Ukuba isizathu sokungathembeki kwinqanaba lolawulo libe yiphutha elithile, kufuneka ufumane izicombululo zokuphelisa imiphumo yale mpazamo. Hlola imiphumo yeephutha kubaphathi, wena ngokwakho, kwinkampani osebenza kuyo. Hlaziya ukuba kutheni wenze iphutha, mhlawumbi kufuneka ucele iingcebiso kubalingane abanolwazi. Ukuba unezisombululo ezininzi, xubusha nabaphathi bakho. Cacisa ukuba uyaqonda into engalunganga kwaye sisiphi isizathu. Bonisa abaqeshi iziphumo zomsebenzi kwiiphene. Buza ukuba ucinga ntoni ngale nto. Ukuba isizathu sokungathembeki kuwe siphume ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakho kwiqela, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha isitalelwano sakho soqhagamshelwano. Musa ukwabelana nabo kunye nabo bonke amava abo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhle kangakanani ukuba luhlangene, kuya kubakho iimeko xa umntu uya kuxabisa izenzo zakho, impumelelo yakho ayinelanga kuwe.
Oogxa bakho baya kubelana ngokuvavanywa kwabo kunye nabaphathi babo. Xa udibana nomphathi ngaphandle kweofisi, ungamjonga ngamehlo akho athembekileyo. Kwaye kungcono ukuba wazi ukuba uyazi isizathu sokungathembeki kuwe kwaye uzilungele ukuphucula imeko. Ukuba umphathi uphazamisa kakhulu kuwe, kufuneka uxoxe naye ngokuthula, ngakumbi nangendlela ehlekisayo. Ncedise ukuba aqonde ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu kunokuba uyifanele. Musa ukuqalisa ingxoxo kunye nabasemagunyeni ngamazwi: "Yintoni endiyenzile?" Oku kuya kuphucula imeko kuphela. Qala ngokuhlukileyo: "Ndiyazi ukuba ndenze umsebenzi ombi nalo" okanye "Ndenze into embi", "Ndifuna ukuzama ukuzilungisa". Emva koko pha kamisa iindlela zokulungisa impazamo. Endaweni ethile phakathi kwengxoxo, qiniseka ukuba ubuze umphathi malunga nomsebenzi wakho ngokubanzi, ukuze ungenzi iphutha elitsha.
Mcele icebiso malunga nokulungisa impazamo, kuba ungobugcisa bokwenene, kwaye ungabuyi ku-banal flattery, kuba le ndlela yokuziphatha iya kukulimaza. Ukwandisa umthwalo wakho. Khangela into ongayenza ukongeza kwimiba ephambili. Khetha ukongeza umsebenzi onokuwenza ungcono kunabo bonke osebenza nabo, ngoxa bavavanya kakuhle amandla abo. Okulandelayo ukugqithiswa kwakho akuyi kubuyisa kuphela ukuthembela kwabasemagunyeni, kodwa kuya kukhokelela ekubeni uya kulahlekelwa ngonaphakade.
Ukuba unayo kwishishini, inkampani inemisebenzi abalingani bakho abangafuni ukuyifeza, umzekelo, umbutho wezinye iimeko. Kufuneka uthabathe yona, ngaphambi kokuba konke oku kucatshulwa ngokucokisekileyo. Ukubonisa umphathi onokukhathazeka kakhulu ngenxa yephutha elenzelwe kwicala lakho, cela isijeziso. Umzekelo, ngohlobo lomsebenzi ngeveki, ude ulungise imeko. Ukusebenza ngeveki zivakala kakhulu, kodwa indlela efanelekileyo yokusebenza ngeveki izakuvumela ukuba uphumle kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantu basebenzisa iiveki zabo ngeeskimu: ukuphumla ngaphambi kokuhlwa, ukubukela iTV, kunye nabo bonke ukusasazwa ngokulandelelana, ukwenza imisebenzi emincinci yasemakhaya, nantsi iveki kwaye idlule. Ewe, ndifuna ukulala ngeveki, jonga iTV, kodwa kufuneka senze konke ngokumodareyitha. Ukubukela bonke ukusasazwa kwi-TV kungekuphela kuphela okukuzisa ukuqonda, ukuphuhliswa ngokomoya, kodwa akuyi kukunika ukuzonwabisa. Ngako oko, kulungile ukucoca ukutshintshela okukhangayo. Akukho imfuneko ukujonga iinkqubo zenzululwazi kuphela, ngamanye amaxesha luncedo ngakumbi ukubukela umdlalo okanye inkqubo yokuzonwabisa.
Kwaye umsebenzi owenziwe endlwini, kungcono ukwenza ekuseni, kuya kuba nexesha lokuphumla ngokuhlwa. Ukuba umphathi wakho uphuthuma ngokukhawuleza, kodwa unomdla ngokukhawuleza kwendalo, ubeka engozini ukuva izinto ezininzi ezingathandeki ngeempawu zakho kunye nawe, xa uthetha isijeziso. Kodwa i-flash of anger iya kudlula, kwaye iinjongo zomsebenzi ziya kuvula kwakhona. Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, umphathi wakho uyakunqanda, kuba kubi kakhulu, ekubeni unokuhlala ethule, kwaye uya kuzikhumbula izono zakho ixesha elide, ngaloo ndlela uyolulela isohlwayo ixesha elingenammiselo. Ngale hlobo lomphathi kukulungele ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngale ngxaki, kwaye uzenzele isohlwayo esithile, ngexesha elithile.
Isiphetho kuzo zonke ezithethiweyo kukuba: ukuba akukho ukungazithembi kwinqanaba labasemagunyeni, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuxoxa ngolu hlobo. Musa ukushiya imeko, ukuze yonke into isombululwe yodwa. Yona indlela enzima ngayo umsebenzi, indlela yokubuyisela ithemba lomphathi, uyazi. Inhlanhla kuwe!