ukufana nesicwangciso sendaba yothando, kwaye iimvakalelo ziyanqoba ngaphezu kokuqonda imisebenzi yomsebenzi, indawo yakho kwinkampani kunye nabasemagunyeni, ngoko yilexesha elifanelekileyo lokulijonga. Masiqale ngokuncinci: kufuneka uhlalise kwaye uzinze iimvakalelo zakho. Naliphi na le misebenzi elandelayo iya kusebenza, kuxhomekeke kwingcamango yakho. Ukuba ezi ngxaki zijwayelene nawe, ngoko unokucebisa oku okulandelayo (ubuncinci, ngoko ucebisa iingqondo zeengqondo):
- Bhala isibheno esibhaliweyo kuboni.
- Dweba i-portrait enemibala yazo nganye, ungayisebenzisa njengetyegethi xa udlala imida.
- Qoqa i-collage (iinqununu ezivela kumaphephancwadi zifanelekileyo) kwimeko yeziganeko ezibuhlungu kuwe.
- Ukubhala isichazi magama esichaphazelekayo.
- Cinga nge-thermometer yokucaphukisa kwakho kwaye uyigqithise i-degree of today.
Xa usombulula iingxaki zengquzulwano, uqeqesho kufuneka lwenziwe rhoqo, ngokubekezela, kwindawo yokuhlala ekhulile. Kucebise ukuvakalisa oko uvakalelwa. Kwaye, ke, unokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo: ukukhalisa iphepha kunye neefowuni zibe ziincinci ezincinane, ufake amanqaku abomvu kumabakala angenelisekanga ngamagama amabi kwidilesi yakho, wabela nayiphi na isohlwayo. Ukuzivocavoca kunengqondo kuze kube yilapho incoko yangaphakathi nayo yonke ingqondo yayo ingagqityiwanga, kwaye izicwangciso zokubuyisela aziyi kupheliswa. Ngokufanelekileyo, unokukrazula imibuzo engekho umntu owaziyo impendulo: "Kutheni ndiyinyanisekile?", Okanye "Ungabizwa njani ngomhlobo ongcono emva koko?" Okanye "Ngaba umlawuli ngokwakhe akayiqondi ukuba ungekho ngaphandle ? ".
Xa ulungele ngokomzwelo, ungaqalisa umsebenzi owenzela abaphathi bezengqondo ukuba "hamba ngaphaya kwesangqa." Intsikelelo yalo ilula: ngoxa utywala kwimeko efana ne-couldron ebilisayo, awukwazi ukufumana oko kuphekwe - iphariji okanye isobho. Emva kwakho konke, ungomnye wezinto ezibalulekileyo zalolu hlobo. Ngokukhawuleza xa ufunda ukubona oko kwenzekayo ngaphandle, unokubona ngokukhawuleza iingxaki ezininzi ezingahambelani ngqo. Mhlawumbi, inkampani ihamba neengxaki, akukho sicwangciso sophuhliso olucacileyo, inkokeli ayiyikulawula imeko kwaye akukho ncinane. Oku kuya kukunceda uqonde imida phakathi kwezinto zakho kunye neminqweno yabanye. Ngaloo ndlela, unokusebenza nomxholo wolwazi olubanzi kwaye wenze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukwenza lo msebenzi, kufuneka ufunde kwaye uzinikeze imibuzo eyakhayo, oko kukuthi, ezo zingaphendulwa. Ngokomzekelo, kwiintetho kunye nabanye abantu okanye ezithathwe ngokuxutyushwa kweemeko kunye nezenzo zabathintekayo. Khumbula izifundo zezikolo esikolweni: xa uhlalutya umsebenzi wokubhala, wawungummeli wangaphandle, njengokungathi inkcazi echazwe, ibeka ingcamango malunga neenjongo zamaqhawe. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, uzicabange ngendima yale nto okanye lelo qhawe kwaye wazama kwihlabathi lakhe eliphakathi. Kutheni waziphatha ngale ndlela? Yiyiphi inkcazelo ayenaye ngelo xesha? Yiyiphi imisebenzi ayisombululayo? Wazama ntoni? Yintoni eyamthintela ukwenza okungafaniyo?
Ukuxazulula iingxaki zengxabano emsebenzini, zama ukwenza into efanayo: xelela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa uma "emva kwesangqa." Jonga imeko ngokubanzi, ucinga ukusebenzisana kwamaqhawe ahlukeneyo. Khumbula ukuba abantu ngaphandle komsebenzi baneminye iminqweno, kwaye abanakho ukugxininisa kwimfazwe nawe. Uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza, apho ungenalo ulwazi olwaneleyo malunga nenkampani ngokubanzi, malunga nabantu ngabanye, kwaye apho ukucinga kwakho kukuphazamisa khona. Kwaye kutheni kwiofisi yakho isebenza ngquzulwano ngendlela engafanelekanga? Kulo mcimbi, kubalulekile ukucacisa into ekuxoxeni nabasebenzi, kunye nenkokheli. Kuya kuba kuhle ukugcina iirekhodi, kuba ngolwazi oluqokelelwa ngolwazi, iingcinga zakho ngezizathu zento eyenzekayo ziya kutshintsha.
Kungekudala okanye uza kuza kumbuzo oyintloko othi kutheni ukhethe lo msebenzi othile, kwaye uya kunqoba isikhundla esingenakunceda "Andifuni ukuhamba, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukusebenza". Ngaba ufumana iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokulungisa imeko, okanye uya kugxininisa ekufumaneni umsebenzi omtsha. Impumelelo ekuxazululeni iingxabano emsebenzini!