Ubukhoboka Bomsebenzi
Uninzi lwabantu bexesha elide lucinge ngombuzo wokubola kweentsapho ezivuyayo ngenxa yokuba omnye wabatshatileyo uphumelele emsebenzini wakhe. Kukho imbono ezimbini kule ngxaki.
Ezinye iingcali zithetha ukuba impumelelo yabasetyhini iboniswe ngokuchasene. Abasetyhini, abo bafumana imali engaphezu kwamadoda, baya kuba "baxhaphaze iingubo zabo." Ukubaluleka kweenguqu kumxholo othi "Ndifumana ngaphezulu kwaye ndinelungelo lokufuna". Umgangatho ophezulu weempumelelo kumsebenzi, njengomgaqo, wenza umntu anqume, aqiniseke aze afune. Kodwa nakhona kukho namatye oonqanawa-ukuphumelela kubangela ukuzidla, ukuzingca, ukuzingca. Yingakho abantu bezenzo zentlalo banethemba lokuba ubuncwane kunye nokuzikhukhumeza kwabasetyhini baninzi kunezo zesini esinamandla. Ukubonakaliswa kokuphakama kwabo kwindoda kuzincambu ezinzulu zobomi.
Ulungelelwano olufunekayo kuyo yonke into. Ukuthonyelwa yimpumelelo yabasetyhini akuyikusola. Akunjalo nje umba womona, kodwa loo msebenzi ube yintsingiselo yobomi. Makhe sijonge iimpawu eziphambili ezizithethayo ukuba ziveze umsebenzi wazo njengekhoboka.
Ukuziva bephakamileyo kwabanye. Ndingumqeqeshi kwaye ndiyaziqhenyisa, kwaye zonke iindawo ezizungezile zizonyanya.
Naliphina umsebenzi ongahambelani nomsebenzi ukuchitha ixesha. Ukuhlwaya okuthandanayo kunye nomthandeki wakho, ukuchitha ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nabahlobo - ngombono wakho ukuchitha ixesha. Esi siyisikhubekiso omele usilahle ngaphandle kokuphazamisa umsebenzi wakho.
Xa isicelo somntu othandekayo ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa, uxelela umlimi ukuba awuzalwanga ukuma kwisitofu. Injongo yakho ukufikelela eziphakamileyo. Kwaye ukuzalwa komntwana kuya kukuguqula ube "liqela lekhaya".
Ubugcisa ngumsebenzi wakho oqhubekayo. Umqondiso obalulekileyo wobukhoboka bokusebenza ngumsebenzi wokuhlala unobomi obusisigxina ozifumanayo kwimpumelelo yakho. I-Etayefory iphakame kakhulu kunokuba uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo lokudibanisa emsebenzini.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukugqithisa kakhulu - wena, ulala phantsi ehlombe lomntu othandekayo, emva kwesidlo sakusasa kakhulu, cinga nje ngomsebenzi wakho!
Dlulisa amaNtsomi
Cinga ngako, kodwa ukuba ungomnye wabasetyhini abakulungele ukuyeka ubomi babo ngenxa yemigangatho yabo yomsebenzi. Uhlala ugxininisa ukubaluleka komsebenzi wakho, kodwa umncinci wakho ubonakalise ukunganeliseki kwakho ngokusetyenziswa kwakho kobugcisa. Inokwenzeka ukuba, le ndoda iphantsi kweempembelelo zeendlovu ezisasazwa kwindoda yesilisa yomsebenzi we-Ozhensky. Ngoko ke, ukuba ibha yeempumelelo zakho kwiintsebenziswano zenza impembelelo engalunganga, kufuneka utyhile amehlo akho othandekayo kwiimeko zangempela zezinto kwaye uphephe zonke ezi ngongoma.
Inkolelo yokuqala. Inenekazi enyanisekileyo akufanele ikhuphuke kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kuzo zonke.
Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, ukhetho lokuqala kulomntu ummeli wesini esilungileyo kwiminyaka eyi-16. Kule minyaka, ibhinqa likhetha ubufazi kunye nokucacileyo okulandelayo kwinqanaba le nkokeli, okanye linika ukhetho lobuntu bakhe nempumelelo yomsebenzi. Udala iintsapho, unabantwana, oya kukhula kwaye, ngokuxhomekeke kumgama wabo kwintsapho yasekhaya, lona wesifazane uyaziphinde asebenze. Ukuba ibhinqa ehlukileyo ingqondo kunye neetalente, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kuba ngokulinganayo kwindlela yobugcisa bokuzifeza.
Inkolelo yesibini. Abasetyhini abakwazi kuba yienkokheli .
Enyanisweni, lona wesifazane unomsebenzi osebenzayo, kodwa ongeyindlela yokuziphazamisa abanye, ngoko ke, abafazi, njengomgaqo, baphatha ngaphandle kokunyanzeliswa, okuyinzuzo kakhulu ekusebenzeni kwamandla abo. Ngokunceda kusivula ngokukhululeka. Isitayela somntu wolawulo lwesini esifanelekileyo siyamangalisa. Isebenzisa indlela engeyona yendabuko, equka indawo yayo ukuba ibe yinto enqwenelekayo kwaye ize iphumelele uthando lonke kwaye ithande impumelelo.
Intsomi yesithathu. Abafazi bahlakaniphile ngokwaneleyo ukuphumeza impumelelo enkulu kwizinga lobugcisa.
Sekuyiminyaka engaphezu kweli-10 ukucacisa ikhono lokwenza umsebenzi othile usetyenziselwa ukusebenzisa umlingani wengqondo we-aykju. Njengomgaqo, kwinqanaba lendoda yabemi kulona luphawu oluphezulu. Kodwa namhlanje, i-aykju ibonakala ingaphantsi kwe-ecu - i-coefficient emotion. Ngokwenzululwazi, akukho nongqondi onokufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi ukuya phezulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukungaphumeleli emsebenzini akuhambelani nolwazi lokufunda nokubhala, kodwa ukungavumi kwisicwangciso sengqondo. Ingqiqo yeemvakalelo ezithintela ngqo kwiqondo lokudala lomntu. Kwaye i-ecu eyona nto iphambili ekuphumeleleni namhlanje. Ixabiso eliphambili lingaqwalaselwa ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, intuition, charm, ingqiqo, ukunyaniseka, uvelwano, ukuvuleka, umonde. Njengoko uqaphele, zonke ezi zi-qualitiesexist ngqo kwizesondo ezihle. Ngoko, ngubani onokuphikisana nekamva lokuba ngabafazi!
Ingqungquthela yesine. Intsapho kunye nezobugcisa zimbini ezichasene ngokupheleleyo nentsingiselo yazo kunye nencoko yalo mbono.
Uluntu luhlala lukhalaza ukuba ebomini bokuba ngumfazi wangempela, umsebenzi awufanele udlale indima ebalulekileyo. Emva koko, isiseko sobomi bowesifazane ngumzi, intsapho, abantwana. Ewe, konke oku kunomqondo, kodwa asifanele sikhohlwe iinjongo zabafazi. Amadoda amaninzi ayesaba ingcamango yokuba ibhinqa lizama ukunika umntwana, kuba akukho nto inokuthelekiswa kunye nolonwabo lomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Umntwana, njengomthetho, unokuguqula ubomi bomsebenzi wezobugcisa ukuba abe yintlungu yee-diapers kunye neengono, ngaloo ndlela amenze umfazi wendlu, kungekhona ibhinqa eliyimpumelelo. Kodwa yonke into kukuba a mabhinqa abhekisela kwimisebenzi engekho njengomntu onzima. Kuba ngumfazi, ukuziqonda nokwenza oko akuthandayo, kukuphakamileyo kunanoma yini enye.
Ingqungquthela yesihlanu. Bonke abaphengululi banenkani .
Kakade, le ngqungquthela inelungelo lobomi, kodwa kuphela kwimeko, ukuba kukho umntu olahlekelwa yindoda ecaleni komfazi, lowo umfazi ozama ukubonisa ityala lakhe.
Amabhunga ambalwa ebalulekileyo ekulungiseni isihloko
Ukukhula komsebenzi akuchaphazeli ulwalamano lwentsapho alunakugxeka umntu kunye nomsebenzi wakhe phantsi. Awudingi ukubonakalisa ukungcikiva kwimisebenzi yakho yasekhaya okanye ukuhlawulela ixesha lakho lomsebenzi. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, akuyimfuneko ukunciphisa yonke imixholo yengxoxo kwimpumelelo yakho, vumela loo mntu avele kwaye abe yinkokheli kwintsebenziswano yakho!